My boyfriend works and I’m at uni but I’d say it’s 60/40 he does end up paying more often on meals out but I spend more on giving gifts (got him the ps5 haha) so I think it balances out until I get into the working world, I think it’s okay to let guys pay though I don’t think it’s not feminist, equality doesn’t always mean equity though and it depends on income disparities, if my partner was earning 6x the amount I do then what we each pay would need to be in proportion to that, the same if I was the one earning 6x more than my partner. 50/50 rarely works bc of these disparities
But expecting someone to find your life is another thing and that’s not what I’m trying to say is ok that’s not
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