TheMiceInTheShed
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Over-performative grief is very common in murderers and abusers. Not only in situations like this, but when eg a child has disappeared and the family make a public appeal on TV. There are signs that forensic psychologists can pin down that suggest that an individual needs checking more closely. (I'm not saying that they're always the guilty, party but it is rare that they don't know more than they're letting on.). I think it's a combination of attention-seeking, bad acting and self-pity ("Omigod I might get found out!).He's coming across as pretty dramatic in the transcripts to be fair. The medical staff will sadly be used to grieving relatives reactions to being told a patient has died, and he must have presented as being more on the dramatic side, plus the fact one member of staff noted there were no tears.
Possibly "doing too much", the killer of Star Hobson was noted as being performative at the hospital.
There was one man who set fire to his home killing his (IIRC) six young children, who was in tears, begging the public to give the police as much information as they could to find the killer of his babies etc and something about his 'performance' alerted investigating officers to the fact that there was more to him than met the eye. It transpired that he wanted a bigger council house and so he had torched the one he had, with all the children inside it.
I know there is no "right" way to exhibit grief, but to people who are familiar with grief responses can recognise sincerity/ insincerity.
This isn't the case I was thinking of, but it is similar.
Derby fire deaths: Mick Philpott 'no right-minded father'
East Midlands Today reporter Simon Hare looks back at the Derby fire deaths
Over-performative grief by guilty persons is very common.