Film a day in lockdown probs shouldn't start at lunchtime, then its not a full day. Also, couldn't think of a less interesting thing to watchFilm a day in lockdown. Why would anyone want to see that? Everyone's day is the same;wake, eat, do a bit of housework, go for a walk, watch tv, sleep, repeat
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Hoping I didn't offend anyone by using the phrase burned out. I am a key worker in the public sector (not NHS) and feel utterly exhausted and isolated in this time. My pay hasn't gone up, even with inflation in almost 2 years and we got a "thank you" box of chocolates for Christmas from our senior managers who have been exclusively working from home since March!
I meant it more in the way that she has got herself into a cycle that she cannot escape from. Posting is her job but also she probably wants to use SM like a normal person to interact with others as an escape from everyday life.
No course not
I thought you used that term due to liv saying the other night she was burned out. She said she was having a break due to burn out......cos her life is that hard work.
I think liv is chasing a career (if you can call it that) that isn't going to happen
Is it just me, or does she always seem to be sat in exactly the same spot every time she’s on her stories? It makes her look like she never moves. She always seems to be looking down at the camera so it catches her face from a really unflattering angle too, what’s all that about?
As much as I don’t think ‘social media influencer’ is an admirable career choice, some people do just seem to have a knack for it. Liv isn’t one of them.
As much as I don’t think ‘social media influencer’ is an admirable career choice, some people do just seem to have a knack for it. Liv isn’t one of them.
This woman hasn't mentioned her binge eating disorder for weeks....
You know the one she claimed to have, and be so ashamed of etc....
I am someone who has binge eating disorder and believe me this is NOT behaviour of someone who has this disorder. She is simply trying to label her overeating, so the bopo community dont reject her.
This has pissed me off so much. She is taking the piss out of people who do really suffer
You know the one she claimed to have, and be so ashamed of etc....
I am someone who has binge eating disorder and believe me this is NOT behaviour of someone who has this disorder. She is simply trying to label her overeating, so the bopo community dont reject her.
This has pissed me off so much. She is taking the piss out of people who do really suffer
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I agree.
I was cautious of calling her a liar but after seeing her latest story she just shows herself as the lazy, over eater she is. Def not BED. I also don’t believe she is bipolar either, or if she is, she is conveniently leaving out her BPD/EUPD diagnosis too. And I’m not being mean, I have EUPD among other things too.
I was cautious of calling her a liar but after seeing her latest story she just shows herself as the lazy, over eater she is. Def not BED. I also don’t believe she is bipolar either, or if she is, she is conveniently leaving out her BPD/EUPD diagnosis too. And I’m not being mean, I have EUPD among other things too.
Exactly. I have EUPD in my medical notes and also been diagnosed as bipolar since. I dont believe I am bipolar , and some of the symptoms are linked to other things and eupd fits more accurately. The name hasn't changed my medication as my symptoms are there, but to some bipolar sounds "better" than EUPD.
Regarding my BED, I have gained a horrendous about of weight 5st plus in 3 years, and even just sending a food diary in to the therapist has brought me to panic attacks and filled me with shame.
No one, no one, who I know with an eating disorder (any) would film themselves this way. Shame and anxiety around food is common with every eating disorder type.
Sorry but ill say it, she is bullshitting this BED to cover up her struggle with weight gain due to overeating. She will lose her platform if she talks about losing weight etc because her page is tit and has nothing else going for it. Hence she has the routine of jiggling belly songs, hauls, q&a, sex talk ...lather rinse repeat
I think a pd would make more sense, and she shouldn't be ashamed of admitting it. Someone very close to me has bpd and is a "textbook case" in that she ticks off all the major symptoms. Her emotions go from sky high (but not manic - for example I am having such a productive day!) to something minor pissing her off (she'll take a comment the wrong way) and her suddenly getting a temper to her realising she's been a bit extra with her anger and then getting really down, resulting in her being in a state where she could seriously hurt herself. It doesn't happen as much now she's been to extensive therapy and recognises triggers, started on several different meds that makes her feel more herself, etc. I know a few others with bpd, ocpd and avpd and again they have recounted similar stories or know their triggers. If Liv in the middle of the day in very excitable about something and posts about how she's gonna be so busy on her story and then we get to the 2am crying suicidal stories then it would make sense that she might be going through this cycle. Maybe a nasty comment set her off, or James and her had a mini fight - but as others have said, bipolar doesn't really work in that way (its very much a stereotype of the illness).
Also, the person close to me can be VERY compulsive - whilst she doesn't have an ED will if she's going through this cycle may overindulge when she's happy ("omg I went to the store and bought all these sweets cos they look so good, I'm gonna try them all") or perhaps when she's at her lowest for comfort. She also does this with spending and even cleaning. So if Liv was untreated for a pd then this might be a compulsion if she's going through mini cycles of emotions.
I think it would do Liv a world of good to have a proper job and lot more in her life . Constantly thinking about yourself and eating and lying about the house is a disaster for mental health . Sometimes the only thing that gets you out your own head is having other things to do .
(Excuse my typos in the above somehow can't edit in this thread!)
I completely agree with you. I’m not a text book PD case. Maybe Liv isn’t either and therefore thinks she doesn’t have a PD. I have long periods of stability and long periods of low. I used to be terribly impulsive especially in regards to self harm (I am over 120 days incident free
).she needs to take time off of Instagram, get a decent home routine in place, including house work. I mean, none of us like housework but it has to be done! She needs a proper filming, editing and upload schedule and actually put some effort in but I don’t think she is cut out for it it. She needs to get a proper job. She loved caring for her Nan so why not be a support worker or HCA? It will give her some purpose.
Right Liv, enough of saying you have an eating disorder because you have posted saying you love your body and that you are off to eat a burger. You are taking the piss when people are genuinely suffering from an ED.
do you ever eat any fruit or vegetables? You have pissed me right off now. Stop using an ED to get followers
do you ever eat any fruit or vegetables? You have pissed me right off now. Stop using an ED to get followers
She doesn't have binge eating disorder, you are right she is using it to get or retain her followers. Also Liv stop saying you are a curvy girl, to me her figure is not that of a curvy girl.Right Liv, enough of saying you have an eating disorder because you have posted saying you love your body and that you are off to eat a burger. You are taking the piss when people are genuinely suffering from an ED.
do you ever eat any fruit or vegetables? You have pissed me right off now. Stop using an ED to get followers
A burger?! She's an absolute bleeping liar! A greedy pig! That is literally all she is. A greedy lazy slob of a pig! I very much doubt she has any sort of mental health issues. It's all for the gram. What an utter disgrace of a person. That has proper pissed me off. Love your body and about to smash a burger when only a few weeks ago you were crying into your phone saying you had a binge eating disorder. bull! She just Googles tit. Googles symptoms, side affects etc and then says she has them to stay relevant. What an utter bellend. Shameful. duck off you bleep!
Oh dear. She’s about to crash...
For ducks sake!!!
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I’ve found myself thinking that she sounds like someone who’s just googled the symptoms on quite a few occasions when she’s been talking about her illnesses.
She just goes with what makes her seem popular. Whether that's mental health awareness, bopo, hauls etc.
I'm all for advocating mental health but liv is stuck on repeat
She's stuck on copy and repeat. She must spend her days looking for the next up and coming trend on Instagram, Google the tit out of it, then all of a sudden is declaring she's got it, had it, believes in it, doesn't believe in it, disorders, mh, big, small, diet, no diet, healthy eating, no healthy eating. Its all just a crock of a tit. She's an idiot. A lazy greedy idiot that has no genuine thoughts or ideas, no lane to truly commit to. Her numbers will continue to drop cos she's fake and boring as duck.
Minor annoyance here, but gets on my nerves that she doesn't iron anything. Like, it's so clear when she's just received an outfit in the post and and has whacked it on for a pic. Can see the creases where it has been folded! If this is your "job" now bloody put the work in!
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