She released that song shortly after the break-up when she was still hurt, why bring this up now, years after she released that song?
I don’t think you’re taking what I said the right way. Firstly there’s no law that says you can’t bring up someone’s song they released after a certain amount of time. Also in many of my previous posts I’ve spoke about empathy I’ve had for her when she was hurt during that time and I’ve acknowledged why songs like that are written I understand the art and being able to express how you feel that’s not what I have any problem with but if you’re going to release a song talking about being replaced by your famous ex then you have to expect people who are fans of you will hear that song and dislike your ex cause they’re not going to hear those lyrics and go I’m so happy for her for being replaced , they’re going to immediately feel sorry for her of course cause being replaced is hurtful.
Those same super fans are going to express some sort of dislike towards Justin and the person that replaced Selena which is Hailey. Selena was aware that would happen by releasing that song same way when Taylor swift released a song about her ex in all too well people figured out who that was and expressed dislike towards him. I’m not saying these men don’t deserve that or that they’re innocent but I’m just saying anything these celebrities say or do will have that kind of reaction.
I’ve said many times I get why selena was hurt at that time of course she’s human I wouldn’t wish for anyone to feel replaced and hurt but it’s been years now and she still refers to that relationship, wants to talk about it by liking things and commenting and approving of questions about it in interviews. Yeah that’s her choice but in my opinion she does herself not favours because she should want to be associated with the work she’s doing now the good things she’s achieved and not pay any attention to anything that brings up her ex. She said after she released the song lose you to love me that was her closure she was never going to speak about that part of her life again but she still is. I’m not saying someone’s past can be erased or that it’s easy to just forget but I just think she can be sly and for her sake needs to let it go.
If you’re a big Selena fan that’s fine but no point being on this thread if you don’t like seeing different opinions. You could easily skip over my posts.
Also Selena posted this 3 months ago so clearly she’s fine with her song still being discussed and brought up when she’s bringing it up