RawBeautyKristi #2 My life's a mess, sponsored by Hello Fresh

[Spoke]

She looks like Lewis Capaldi

 

[NoseyParker2202]

If my sister just lost a baby I would have perhaps held off on posts about parenting being hard and how wonderful it is right now. It's hard to parent an alive kid and I'm sure your life is amazing now but maybe give your sister a week to not see this right now when her baby just died.

 

[bluecups]

Is everyone here a former fan of her's like me? Pre-Alder she was one of my fave youtubers. I liked that she was feisty, no-fucks-given, sweary, not a dollybird like other makeup youtubers, funny and down to earth. I find her insufferable now - a miserable, ungrateful, moany bitch. She can go an entire video now without cracking a smile and I often can't finish her videos as they make me feel more and more miserable by the minute. IMHO the secret of happiness is gratitude. She should count her blessings - a long, stable relationship with a kind man, a healthy kid, beautiful home and she doesn't have to go out to work. But no, she's a misery guts who can find the negatives in any situation and seems to enjoy wallowing in misery. Can't imagine what she must be like to be around in real life.

 

[knivesnflowers]

She cannot handle a second child...

** zack can't handle a third

 

[liquidlinernotes]

Genuinely revolting to make someone else’s trauma about you. This woman is sick in the head.

 

[Ollersett]

So it took her 10 years plus to conceive her first ‘miracle’ child yet she’s so casual about having another? If it genuinely took you that long the first time and you were told it wouldn’t happen then right now you wouldn’t be on contraception right? She’s full of shit somewhere.

 

[cumcustard]

This sounds like a really bored kid who needs friends and activities. More attention maybe. Get off social media Kristi and get the kid out of isolation.

 

[toastedwoofles]

While I 100% agree with her sentiment of not shouting at your kids I think it's ridiculous she comes on and gives these parenting views when she has one child, two parents at home, no money worries and no 'job' that takes up mental headspace for 8 hours a day...

Again, I don't agree anyone should shout at their kids but she's SO judgemental and is in one of the most privileged parenting positions you could end up in.

 

[Lilas]

She is insane. Convincing yourself that your child has cancer and having a mental breakdown is full blown insanity.

 

[liquidlinernotes]

She said the money was for hospital bills and to let them take time off to grieve. I won’t slay off her sister but if Kristi can afford a freeze dryer and 73 chickens, she could be chipping in a fair bit.

 

[spr0ut]

what has happened to her sister is devastating, no one deserves that.

the gofundme I do question though. I get the impression that kristi is very comfortable financially... seems to be a trend lately of influencers asking fans for money for their friends/fam

 

[channelchanel]

I have generally liked Kristi in the past but this last video—I really do think she might be crazy. She claims to have literally every mental health / health ailment in the book. Every video is a new diagnosis. At the end of this one, “maybe I have ADHD…” I think she enjoys being a professional patient Neurologist, psychologist, functional medicine, blah blah. Call me old fashioned but 1. She needs a job to take attention away from navel-gazing 24/7 on her own life and problems and 2. Eat a healthy, well-balanced diet in reasonable portions, and 3. Accept that some mental health struggles things are just part of life and are not pathologies that need a constant stream of medication and visits with specialists. She said herself that if she could stop focusing on the “derealization” that it would go away. I think if she stopped focusing on MOST of this crap it would go away. And, my hottest of hot takes, I imagine these drug interactions aren’t helping either. Yes, it’s good to seek help when you have a problem, but I think she has sought too much help and believes all of her problems are solvable by the next medication, doctor, specialist, or therapists rather than just accepting a certain amount of “life can be tough, but let’s move on!”
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[Jenbean1992]

My sister had a stillbirth @ 41 weeks. Three days after, her best friend who was maid of honour at her wedding, called my sister and YELLED at her for not sending condolences after her cat passed away. Called my sister a terrible friend and said that she was selfish and only cared about herself.

Kristi reminds me of that friend. The lack of empathy is truly astonishing.

 

[PrePackingPrep]

If Kristi is as depressed as she claims, she needs to put herself in a psychiatric facility! That's the only solution to this madness. What's really sick is that in the middle of posting about her disturbed mental condition you know she's going to talk about having another baby. It's just a cycle of omg, my headaches! I'm a mom! Omg guys, I'm so depressed! PPD. Do you guys think if I have another baby I'll get PPD? Omg, life is so hard.
There are people living in their cars who complain less than Kristi.

 

[PrePackingPrep]

Kristi should be the one providing for her family, not strangers. What they've received from donations is probably what she makes from two Hello Fresh videos. That lazy bitch hardly even uploads and when she does they're just videos of her rambling and complaining about her life. You can tell she is set financially because she doesn't take her job seriously. Does her husband even work?
Many funeral homes do not charge for children's funerals. Jen from EllandEmm did the same thing years ago. She was always on IG flaunting her Chanel and Dior purchases and when her nephew died her sister in law needed a GoFundMe for the funeral. Imagine letting strangers take care of your 'loved ones' because you're too greedy to.

 

[cumcustard]

Just watching her Life has been rough video and I laughed so much at her trying desperately to list things as reasons why her life is sO cRaZy and she has SO much going on right now! Eg, 2 cats? Cats are pretty self sufficient. AN ACTIVE COMPOST?? She is the only person in the world who would try the sympathy card for her busy life because she has an active compost. I mean she even listed friends! What? Her two online friends??

 

[liquidlinernotes]

1. She’s casually asking this right after her sister’s stillbirth?
2. Is she insane?

 

[Lilas]

She’s actually not insane. I struggle with the exact same issue due to a very close family member dying of cancer. You’re being blinded by your dislike of her and it has led to you making a very ignorant comment like this.

No. If you're in the same boat as Kristi, I don't know what to tell you other than seek therapy instead of dismissing the opinion of others. We have all had someone in our lives die. The way she thinks is not healthy or normal in any way. To the point where she loses 20 pounds not eating, cannot change her train of thought, and isolates her family.

 

[toastedwoofles]

That story was hilarious. With the pillow slowly slipping off her face and her eyes opening wider and wider as she forgot to act as unwell as she started.

She needs to get a fucking job, a routine to get her up in the morning, out the house doing something and being held accountable to someone. I'm not saying she needs to work and 80 hour week in finance just a fucking flower shop would do her good.

 

[burchiild]

Just going to leave this here