Faceymcfacey
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There is a saying, 'when people show you who they are believe them.'
And for some of her followers who may not have looked that closely, on the surface her sad beige parenting style probably does look like it aligns with their values, and she does say she's living seasonally etc
But the truth is: she buys and sells second hand clothes for the money in both instances. It has nothing to do with sustainable, ethical living although it is a good mask for her tightness.
She never, ever donates anything.
She lives seasonally as long as its summer.
She's not practising slow living by taking her children out of school...because if she truly believed that she'd home school them. But she'd never actually do that at this age because it's too much work so she'll use school like optional child care. Instead waiting until they are old enough to be able to read/write/have basic maths and then take them out. It will absolutely not be in their best interests because nothing ever is, but instead so she can travel and validate all on instagram as aspirational.
She's banned the word 'fat' but absolutely practises disordered eating still. And worse pushes it on her kids. The way they eat isn't for their health but so Becky and her kids don't commit the cardinal sin of getting fat. Evidenced by the fact she doesn't give a flying fuck about giving them unregulated drugs to get them to sleep (again not in their best interests, but Becky's own).
She's worried about smart phone ownership and what it will do to their mental health but not what sharing every aspect of her and their lives since birth will do to their mental health. The fact that strangers know their full names, birth dates, school, address and house layout doesn't bother her. The fact that they can never just be, but are instead made to perform for the gram over and over again doesn't bother her. Make it make sense.
And also Becky, you're worried about smart phones when without one you were groomed at 13.
Temu is such a bad call, but not at all shocking to us. She doesn't actually care if child labour was used so that her children can have the perfect piece of tat because its not her children being damaged
and were not talking white boden esque, Blyton living children so in Becky's mind, 'do they even really count?'
Truth is there is no logic to Becky, just what she wants to protray but not actually live by...she pretends like a child. And that is at the crux of all of these issues...disordered eating, unable to form a coherent opinion, putting herself before her children, not giving a shit about the rest of the world, jumping on bandwagons...some of us were groomed at 13 Becky, and it really shows.
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Also want to add, I realise fellow tattlers have said this all before...I'm not adding anything new. I'm just incensed.
And for some of her followers who may not have looked that closely, on the surface her sad beige parenting style probably does look like it aligns with their values, and she does say she's living seasonally etc
But the truth is: she buys and sells second hand clothes for the money in both instances. It has nothing to do with sustainable, ethical living although it is a good mask for her tightness.
She never, ever donates anything.
She lives seasonally as long as its summer.
She's not practising slow living by taking her children out of school...because if she truly believed that she'd home school them. But she'd never actually do that at this age because it's too much work so she'll use school like optional child care. Instead waiting until they are old enough to be able to read/write/have basic maths and then take them out. It will absolutely not be in their best interests because nothing ever is, but instead so she can travel and validate all on instagram as aspirational.
She's banned the word 'fat' but absolutely practises disordered eating still. And worse pushes it on her kids. The way they eat isn't for their health but so Becky and her kids don't commit the cardinal sin of getting fat. Evidenced by the fact she doesn't give a flying fuck about giving them unregulated drugs to get them to sleep (again not in their best interests, but Becky's own).
She's worried about smart phone ownership and what it will do to their mental health but not what sharing every aspect of her and their lives since birth will do to their mental health. The fact that strangers know their full names, birth dates, school, address and house layout doesn't bother her. The fact that they can never just be, but are instead made to perform for the gram over and over again doesn't bother her. Make it make sense.
And also Becky, you're worried about smart phones when without one you were groomed at 13.
Temu is such a bad call, but not at all shocking to us. She doesn't actually care if child labour was used so that her children can have the perfect piece of tat because its not her children being damaged
and were not talking white boden esque, Blyton living children so in Becky's mind, 'do they even really count?' Truth is there is no logic to Becky, just what she wants to protray but not actually live by...she pretends like a child. And that is at the crux of all of these issues...disordered eating, unable to form a coherent opinion, putting herself before her children, not giving a shit about the rest of the world, jumping on bandwagons...some of us were groomed at 13 Becky, and it really shows.
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Also want to add, I realise fellow tattlers have said this all before...I'm not adding anything new. I'm just incensed.
and yet is is constantly peddling those crappy bloat tablets and posing pics of her 'bloated' stomach. Arghhhhh make it make sense.....just nuts utter bonkers nuts that one
They’ll be on the scrounge for all sorts of money saving loophole schemes, their tax contributions first and foremost. BenPecked is like the Martin Lewis of Kings Langley, just A LOT less likeable.