Ruby Tuesday Matthews

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She must have edited her comment. Here is her current post.
I assume/hope she will also be addressing her substance issues while she’s away.
No mention of her partner/fiancée in that post.. no way would I ever post that publicly but if you are going to and mention everyone why not your partner? If it’s that bad he could take leave from work for a week or work at home… seriously!
 
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I hope she is really ok. She should be off socials now (not for another 7 days). The $60 t-shirts that her son made still has me 🤯
 
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Not gonna lie…. she *almost* had me until she rolled out of her sympathy posts and straight into sponsored content. Like, I get it, you’re an influencer and it’s your job, but don’t use post natal depression as a precursor to an undisclosed eyebrow gel ad.
 
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She just went live. She read this. She said she doesn’t have an eating disorder. She had a nervous breakdown.
Her partner and her are fine but he has to work to pay the mortgage I think for the sake of her well-being which affects her 3 children, people should be a bit careful at the moment.
 
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I just watched her live..completely agree.. people do need to be careful atm..her mental health is not good...she said tattle is what set her spiralling..like the last straw was reading this thread and she will never read it again.
 
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She is pathetic, wonder how bad baby daddy #3 will be. This witch brought it all on herself with her shocking choices. She has obviously been dumped but seriously what kind of mother/woman would put up with that tit anyway :sick:
RTM puts her life out there for criticism but I suppose on some level, regardless of her oversharing and tit judgement on majority of things, shaming and blaming women for having crappy partners is part of the issue itself.
 
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RTM puts her life out there for criticism but I suppose on some level, regardless of her oversharing and tit judgement on majority of things, shaming and blaming women for having crappy partners is part of the issue itself.
I don't know though she is making the choice. I feel bad for her but surely she knows that behaviour like that should not be acceptable.
Also if she doesn't want people to talk about her she needs to stay of social media.
 
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Yep, you know what’s going to happen love and you do it for the engagement anyway.

Randomly my partner saw Ruby out at dinner last night. So not checked in anywhere. He said she looked really unwell, and was on her phone the entire time. Taking 3 kids from Bangalow to Byron on a Monday night to go out for sushi sounds like an effort she doesn’t have the energy for so why do it? And again, where is Dodzy?
 

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Yep, you know what’s going to happen love and you do it for the engagement anyway.

Randomly my partner saw Ruby out at dinner last night. So not checked in anywhere. He said she looked really unwell, and was on her phone the entire time. Taking 3 kids from Bangalow to Byron on a Monday night to go out for sushi sounds like an effort she doesn’t have the energy for so why do it? And again, where is Dodzy?
I've done 4 weeks solo when my 2 kids 16 months apart were babies with no help and i was working a corporate job 4 days a week...

its stressful and I feel for her but she puts all this pressure on herself, the immaculate house (i'm the same), the going out to restaurants with 3 kids (just get takeaway FFS), the surgery for the boobs (she could have waited a year or so), the probably huge mortgage....the exy lifestyle...
 
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There are parents all around the world who work their asses off solo for their multiple kids with no help or family/partners - they just don't have the enormous privilege of having a big income and brand endorsements to see them through. She acts like if she doesn't work she won't have any money to feed her children....come on ruby, you have plenty of $$ don't pretend you will be struggling without a week on social media "working". Some of us families are actually struggling to survive with dual incomes and average houses to pay for. The entitlement drives me bonkers. She acts like she's the only woman whose ever looked after 3 kids alone and had a job??
 
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On her live yesterday, she absolutely dragged us for commenting on her body, with suggestions of disordered eating leading her outrage. I’ve got a private Instagram account with a few hundred followers. If I posted myself, looking skeletal, wearing barely any clothes so you can really see my body, you know what? I would absolutely expect people to comment - to me, AND behind my back. These influencers act like they’ve got some sort of invisible force field around them to protect them from scrutiny - it’s so ridiculous.

She posts videos of herself daily in her swimwear and underwear, looking dangerously thin, to nearly a quarter of a million strangers. What the duck does she expect???
 
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On her live yesterday, she absolutely dragged us for commenting on her body, with suggestions of disordered eating leading her outrage. I’ve got a private Instagram account with a few hundred followers. If I posted myself, looking skeletal, wearing barely any clothes so you can really see my body, you know what? I would absolutely expect people to comment - to me, AND behind my back. These influencers act like they’ve got some sort of invisible force field around them to protect them from scrutiny - it’s so ridiculous.

She posts videos of herself daily in her swimwear and underwear, looking dangerously thin, to nearly a quarter of a million strangers. What the duck does she expect???
Well, she’s going away for some sort of rehab or mental health program so clearly what is being discussed here is on point. If it is what sent her over the edge to get the help she so obviously needs then it ultimately will have had a positive effect. She is clearly struggling and her weight is the telltale sign. Whether she wants to admit it or not, it’s the truth. Did she address the drug use accusations at all? I’m guessing she didn't bother to acknowledge the fact that she was sniffing all through her little rant about the blowback she was getting for posting the revealing photos of her son?
 
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There are parents all around the world who work their asses off solo for their multiple kids with no help or family/partners - they just don't have the enormous privilege of having a big income and brand endorsements to see them through. She acts like if she doesn't work she won't have any money to feed her children....come on ruby, you have plenty of $$ don't pretend you will be struggling without a week on social media "working". Some of us families are actually struggling to survive with dual incomes and average houses to pay for. The entitlement drives me bonkers. She acts like she's the only woman whose ever looked after 3 kids alone and had a job??
I would say she is the only woman ever to look after her kids in her specific situation (a lot of which we don’t know), and therefore is entitled to have her own response to this based on her mental health? Don’t think there’s a rule book for coping nor rewards for being able to cope better than others.

She is problematic in respects but I find it harmful to invalidate a women who says she’s struggling to the point of a nervous breakdown and needing support because others have the same number of kids and less money and cope ok?
 
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Well, she’s going away for some sort of rehab or mental health program so clearly what is being discussed here is on point. If it is what sent her over the edge to get the help she so obviously needs then it ultimately will have had a positive effect. She is clearly struggling and her weight is the telltale sign. Whether she wants to admit it or not, it’s the truth. Did she address the drug use accusations at all? I’m guessing she didn't bother to acknowledge the fact that she was sniffing all through her little rant about the blowback she was getting for posting the revealing photos of her son?
Didn’t address the drug use, and didn’t specifically address the sexualised photos for the Robey campaign, but said it’s cruel to suggest that she exploits her children. Called us all bullies who mustn’t have kids and should lead with kindness. She read this entire thread and it pushed her over the edge, which is terrible, but not our fault. I mean, the thing about Tattle - for the most part - is that it offers up an alternate view of the highly sanitised space Influencers want to exist in. On Instagram, if you don’t agree or don’t blow smoke up everyone’s ass, you get blocked or attacked by diehard fans. Which makes the platform highly misleading.

Tattle allows those non-flattering observations to be shared for a more balanced & objective review of influencer behaviour. There’s no denying some take it too far, but you don’t see Tom Cruise blowing up on his stories about the tit people say about him - he’s a public figure, and with that, comes public opinions.

Sniffing your way through a bunch of erratic stories? Some people may assume drug use. Posting photos of your children naked? Some people may be concerned about their safety. No sign of your fiancé helping you raise your 3 kids? Some people may question where he is and why he isn’t doing the bare minimum. I mean, it makes sense right?

I truly hope she gets the help she needs, and a week off her phone provides some much-needed perspective.
 
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On her live yesterday, she absolutely dragged us for commenting on her body, with suggestions of disordered eating leading her outrage. I’ve got a private Instagram account with a few hundred followers. If I posted myself, looking skeletal, wearing barely any clothes so you can really see my body, you know what? I would absolutely expect people to comment - to me, AND behind my back. These influencers act like they’ve got some sort of invisible force field around them to protect them from scrutiny - it’s so ridiculous.

She posts videos of herself daily in her swimwear and underwear, looking dangerously thin, to nearly a quarter of a million strangers. What the duck does she expect???
Don’t forget she pointed out wearing her 7 year old sons shorts.
 
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