Yeah, it is so sad. I think it is so morbid that she took photos of her husband dying, when he was unaware and shared them on Instagram. If she wanted to take them for personal use, fine, but I don't think she should have shared them online.
Her new husband is a guy she has known since she was a teenager. When her husband died he swooped back in and contacted her via a letter, 8 weeks later they married. At first I felt bad for her, as she had 5 kids and was obviously grief stricken and he took advantage of that. But, three years on, and I don't feel so bad for her, I feel bad for the kids. They don't see their grandparents anymore on their dad's side and this strange man came in and took "dad's" place. I am pretty sure the kids will resent her when they grow up. I was hoping that Emily would have a wake-up call and leave him but I don't think she will. He shot her by "mistake" and she didn't leave so who knows what he would have to do for her to leave. I bet Martin's (dead husband) parents worry about the kids.
Yeah, I wouldn't be surprised if she was in contact with her new husband when Martin was dying. It is awful.
Do you know what I find most jarring? You scroll back on her Instagram and there are photos of her and Martin, and the kids, as a family. Then poor Martin is dying / has died. Then eight weeks later, there is a new husband. It makes me feel ill. And then a year later she was pregnant with new husband's baby. She is mormon, though. Six kids by the time she is 26/27 is mad. Think of all the trauma the kids have been through at such a young age: their dad having cancer, their dad dying, and then their mum bringing a new man into their house eight weeks after he has died.
What makes me so sad is that her and Martin had a baby that was only a few months old when he died. She never got to know her dad and will have no memories of him.
Perhaps FF needs a thread of her own.