The exact same thing happened to me, I didn't really think about it and then I suddenly realised what it was actually about and it grossed me out

Seeing as it's supposedly a dig at Camilla Carbello as well it's a bit much for a pop song I thought, I must be getting old.
I don't generally like this weird parasocial thing going on in music at the moment where it's made clear exactly "who" in the public eye songs are about. I preferred it when music was just music without this weird parasocial connection of knowing who/what exactly all songs are about. It's derived from TS's success I think.
I miss pop music being mostly unplaceable nonsense, personally