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A doctor might help but it sounds as though a therapist would be better. Although it sounds like you know why you feel like this and how to deal with it, you just haven’t had a chance.
can you take some annual leave to take time just for yourself?
I’m sorry to hear you lost your father. I lost my mine last year and it feels like all the covid stuff kinds of diminished the loss. Everyone was losing people apparently, just one of those things it seemed, get on with it, I’m not special. Have to remind myself that other people’s woes do not make mine less important and I have every right to feel how I do and mourn. I don’t know if that sounds familiar to you but don’t forget that xx
can you take some annual leave to take time just for yourself?
I’m sorry to hear you lost your father. I lost my mine last year and it feels like all the covid stuff kinds of diminished the loss. Everyone was losing people apparently, just one of those things it seemed, get on with it, I’m not special. Have to remind myself that other people’s woes do not make mine less important and I have every right to feel how I do and mourn. I don’t know if that sounds familiar to you but don’t forget that xx
Sounds like you've been running on adrenaline for a while and are almost having a comedown .
It seems like work is the catalyst for how you are feeling. Is there someone at work the people who aren't happy can give feedback to? ( or report them to someone higher? )
It seems like work is the catalyst for how you are feeling. Is there someone at work the people who aren't happy can give feedback to? ( or report them to someone higher? )
I think a therapist might help or a counsellor. It sounds to me like you’re grieving and grief can be awful. I’ve been through it myself, just like you. It’s so normal to feel sad and a rollercoaster of emotions it can be crippling at times. I’d just be wary at self diagnosing depression because the dr will put you on antidepressants but it won’t get to the route of the problem and you’ll just feel things again once you come off them. They can be wonderful things I’m sure, I know a lot of friends that are on them and many have them alongside therapy. I think Covid, losing someone close and a horrible time at work have just compounded itself into one and it can be too much for anyone. But you also shouldn’t just have to “get on with it” as it can be so hard and it’s not something you can just snap out of x
I'm really sorry you're going through this and I think speaking to someone or counselling may help. If you're feeling really awful about work, could you ask to be signed off from your doctor while you're getting back on your feet?
I'm so sorry to hear you've been through all of this - that's a lot for one person to take on. It sounds like you've been really strong for those around you, and you've dealt with it well given the circumstances, but sometimes you need to take care of yourself first.
I definitely think it's worth speaking to your Dr, they may be able to sign you off for a little while until you're feeling better. They may also be able to refer you to some charities/counsellors who can help with grief.
Remember to take care of yourself and please, seek help if you are feeling down. Even if it's from coming on here to talk to people, it may make you feel better just venting! You're not alone x
I definitely think it's worth speaking to your Dr, they may be able to sign you off for a little while until you're feeling better. They may also be able to refer you to some charities/counsellors who can help with grief.
Remember to take care of yourself and please, seek help if you are feeling down. Even if it's from coming on here to talk to people, it may make you feel better just venting! You're not alone x
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