I've been thinking about my past all week! Not sure why. I've got tuns of regret. I work on my own quite a lot and my thoughts run away with me. I end up cringing at certain things I've said and done!
For some reason I can't stop thinking about my first ever boyfriend. I really liked him but I was 14/15 at the time and after a year or so of being with him, I wanted to be free and single and talk to other boys I guess. I remember saying to him when we broke up that I wish we'd met when we where older. Still regard him as one of the best boyfriend I've had though. Am nearly 30 now. I keep stalking him and his wife on Facebook. I need to stopreally happy for him that he is happily married now but I keep thinking in my head of sceneraios where I'd bump into him and what I would say. I haven't seen him for such a long time so I'm guessing it's just curiosity and wondering 'what if'
How do you feel when you think of yourself in this same position 5/10 years from now?This is going to sound horrible, I regret falling for my OH. We have been married for 16 years and I am pretty happy with him. But I am not happy where I ended up. He is american and I really wish I would have found a european man instead. I miss my family terribly and I don't like living in the US. I always feel like a stranger even after living here for 15 years. Unfortunately he has no desire of ever moving anywhere else. I feel stuck! So as much as I love him I don't think I would marry him if I could get a do over.
I don’t think that’s something to regret. That’s just who you are and there is nothing to be regretful about. I was a loud and obnoxious private school toff. People must have hated me. But it’s who I was at the time. It isn’t a reflection of who I am now xI regret being so shy in my teenage/early adult years. I lost a lot of friends upon leaving school and college just because I wasn't as outgoing/extroverted as them. I was so quiet, I wouldn't dare speak to anybody new! So of course as my friends started new jobs/colleges/unis etc they were meeting tons of people and I got left behind a bit as I was such a introvert. I was ridiculously shy.
Obviously as I've moved up into the world of work I have come out of my shell a bit, I would say I'm still introverted but I'll definitely speak to new people now. Looking back, I regret not pushing myself to be more outgoing. I always look back and think that people must have looked at me as that "weird girl who never speaks" or "hides behind her friends".
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