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heretolurklolzz

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Comments invaliding her after her opening up about her mental health are gross. I’m all for calling out influencers for problematic behaviour but comparing situations aren’t it. Yes she has a more flexible lifestyle and more money than others, does that mean her mental health doesn’t matter?
Do better, especially when some of these comments are coming from mothers.
 
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StickyTapeTits

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On her live yesterday, she absolutely dragged us for commenting on her body, with suggestions of disordered eating leading her outrage. I’ve got a private Instagram account with a few hundred followers. If I posted myself, looking skeletal, wearing barely any clothes so you can really see my body, you know what? I would absolutely expect people to comment - to me, AND behind my back. These influencers act like they’ve got some sort of invisible force field around them to protect them from scrutiny - it’s so ridiculous.

She posts videos of herself daily in her swimwear and underwear, looking dangerously thin, to nearly a quarter of a million strangers. What the fuck does she expect???
 
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EveryDaysASoulDay

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Can we just for a minute appreciate how truly bizarre this chick is? The rant yesterday was wild.
The fact that she did the whole thing with her giant alien head sticking through the curtains - wtf you weirdo? Like that’s a normal position you ever find yourself in 🥴 And then bent over and looking down at the camera to top it off. Sit down like a normal person, you idiot, instead of some egomaniacal clown contorting herself to find the most flattering light in the house. And then the sniffing and wiping her nose the whole way through, buzzing like a live wire from the bump of coke she had obviously just done. What a trip.
 

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ljch

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I FUCKING HATE when influencers say shit like ‘my kid loves being in front of the camera, my kid wanted to pose like this’. Of course they fucking do because they’re imitating what they see every fucking day. But it’s up to you as a parent to not exploit them. My kid loves a good pose too but there’s no way in hell I would post those images for the world to see, because it’s my job as a parent to protect them now, and to protect them as adults so they don’t see these images as adults and think why the fuck did you share that with so many people?
 
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EveryDaysASoulDay

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I'm so glad someone else thought her peeping through the curtains was bizarre
What’s truly bizarre is that as a culture we are so used to influencers doing the weirdest, most narcissistic shit constantly that we accept it as common place now and it doesn’t even register half of the time. We have become inured to behaviour that just 10 years ago would have illicited hysterical laughter at the sheer self-centeredness of it. Even in cultures that have elevated taking the piss to an art form (my own, and the rest of you all know who you are 😄) this behaviour now goes largely unnoticed.
Personally I’m a big proponent of bringing back shaming for acting like a self-consumed jackass.
 
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frenchiefern

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It is amusing how someone can make such shit choices in their own life and then play the victim because they receive the repercussions for that.

1.) She makes shit choices in men - one is a deadbeat and possibly dangerous dad, the other “partner” she doesn’t even live with and is essentially non-existent. That’s on you baby girl. Had you picked better you wouldn’t be in this situation and would have the support you need.

2.) She has a drug problem. She has an entirely too casual, laissez-faire attitude towards cocaine and has ended up an addict - as one does when you think taking a narcotic on a daily basis is no big deal.

3.) Of all the avenues available to her to make money she consciously CHOSE to commodify the her life. She chose to give access to the most personal part of her existence to millions of strangers to make money. She chose to exploit herself. You simply cannot ask for public scrutiny to line your pockets and then get offended when that scrutiny picks up your dysfunction and has an opinion about it. This is the deal you made with the devil to make obscene amounts of money off of doing nothing but loving yourself sick in front of a mirror. You silly narc.

Dropping all of her slides here for the archives.
100%. Go and get a job in a clothes shop if you don’t want to be scrutinized in the life you chose.

Also the complaining about working. Imagine if she had an actual job, one where she didn’t just talk drivel to camera and skinny pose in her freebies all day, and had to get the kids to school and day care and herself out to work. You make shitty hats and robes in a business you, again, chose to create. You control the timelines and you knew roughly when you were due to give birth. My heart is not bleeding for you because you had to circle a colour choice.
 
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Libertine

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Genuinely curious to hear why?
Apart from Adam’s tabloid, shock jock presentation of content, he has a shady background, he has been charged with assaulting teens, and complaints have been made to the Australian Charities and Not-for-profit Commission in regards to his accounting.

But even putting all that to the side, Adam is whipping up fear and encouraging citizen vigilantes. There’s so much that can go wrong when vigilantes take matters into their own hands - which is probably why Tattle has a ‘keep it on Tattle’ rule.

A reasonable person would already know the dangers of posting their children’s images and information online. They don’t need to read gutter stories to know it isn’t a smart idea. Many influencers make the bulk of their income through exploiting their children so they don’t care what he posts. He isn’t changing their minds. So what purpose does it serve?

I think Adam gets off on all the attention and outrage he generates by trawling the depths of the interwebz for shocking stories. It makes me feel queasy because he too is exploiting those children’s stories for his own gain.

I bet Adam would love a column in a tabloid newspaper. 🤢
 
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StickyTapeTits

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What’s truly bizarre is that as a culture we are so used to influencers doing the weirdest, most narcissistic shit constantly that we accept it as common place now and it doesn’t even register half of the time. We have become inured to behaviour that just 10 years ago would have illicited hysterical laughter at the sheer self-centeredness of it. Even in cultures that have elevated taking the piss to an art form (my own, and the rest of you all know who you are 😄) this behaviour now goes largely unnoticed.
Personally I’m a big proponent of bringing back shaming for acting like a self-consumed jackass.
IT’S LIKE YOU LIVE INSIDE MY MIIIIIIIIND!!

I hate that us poor old critical thinkers can’t push back or question these fragile fuckers even the slightest without being labelled as bullies or trolls?! As you say, 10 years ago, if some middle aged woman in a cheap crop top and clacky mules was filming herself talking & giggling to nobody at Woolies, I would’ve called security. (And you all know who I’m talking about….. :sneaky:). It’s all become so normalised to the point where nobody has a clue what’s even normal anymore. Jesus wept.
 
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The thing is Ruby, people tend not to walk around with big flashing signs on their heads saying PEDOPHILE. Those sites aren’t out in the open for people to stumble across, nor would any normal person go looking. The reason there is such a problem is it is really hard to identify the perpetrators and call them out! That’s why it’s our job, as parents, to protect our children as best we can.

It looks like it’s an ad for the child, not for the hat.
 
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theweeklyblowout

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I actually found the campaign shoots of her son disgusting and verging on dangerous territory. The low slung pants and no shirt, I’m not even going to screenshot for here because it’s so unacceptable. Still on her stories. Hopefully not for long.
 
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influenzaaar

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Yeah I get what you mean but it honestly didn’t seem like she was trying to get attention I think she was just letting out some emotion she had been holding onto. She also spoke about getting raped when she was 14. Also that she thought her son is basically the way she was when she was younger because she was also diagnosed with ADHD. She now understands what it was like for her mum to raise her as she is dealing with a similar situation with her son. 🤷‍♀️
Sounds like girly needs a therapist not a podcast
 
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StickyTapeTits

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She knows EXACTLY what she’s doing here and I think it’s very, very dangerous. There is absolutely no need for her to be showcasing her very underweight body like this.

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“I didn’t realise the images could be interpreted in a negative way. To me they represented Mars and his personality, but I see now how they could be misconstrued by people with nefarious purposes. I have deleted the images and ask everyone with a copy to do the same. I will endeavour to become more educated on these issues and do better in the future”

See, Ruby? Not that hard.
 
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Libertine

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Adam Whittington is highly problematic.

I was actually surprised Ruby and the baby daddy keep trying to recruit a nanny through IG. It’s so amateurish. They have the resources to use a really good nanny agency and find a well vetted, long term nanny.

It’s almost like the kids are IG accessories rather than dependents you put lots of effort into.
 
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heretolurklolzz

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I find it interesting how she keeps mentioning she has to look after her boys 24/7 now. She seems pissed about it. I am sure it’s disappointing and upsetting when the other parent fails your children. But honestly when you choose to have a child, your job is to look after them 24/7 - there is no guarantee the other parent will step up or stay around. I just don’t think complaining about having the kids you chose to have is it. That’s your job.
Hmmm no I’d be absolutely pissed for myself and my children if my children’s father was active in their life then suddenly never saw them again. That’s a lot of trauma for a child.
Just like you said, it’s your job to look after your children 24/7, why can dads do whatever they want and mums just have to suck it up?
I respect that she’s honest about not handling it well. Don’t like her, but it must be very hard.
 
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influenzaaar

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Long time follower of RTM however I’ve unfollowed today. The only way to vote for change with an influencer is by taking away their power, and that is by unfollowing.
 
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Wtf was that response?!? Yeah, my kids run around the house naked, but when they’re in public I protect them and I certainly don’t upload photos of them like that to the internet. It doesn’t matter it that’s how Mars likes to pose or that he agrees, it’s not informed consent when he is a child.

Yes, the people that sexualise children are the creeps. But it’s YOUR job to protect them from that.
 
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yesok1

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Can we just for a minute appreciate how truly bizarre this chick is? The rant yesterday was wild.
The fact that she did the whole thing with her giant alien head sticking through the curtains - wtf you weirdo? Like that’s a normal position you ever find yourself in 🥴 And then bent over and looking down at the camera to top it off. Sit down like a normal person, you idiot, instead of some egomaniacal clown contorting herself to find the most flattering light in the house. And then the sniffing and wiping her nose the whole way through, buzzing like a live wire from the bump of coke she had obviously just done. What a trip.
I'm so glad someone else thought her peeping through the curtains was bizarre
 
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influenzaaar

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I LOATHE the take of “I have lived experience and therefore my actions are exempt from being criticised”
 
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StickyTapeTits

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Well, she’s going away for some sort of rehab or mental health program so clearly what is being discussed here is on point. If it is what sent her over the edge to get the help she so obviously needs then it ultimately will have had a positive effect. She is clearly struggling and her weight is the telltale sign. Whether she wants to admit it or not, it’s the truth. Did she address the drug use accusations at all? I’m guessing she didn't bother to acknowledge the fact that she was sniffing all through her little rant about the blowback she was getting for posting the revealing photos of her son?
Didn’t address the drug use, and didn’t specifically address the sexualised photos for the Robey campaign, but said it’s cruel to suggest that she exploits her children. Called us all bullies who mustn’t have kids and should lead with kindness. She read this entire thread and it pushed her over the edge, which is terrible, but not our fault. I mean, the thing about Tattle - for the most part - is that it offers up an alternate view of the highly sanitised space Influencers want to exist in. On Instagram, if you don’t agree or don’t blow smoke up everyone’s ass, you get blocked or attacked by diehard fans. Which makes the platform highly misleading.

Tattle allows those non-flattering observations to be shared for a more balanced & objective review of influencer behaviour. There’s no denying some take it too far, but you don’t see Tom Cruise blowing up on his stories about the shit people say about him - he’s a public figure, and with that, comes public opinions.

Sniffing your way through a bunch of erratic stories? Some people may assume drug use. Posting photos of your children naked? Some people may be concerned about their safety. No sign of your fiancé helping you raise your 3 kids? Some people may question where he is and why he isn’t doing the bare minimum. I mean, it makes sense right?

I truly hope she gets the help she needs, and a week off her phone provides some much-needed perspective.
 
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