Begborrowsteal
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I have issues with porn and really hate that those concerns are often met with "well its only porn, all men do it".
Talk about it. I found the secrecy of it bothered me. Sneaking away to do it, hiding it, whilst not being intimate with me; then having images of 'real' people, that was the line drawn for me. I dont expect a man to say "im off for a wank, luv", but storing and hiding a whole wank bank would bother me. In my case, porn was used as comfort. It wasnt always to cum to, it was a distraction from real life feelings. Unfortunately, it did go on to cheating but that doesnt mean thats always the case!!
Talk about it. I found the secrecy of it bothered me. Sneaking away to do it, hiding it, whilst not being intimate with me; then having images of 'real' people, that was the line drawn for me. I dont expect a man to say "im off for a wank, luv", but storing and hiding a whole wank bank would bother me. In my case, porn was used as comfort. It wasnt always to cum to, it was a distraction from real life feelings. Unfortunately, it did go on to cheating but that doesnt mean thats always the case!!