Some of these guys don't give up do they? Frightening really there are people around like this walking amongst us!
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signs are just an opinion and if it’s meant with malice it’s nothing we lose sleep over.
yes the majority of Sex work Is degrading and unsafe and damaging but when you’re not forced into it and you’re selling yourself by the hour to multiple clients then you will get god knows what walking through the door and it’s a BIG Risk. I understood this from the beginning and went looking for the long term secure route of a yearly agreement with one man. I use condoms without fail. We get tested every three months together. To me this is less risk than a conventional marriage or relationship! It’s open it’s honest and we know exactly what to expect from eachother.
this week I was spoilt to a 30k shopping day for no other reason than he adores me and we’ve been together nine months and I’ve made him so Happy and confident. Not once in these nine months have I felt unsafe, pressured or unhappy. My dad has even met Him
and he’s not the first client hes met!!
Someone asked about ethnicity, and it’s all Sorts!!! I have only ever taken on White men out of personal preference a South African, a French and two white english Married men.
signs are just an opinion and if it’s meant with malice it’s nothing we lose sleep over. yes the majority of Sex work Is degrading and unsafe and damaging but when you’re not forced into it and you’re selling yourself by the hour to multiple clients then you will get god knows what walking through the door and it’s a BIG Risk. I understood this from the beginning and went looking for the long term secure route of a yearly agreement with one man. I use condoms without fail. We get tested every three months together. To me this is less risk than a conventional marriage or relationship! It’s open it’s honest and we know exactly what to expect from eachother.
this week I was spoilt to a 30k shopping day for no other reason than he adores me and we’ve been together nine months and I’ve made him so Happy and confident. Not once in these nine months have I felt unsafe, pressured or unhappy. My dad has even met Him
and he’s not the first client hes met!! Someone asked about ethnicity, and it’s all Sorts!!! I have only ever taken on White men out of personal preference a South African, a French and two white english Married men.
I'm surprised men are using their real phone numbers for this. Talk about thick as mince. If I were them the first thing I would do is have a burner phone.Correct babe, there would only be comments under his number if it’s a bad experience. It’s purely to help other girls out for bad mind clients pretty much.
although I must say, when I did download the app at first I had a whale of a time going thru my contact list and see who been doing what!
I found out a friend (not really but uno) of mine, had been paying escorts with fake notes, I soon told him off!
It’s a tricky one tbh - I’ve found that a lot of older guys tend to use burner phones because of wives etc. But younger guys don’t really give a duck so will just use their number
This is such an interesting thread! Thanks to all the ladies for sharing their experiences.
@Detailing101 - I was really curious about this statement you made above. I find it beautiful how confident you sound regarding how your guy has benefited from your presence in his life. What would you say are the top 5 things you do that make him “happy & confident”?
you say you were treated to a £30K shopping spree for “no other reason than he adores me” ———— you cannot seriously think this is true?! Come on. He’s paying you for your company and for sex. He doesn’t adore you - he enjoys having Dec on tap whenever he wants it and all he has to do to get it is take out his credit card. why on Earth have you introduced a punter to your father?! Did you father know he was a punter? Does your Dad know you sell yourself for sex?The
yes the majority of Sex work Is degrading and unsafe and damaging but when you’re not forced into it and you’re selling yourself by the hour to multiple clients then you will get god knows what walking through the door and it’s a BIG Risk. I understood this from the beginning and went looking for the long term secure route of a yearly agreement with one man. I use condoms without fail. We get tested every three months together. To me this is less risk than a conventional marriage or relationship! It’s open it’s honest and we know exactly what to expect from eachother.
this week I was spoilt to a 30k shopping day for no other reason than he adores me and we’ve been together nine months and I’ve made him so Happy and confident. Not once in these nine months have I felt unsafe, pressured or unhappy. My dad has even met Him
Someone asked about ethnicity, and it’s all Sorts!!! I have only ever taken on White men out of personal preference a South African, a French and two white english Married men.
I’m also curious about this £30k?
what did you buy for 30k…it’s a lot of money for clothes - or anything and a lot in one go.
I know women who have lived in the best areas-courtesy of the (married) sugar daddy - who has lived elsewhere but these men only allowed them stuff brought on a credit card. They were careful never to give them any cash - it was a control mechanism.
also - she fell for him and tried to destroy his marriage, even met with the wife. She wanted to replace her & it didn’t happen. So she got to live in a beautiful part of town and a great wardrobe for a while.
what did you buy for 30k…it’s a lot of money for clothes - or anything and a lot in one go.
I know women who have lived in the best areas-courtesy of the (married) sugar daddy - who has lived elsewhere but these men only allowed them stuff brought on a credit card. They were careful never to give them any cash - it was a control mechanism.
also - she fell for him and tried to destroy his marriage, even met with the wife. She wanted to replace her & it didn’t happen. So she got to live in a beautiful part of town and a great wardrobe for a while.
£30K isn’t a lot if you are buying designer clothes/shoes/jewellery etc and wealthy people wouldn’t bat an eyelid at spending that in one afternoon
I get that. That’s assuming that wealthy means generous which is often not that case.
Also why was a married man paying for sex comfortable meeting your father?
Is he deluded into thinking he is doing a noble thing?
people need to check their moral compass. I don’t like what society has turned into. If he is such a good man why doesn’t he do the decent thing, leave his marriage instead of overcompensating in one area.
"Hi dad, meet Joe - I shag him for money, how liberal and chilled are we."
No thanks.
No thanks.
Sounds like a load of bollocks to me 
agree.Sounds like a load of bollocks to me
Yes it’s different to what we all consider the Norm. But I’m totally confident in my choices. As i said before I see my client as a real relationship with the added benefit of a secure income. If I wasn’t with him someone else would be.
But he’s great. He works full time in a high powered job. Travels. And doesn’t get enough time to meet someone conventionally and date and fit around another woman’s work schedule. This is why it works for him to have me.
Yes it’s paid and yes we have Sex. No I wouldn’t be with him out of choice if it wasn’t for the money to begin with but I do grow attached after a while believe it or not. He doesn’t pounce on me for sex everytime his credit card leaves his wallet. He’s not an animal, and as he has me all the time not just for a quick hour once a week he doesn’t feel the need to ‘take advantage’. That’s why it feels different.
My dad knows I’m happy, I do well, I support him during illness and I introduced him to these men because they’re a huge part of my life and I think for me personally if I have to hide something I shouldn’t be doing it. My dads comfortable with it because I am. And I have proved time and again that I’m safe secure and extremely happy.
30k isn’t a lot for a lot of men with money but I am always grateful for everything. It can all be taken away as quick as it’s given.
My client at the moment isn’t married so my ‘moral compass is intact’ right now but honestly the men are the ones cheating not the sex worker.
But he’s great. He works full time in a high powered job. Travels. And doesn’t get enough time to meet someone conventionally and date and fit around another woman’s work schedule. This is why it works for him to have me.
Yes it’s paid and yes we have Sex. No I wouldn’t be with him out of choice if it wasn’t for the money to begin with but I do grow attached after a while believe it or not. He doesn’t pounce on me for sex everytime his credit card leaves his wallet. He’s not an animal, and as he has me all the time not just for a quick hour once a week he doesn’t feel the need to ‘take advantage’. That’s why it feels different.
My dad knows I’m happy, I do well, I support him during illness and I introduced him to these men because they’re a huge part of my life and I think for me personally if I have to hide something I shouldn’t be doing it. My dads comfortable with it because I am. And I have proved time and again that I’m safe secure and extremely happy.
30k isn’t a lot for a lot of men with money but I am always grateful for everything. It can all be taken away as quick as it’s given.
My client at the moment isn’t married so my ‘moral compass is intact’ right now
but honestly the men are the ones cheating not the sex worker.Yes it’s different to what we all consider the Norm. But I’m totally confident in my choices. As i said before I see my client as a real relationship with the added benefit of a secure income. If I wasn’t with him someone else would be.
But he’s great. He works full time in a high powered job. Travels. And doesn’t get enough time to meet someone conventionally and date and fit around another woman’s work schedule. This is why it works for him to have me.
Yes it’s paid and yes we have Sex. No I wouldn’t be with him out of choice if it wasn’t for the money to begin with but I do grow attached after a while believe it or not. He doesn’t pounce on me for sex everytime his credit card leaves his wallet. He’s not an animal, and as he has me all the time not just for a quick hour once a week he doesn’t feel the need to ‘take advantage’. That’s why it feels different.
My dad knows I’m happy, I do well, I support him during illness and I introduced him to these men because they’re a huge part of my life and I think for me personally if I have to hide something I shouldn’t be doing it. My dads comfortable with it because I am. And I have proved time and again that I’m safe secure and extremely happy.
30k isn’t a lot for a lot of men with money but I am always grateful for everything. It can all be taken away as quick as it’s given.
My client at the moment isn’t married so my ‘moral compass is intact’ right now
I have always used seeking. And been very direct with what I wanted. Takes a long time to weed through the absolute tit on there though. It’s not easy.
Even if a particular post is bollocks, I thought the point of this thread was to discuss SW without judgement. Not the thread for you if you don't agree with it?
No-one agrees with exploitation but people escorting or having arrangements on their own terms doesn't sound so bad, and even if it is, it's their lives...
No-one agrees with exploitation but people escorting or having arrangements on their own terms doesn't sound so bad, and even if it is, it's their lives...
The point of the thread is to discuss, which means differing opinions.
I think most people do judge SW if they are honest. If you met someone at a Dinner party and they said they were a sex worker - are you telling me you would not judge them (internally)?
I think SW is being glamourised here and it’s become a sort of recruitment advice forum - which again is ok - as we are all different. However, you are offering sex for money - I don’t think it’s a “proud” moment either.
I’m loving the insights, trying not to be judge but it’s driven by curiosity not hate.
I think most people do judge SW if they are honest. If you met someone at a Dinner party and they said they were a sex worker - are you telling me you would not judge them (internally)?
I think SW is being glamourised here and it’s become a sort of recruitment advice forum - which again is ok - as we are all different. However, you are offering sex for money - I don’t think it’s a “proud” moment either.
I’m loving the insights, trying not to be judge but it’s driven by curiosity not hate.
To be perfectly honest no it’s not always about sex for guys. I had a sugar daddy who was a multi millionaire and he spent 25k on me before anything so much as a kiss happened. It does happen! It’s few and far between but they are out there. He would also take me on shopping sprees and say my budget was 10k or 20k and tbh by the time you buy a Chanel bag and maybe some Cartier there’s not much change from that anyways
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