I know everyone has different goals/ambitions/circumstances but I just don’t understand... she is the same age as me, 27
I was 16 and it took a while I got a part time job in a supermarket a long side college, worked and saved so I could afford nice things, learnt to drive, got a car etc. As soon as I finished college I got a full time job and worked my way up the ladder, again saving and planning some sort of future. Fast forward all these years later I’m still working full time at the same company, managed to buy my house on my own and work hard to keep it and live the life I have... I really don’t understand people with no work ethic or goals ?! Or motivation for life and then just complain and complain. 27 years old, “working” 4 hours a day, 2 days a week in next... that is not ok ?! I worked more than that at 16 in Tesco! She needs to grow up and become independent and have some motivation and that will sort out half her problems guaranteed. I’m not disbelieving she has mental health issues, I have them too and struggle and so does half of the UK. But, staying at home being lazy and un motivated is her issue, she needs a reality check, grow up, accomplish a days work... at nearly 30 without being harsh I’d be embarrassed to be her !