Kinell. Can I just say the scissoring/tribbing thing would be the biggest red flag for me. Unless you're both skinny and gymnast level flexible it's a fucking difficult position to get into, then when you're eventually there one of you inevitably gets cramp straight away.
A similar thing happened on a forum I was on about 15 years ago. This girl used to say she was coming to the forum meetups (Jaydiocity for anyone who knows it) but never showed and always made excuses.
I spoke to her on the phone a few times and I was at Pride once and she said she would meet me outside GBar. I could hear the same background noise on the call so knew she was there. I stood outside for ages but she never came. Realised years later when we found out she was fake that she was probably stood watching me from within the crowd.
Fucking top class weirdos.
