I could never understand people being annoyed by not receiving a cash gift for getting married. Having a wedding is your choice. If someone doesn't want to or can't or whatever reason doesn't give you cash, so what! They more than likely spent their own money on an outfit, hair, makeup, childcare, hotel, travel, time off work etc. What do you do, tick off who gave you something and who didn't? Didn't these people come to celebrate YOUR decision to get married. FFS those posts are more annoying to read than looking at greedy Sinead ignore her child. PS I've had a wedding, couldn't tell ya who gave what. Thanked whoever had a name on a card but was more grateful all decided to spend our day with us.