Ruby Tuesday Matthews

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I wish she would put a hat on holiday! Insanely hot day with UV upwards of 11 but she’s gotta get that gram footage. Gross
 
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I wish she would put a hat on holiday! Insanely hot day with UV upwards of 11 but she’s gotta get that gram footage. Gross
I’m sure that wouldn’t provide the content she wants shown. That’s all RTM is about. A fake online presence and following.
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Yes! Her hair looks like it’s thinning and she looks exhausted and miserable all the time.
Prob from all the “meds” for adhd
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She has rubbed a couple of local businesses up the wrong way lately, taking 1000s worth of stock with the premise she will promote and crickets... Theyre angry, no contract as a small business and the verbal was enough for them at the time.
They should start chasing her like the tax department are for their 100k debt
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Her stories this morning…’I was watching the boys swim and they got taken by a rip, how could this happen?’ Goes on to talk about how prone this beach is for rips and that’s there always a rip there..
imagine letting your 2 children at that age swim in a beach prone for rips unsupervised (like most beaches in NSW and QLD) and neglect them like that.
I guess there was no content to shoot
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I feel like she also used to have dodzy in her bio, and pictures of him on the grid? The writing has definitely been on the wall for these two if the have broken up.
He is around. She just doesn’t show it because she wants to control everything and play the single mum sympathy card. She never and I mean never actually does the parenting by herself.

her boys are with there dad every second week. He is in picture yet she won’t advertise that. Her parents look after the kids a lot too. Holiday has an active and caring father.

but RTM plays it very differently for the content.
 
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I can confirm her “drop kick” of a partner is exactly the opposite. Her whole fake life posted on her socials is total opposite to reality.

RTM is a narcissistic and manipulative PoS that abuses everyone in her family. Threatens to hurt herself if she doesn’t get her way. And abuses her partner no end. He supports the family because she can’t make any real money. He doesn’t want to be a part of the fake world that’s shown. Yet he cops the brunt of it.

everything is blown out of proportion. RTM is a neglectful parent and abusive partner.
This sounds like 🍿 🍵

so I noticed one of the boys birthdays when the other boy was sick, I forget which, she mentioned their dad came and saved the day by attending the bday instead of her. So I figured he’s not out of the picture as was implied earlier in the year.

soo is she in a relationship with dodzy?
 
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This sounds like 🍿 🍵

so I noticed one of the boys birthdays when the other boy was sick, I forget which, she mentioned their dad came and saved the day by attending the bday instead of her. So I figured he’s not out of the picture as was implied earlier in the year.

soo is she in a relationship with dodzy?
Correct that’s the only mention of the boys father coming back into the picture. After she got an IVO out on him and stopped the boys from seeing him which was later thrown out by the authorities. He is back and has them every second weekend.

as for the relationship. I think that’s something we should all be asking Ruby. Her mind seems to change every day or 2 and her partner is basically hanging on to his own mental state by a thread trying to deal with her mental health issues and provide for them to keep the house they live in as well as look after his daughter as much as he can.
 
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Correct that’s the only mention of the boys father coming back into the picture. After she got an IVO out on him and stopped the boys from seeing him which was later thrown out by the authorities. He is back and has them every second weekend.

as for the relationship. I think that’s something we should all be asking Ruby. Her mind seems to change every day or 2 and her partner is basically hanging on to his own mental state by a thread trying to deal with her mental health issues and provide for them to keep the house they live in as well as look after his daughter as much as he can.
She talked about an incident that happened with the boys dad and after that they didn’t see him at all. Any idea what that was ??
 
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Correct that’s the only mention of the boys father coming back into the picture. After she got an IVO out on him and stopped the boys from seeing him which was later thrown out by the authorities. He is back and has them every second weekend.

as for the relationship. I think that’s something we should all be asking Ruby. Her mind seems to change every day or 2 and her partner is basically hanging on to his own mental state by a thread trying to deal with her mental health issues and provide for them to keep the house they live in as well as look after his daughter as much as he can.
I am here for this!
 
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Yes assuming it’s true. I’m very suspect of people who accuse women of lying about domestic abuse..
I don’t think she accused RTM of lying about domestic abuse as such; but that the IVO with her ex was thrown out, but didn’t say the IVO was actually made due to RTM making a baseless domestic violence accusation.
An IVO is an intervention order. For reference I’ve had a friend who called the cops on her boyfriend because they were arguing, and an IVO was ordered. He was never violent and nor did she say he was. It was simply put in place and then removed when they had the hearing.
Anyway carry onnnnn 🫖
 
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Anyone else seeing this comment? I kind of find this hard to believe. She loves how skinny she is. Also isn't a physician and a GP the same thing?
the missing part here is all the self medicating and eating disorder.
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Hah
Wooow a new member here to “set the record straight” you obviously know her and have personal beef? Are you Dodzy’s mum or something? 😂
Haha no not anyone’s mum. I just have personal insight to what really happens and it’s getting to the point where Ruby needs a significant reality check.

When I say abusive it’s via gaslighting and control. Words and threats of self harm and withholding children until they get what they want.

all that matters to Ruby in life is her social media following and falsified life. You can believe or not believe whatever you want that’s not my concern but I have had enough of the fake stories and shaming
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Yes assuming it’s true. I’m very suspect of people who accuse women of lying about domestic abuse..
And in reference to the IVO it was put in place. It was against the father for an incident involving the children. One was hurt and this was put in place. It was later removed as it wasn’t justified. This is a common thing to happened.

he was excluded from their lives for approx 6 months then it was thrown out and he is back again. I struggle to see how this is in the children’s benefit.
 
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the missing part here is all the self medicating and eating disorder.
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Hah

Haha no not anyone’s mum. I just have personal insight to what really happens and it’s getting to the point where Ruby needs a significant reality check.

When I say abusive it’s via gaslighting and control. Words and threats of self harm and withholding children until they get what they want.

all that matters to Ruby in life is her social media following and falsified life. You can believe or not believe whatever you want that’s not my concern but I have had enough of the fake stories and shaming
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And in reference to the IVO it was put in place. It was against the father for an incident involving the children. One was hurt and this was put in place. It was later removed as it wasn’t justified. This is a common thing to happened.

he was excluded from their lives for approx 6 months then it was thrown out and he is back again. I struggle to see how this is in the children’s benefit.
Interesting because the children are constantly coming to strife with ruby sooo 🤔 hard to know from the outside I suppose as it relates to kids and injuries
 
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Dodzy and Ruby aren’t following eachother .. again
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the missing part here is all the self medicating and eating disorder.
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Hah

Haha no not anyone’s mum. I just have personal insight to what really happens and it’s getting to the point where Ruby needs a significant reality check.

When I say abusive it’s via gaslighting and control. Words and threats of self harm and withholding children until they get what they want.

all that matters to Ruby in life is her social media following and falsified life. You can believe or not believe whatever you want that’s not my concern but I have had enough of the fake stories and shaming
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And in reference to the IVO it was put in place. It was against the father for an incident involving the children. One was hurt and this was put in place. It was later removed as it wasn’t justified. This is a common thing to happened.

he was excluded from their lives for approx 6 months then it was thrown out and he is back again. I struggle to see how this is in the children’s benefit.
How were they hurt?
 
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Anyone else seeing this comment? I kind of find this hard to believe. She loves how skinny she is. Also isn't a physician and a GP the same thing?
She’s always “dealing with something”, also my fight or flight mode I gain weight 😂😂
 
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Dodzy and Ruby aren’t following eachother .. again
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How were they hurt?
They aren’t following each other because Ruby has blocked him. This is part of the control and manipulating behaviour she portrays.

One of the boys had a hurt arm ( I heard broken but then it wasn’t) unsure of the specifics but that event rolled into protection orders being put in place.
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Interesting because the children are constantly coming to strife with ruby sooo 🤔 hard to know from the outside I suppose as it relates to kids and injuries
Yes they are constantly getting hurt. From what I’m aware of it’s more to do with RTM being focused on her social media world and not paying attention.
 
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They aren’t following each other because Ruby has blocked him. This is part of the control and manipulating behaviour she portrays.

One of the boys had a hurt arm ( I heard broken but then it wasn’t) unsure of the specifics but that event rolled into protection orders being put in place.
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Yes they are constantly getting hurt. From what I’m aware of it’s more to do with RTM being focused on her social media world and not paying attention.
She hadn’t blocked as she’s still tagged in his post, just unfollowed!
Do you know what the case she was talking about that happened at a cassino a few years ago. A family member a cousin i think. She talked about it and said she’d update but never dies.
 
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They aren’t following each other because Ruby has blocked him. This is part of the control and manipulating behaviour she portrays.

One of the boys had a hurt arm ( I heard broken but then it wasn’t) unsure of the specifics but that event rolled into protection orders being put in place.
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Yes they are constantly getting hurt. From what I’m aware of it’s more to do with RTM being focused on her social media world and not paying attention.
Sad for the kids. Can I know more about the 100k tax debt 😂
 
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Is ndis means tested !? I mean she drives a 200k car doesn’t she, and claiming ndis? Idk
No it isn't and I personally don't think it should be. No matter how much money you earn?! If you have a child with a disability you can never have 'too much'

There is never enough therapy you can do, enough sensory toys they can have etc.
 
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