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Does the podcast have audio from the trial?I’m just listening to The Trial podcast and I’ve got to the part where foster mum returns to court to clarify the whole “Free Willy” time, and honestly I’m almost in tears.
I’ve mentioned before that I’ve come into contact with foster mum professionally, and she is genuinely one of the loveliest people I’ve ever met. Hearing the lawyer question her practice, integrity, and essentially call her a liar has genuinely pushed me over the edge a bit.
I just need people to know that she is an incredibly upstanding woman, very well regarded in the community for being kind, compassionate, and utterly devoted to the young people in her care. She takes her role extremely seriously, but always with so much warmth and love.
I 100% believe she is telling the truth. I just really needed to say that.
I absolutely believe you.I’m just listening to The Trial podcast and I’ve got to the part where foster mum returns to court to clarify the whole “Free Willy” time, and honestly I’m almost in tears.
I’ve mentioned before that I’ve come into contact with foster mum professionally, and she is genuinely one of the loveliest people I’ve ever met. Hearing the lawyer question her practice, integrity, and essentially call her a liar has genuinely pushed me over the edge a bit.
I just need people to know that she is an incredibly upstanding woman, very well regarded in the community for being kind, compassionate, and utterly devoted to the young people in her care. She takes her role extremely seriously, but always with so much warmth and love.
I 100% believe she is telling the truth. I just really needed to say that.
I think they have hidden/ destroyed a LOT of evidence. It's my belief that JV was scrambling round like mad clearing away anything that implicated them, and that the two of them concocted their rooster-and=bull "drowning" story to cover up. Hideous pair.One thing I don’t understand is how there wasn’t more evidence of csa material when they searched the house/tech, I don’t believe for a minute they just started the horrific abuse of Preston without having some history in terms of at least watching images of child abuse. I also find it surprising that they only filmed the aftermath, Preston suspended over the cot bars for example. It’s all just so horrific.
I absolutely believe you. I can imagine the kind of person she is. My neighbour (also my mums best friend) was a foster carer, and I saw so many children come and go. She was an incredible woman who loved all the children who crossed her door. Whether it was for a night or 5 years. Her last set of foster children were 3 siblings who ended up being with her until they each turned 18, then moved into houses either on the same street or within a few streets of hers because they adored her so much, they wanted to stay near her.I’m just listening to The Trial podcast and I’ve got to the part where foster mum returns to court to clarify the whole “Free Willy” time, and honestly I’m almost in tears.
I’ve mentioned before that I’ve come into contact with foster mum professionally, and she is genuinely one of the loveliest people I’ve ever met. Hearing the lawyer question her practice, integrity, and essentially call her a liar has genuinely pushed me over the edge a bit.
I just need people to know that she is an incredibly upstanding woman, very well regarded in the community for being kind, compassionate, and utterly devoted to the young people in her care. She takes her role extremely seriously, but always with so much warmth and love.
I 100% believe she is telling the truth. I just really needed to say that.
Yep completely agree, although I just assumed it was quite hard to delete/ destroy to the extent that he must have been able to but then I’m not tech savvy at all so no Idea how it all works.I think they have hidden/ destroyed a LOT of evidence. It's my belief that JV was scrambling round like mad clearing away anything that implicated them, and that the two of them concocted their rooster-and=bull "drowning" story to cover up. Hideous pair.
I was on a train a few days ago and sat near a mum and her baby. The baby was adorable, jumping up and smiling at me. We got chatting and I asked how old she was. She said she had just turned 1, she was so small. I just thought how can anyone hurt a child, let alone do what they did to Preston. I cannot understand it, my brain will not compute.I almost started crying in the middle of Asda this morning. I walked past clothing for 12-18 month old boys. They’re so tiny. I’d forgotten.
Children can't usually wink until they are over four years old, and many are much older - 6-7. They just don't have the fine motor skills to co-ordinate the muscles required - keep one eye open and intentionally close the other. They also take a while to realise that it is only one eye they have to close - cognitively this is a hard concept to grasp (just like when you first encourage them to blow their nose and they blow out of their mouths - just grasping the idea of it takes some doing).I absolutely believe you. I can imagine the kind of person she is. My neighbour (also my mums best friend) was a foster carer, and I saw so many children come and go. She was an incredible woman who loved all the children who crossed her door. Whether it was for a night or 5 years. Her last set of foster children were 3 siblings who ended up being with her until they each turned 18, then moved into houses either on the same street or within a few streets of hers because they adored her so much, they wanted to stay near her.
Re the winking comment on the previous thread. My kids couldn't wink until they were probably 3+. They would try, but close both eyes instead of just 1. I don't think it is an ability they have until much older (happy to be corrected as I am just going off my own kids' ability).
No, no audio or video allowed in UK trials apart from some judges sentencing remarks. JV is voiced by an actorDoes the podcast have audio from the trial?
I think so tooI think they have hidden/ destroyed a LOT of evidence. It's my belief that JV was scrambling round like mad clearing away anything that implicated them, and that the two of them concocted their rooster-and=bull "drowning" story to cover up. Hideous pair.
If they were indeed fast tracked, or given preferential treatment (in terms of being given a baby rather than an older child), well, you’d have to wonder whether the agency thought it would reflect well upon them as an organisation, and help tick a few diversity boxes as well. Imagining the social media campaign they could run in a few years, encouraging more gay men to become adopters.I don't understand how 2x men, who had only been together for about a year before they started the adoption process and who had very limited experience of children, were fast-tracked through the process and were selected to adopt one of the very few babies available for adoption?
Afaik, only 80x babies are adopted in the UK on average each year, I have known people going through the adoption process for years, some were unsuccessful, some adopted an older child - so why were these 2x men selected to have Preston?
Yes, I did think it a developmental thing they needed to master. I hope this is brought up in the trial? That it wouldn't have been possible for him to wink?Children can't usually wink until they are over four years old, and many are much older - 6-7. They just don't have the fine motor skills to co-ordinate the muscles required - keep one eye open and intentionally close the other. They also take a while to realise that it is only one eye they have to close - cognitively this is a hard concept to grasp (just like when you first encourage them to blow their nose and they blow out of their mouths - just grasping the idea of it takes some doing).
There is no way poor little Preston was "winking".
I just can’t work it out. Originally I thought he was slumped over at the waist. I can’t work out how he’s fixed in place, hanging over by his neck especially as people are saying his feet aren’t touching the mattress. Or maybe I’ve got that wrong. You’d think gravity would do its thing in that instance and he’d fall backwards.The fact that we are all struggling to picture how he could be suspended over the cot bars tells you exactly how unnatural a position it is and how unlikely it would have been for him to get into himself