There's a couple of off topic threads I read often on here and when it gets onto the subject of Sen and sen kids.......the amount of comments that are so negative is both upsetting and causes so much rage.
I am really starting to notice that parents with neurotypical kids really don't have any idea what autism involves. Of course, why would you if you didn't need to? But man, they think any traits can be just taken away by better parenting.
Meltdowns - just parent better. Be more firm
Still wearing nappies - lazy parenting
Stimming at a restaurant - haven't taught the child to be quiet.
Use of iPad at restaurant to keep the noise down - terrible parent.
Use of iPad at all - bad parent.
Non verbal - obviously don't talk to child enough
Still in a pram - too lazy to teach a child to walk nicely.
Of course they don't know about sensory overload, stimming to regulate, elopement, gestalt language processor, pathological demand avoidance.
If you try to explain any of that they just don't believe it.
They think you can get an autism diagnosis super easily. They don't seem to realize that the referral is looked at and accepted or rejected BEFORE you even get to an initial appointment with a Paediatrician. And the wait time for your initial appointment is 18 months ..if you are lucky.
Autism acceptance is a crock of tit. The judgement is still there but they are just a little more quiet about it.
I am really starting to notice that parents with neurotypical kids really don't have any idea what autism involves. Of course, why would you if you didn't need to? But man, they think any traits can be just taken away by better parenting.
Meltdowns - just parent better. Be more firm
Still wearing nappies - lazy parenting
Stimming at a restaurant - haven't taught the child to be quiet.
Use of iPad at restaurant to keep the noise down - terrible parent.
Use of iPad at all - bad parent.
Non verbal - obviously don't talk to child enough
Still in a pram - too lazy to teach a child to walk nicely.
Of course they don't know about sensory overload, stimming to regulate, elopement, gestalt language processor, pathological demand avoidance.
If you try to explain any of that they just don't believe it.
They think you can get an autism diagnosis super easily. They don't seem to realize that the referral is looked at and accepted or rejected BEFORE you even get to an initial appointment with a Paediatrician. And the wait time for your initial appointment is 18 months ..if you are lucky.
Autism acceptance is a crock of tit. The judgement is still there but they are just a little more quiet about it.