Our Tiny Tribe

[Westeryonder21]

At the same time, David has said he doesn't want to be filmed or put on the internet but she does find ways to film him on occassion, even if just glimpses.

I also feel a bit bad for the kids how a lovely day with both their parents needs to be filmed for content/money, nothing is done without the potential content in mind for Ebony. I wish she could just live in the moment and keep some things for themselves and not the viewers.

 

[ellyjelly2]

Just bloody greedy with all the gifted ‘work’ holidays, but more to the point of what pisses me off. What about the dog! I couldn’t constantly leave mine as they would be so sad. If she wants the free travelling life than don’t get another dog.
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I used to love watching Ebony and David. Didn’t keep up with them as much after having Daisy, I wasn’t as interested in that content. Really sad to see what happened between them in the end. It must be about 6 years ago that I watched them regularly, I recall the ATMA release cos I was naïve back then and I bought two hoodies. I’m sure they were engaged? Did they never get married? Reading the thread it seems like maybe Ebony is unhappy with the path her life has taken, maybe she feels lost?

I think she gets bored quickly, makes decisions without thinking it through. Ultimately she’s young and hope she will figure out what she wants from life. I feel her and David maybe just grew apart, wanted different things. He seems more settled, Ebony strikes me as wanting to still be free to travel. I know David wanted the kids off social media by the time the kids were at school, maybe that was an issue between them.

 

[Westeryonder21]

I think she also may feel extra "single" as when David has the kids he still has a second pair of hands. Ebony does have friends and family but she is the one doing the sole parenting. No passing them off for 2 hours if you're having a shit day.
Losing the job and house and dealing w9th being "alone" can feel heavy even if 90% of the time you are ok with it.
I do feel crying online is a little mad, but society has made it more acceptable. I do think she should feel free to speak about how it impacts her mentally and negatively, as I am sure it will resonate with a lot of single parents.

 

[Spencerskates]

I can’t work out why’s she’s in Lapland or who with or who she is meant to be working with? Is it a friends thing or Brand?

it’s a brand. Although a strange choice for a Mum of young kids to go to Lapland close to Christmas without the kids! Also, has she posted about the dog recently? I haven’t noticed it.

 

[Bol85]

Must be hard dating when you’re still so young and with 2 kids!

I think the actual going on dates bit is probably quite easy as she doesn’t have the kids half the week. But finding guys who want to get involved with someone who has two young kids is probably not the easiest!

 

[anonauntie]

I just saw her insta story, it’s quite sad really. We’ve only ever known her and David, and to see her on her own on Xmas eve a single mum now that’s quite hard. I know lockdown didn’t help them, and they did try and make things work but must be very hard knowing you’re life is very different now.

 

[Minipizza]

I do wonder how long until the dog is rehomed

 

[Cemma25]

I like Ebony, but as she even said herself, that relationship moved so so fast and yep, she shouldn’t have introduced the kids after 2 seconds all ready to play the daddy role, but it’s exactly what David did with his girlfriend as well

 

[Aynonmus1234]

I do wonder if it was a joint agreement lol I think they should both focus on getting their relationship back on track before anything else. I mean they went from living apart to living together to getting a dog all in the space of 9 months. And pets can be expensive so I wonder how they afford all they do?

Also Ebony mentioned that david does his counselling from home in the garden office, I wonder how he will this if the dog is noisy / not trained yet?

Also seems like Ebony has loads of clothes how does she afford it? I can barley afford a few bits every couple of months

 

[Muchadoaboutmuffin]

I cannot stand David, he's so sanctimonious

 

[Aynonmus1234]

There was clearly no questions aboutt who got keep buddy then...and clearly it was her choice to get him in the first place

I still don't understand how she is paying for everything on her own mortgage, dog day care, kids, 4-5 holidays for for this year, gym etc especially with her business and cost of living rising

 

[ellyjelly2]

Sorry if it's been mentioned already, but what happened to their first dog Tilly?

She got her without Savid knowing when she was about six months pregnant with Daisy. Then they had Hudson and surprise surprise she couldn’t cope do Tilly was shipped off, apparently to a family member ( but never shown). She was a delight and so sweet. People rightly called her out getting another dog only a couple of years ( if that) after getting rid of her old one. Ebony gas always come across to me as someone who gets hired easily and dies things without thinking it through long term.

 

[Aynonmus1234]

I think David is very very against the kids being online as they get older, I’m sure he said as much once, along the lines of when they start school they stop being online. I think Ebony is quite selfish, she wanted a dog, got a dog without telling David, she was pregnant, then has another baby And got rid of the dog. moved a few times because she gets bored. I think she feels she should have been a bigger YouTuber/singer/star. I don’t dislike her but I don’t feel like she’s matured in any way at all, how she speaks, what she does. Splitting up with David will suit her, she can move again and have the kids part time, she will probably make him have the dog too.

I think she actually won’t be able to move unless it’s super nearby as she will want to keep the kids close to David. I think her plan was to move to another city but since her and david split she is now unable to which will force her into staying in the same place. It’s sad when you think about it, they went through everything it seems, moving multiple times, having kids, david being there throughout her pregnancy, post partum, families got along, travelling a lot, working together, david supporting her through her survey, feels that Ebony supported him financially through his studying for years to become a therapist. It’s so sad makes you wonder what else needs to be done to make a relationship work??? Does any of us have hope after all that?

And OMG when she said she doesn’t check her weight….she literally talked about her weight in one of her YT videos about how she was around 48kg when explaining why she is getting a tummy tuck

 

[4l1xxo]

I’ve been reading the thread & maybe I’m going to come across a bit harsh but I’m finding her irritating now… I always really liked her because she didn’t feel like an influencer to me but currently she feels just like the people I specifically liked her for being different to if that makes sense? She seems attention seeking & coming across, dare I say it, self absorbed 🫣

100% agree with you!!

 

[Aynonmus1234]

I think he always really wanted a private life but has seen he won’t get that w her even when she stopped showing him on vlogs she was always posting him online. They also just turned into different people they both sang and did music once but now they are on completely different paths. seems like he does a lot looking after her and the kids especially post surgery and when she goes away, he might just need a break.

I do think she is a lot happier without him sometimes w you breakup with someone it gives you the time to do other things. I don’t think she has ever really found herself like she has now. It’s sad that david had to be the one to move out though

 

[ellyjelly2]

I think Buddy is for Daisy, she seems an anxious little thing and seems to relax and enjoy being with animals. Tilly was clearly loved and whilst I do think Ebony was wrong/naïve getting her when she was pregnant and not telling David, I never doubt it was really hard to give her away, she is with family however and I do believe they see her. Ebony and David are really kind people, hope they all enjoy Buddy.

 

[ellyjelly2]

Yes she was always wanting to move, now the children are in school I guess she has realised she needs to stay put. They had a flat, then rented a house, then another house, then she wanted to live by the sea, then they both chose to move to where she lives now for family ( having young children/needing a bit of family support). I find her flaky in Her choices, more so in the past. She would just do stuff without thinking it through, getting a puppy when she was pregnant with Daisy without telling David was one I remember. Tbf I do quite like her, I think she lost her way a bit after the children. Hopefully now she’s getting back to feeling more like herself.

 

[anonauntie]

Feel quite sad for her having to sell up and move, it’s obvious he wanted his half because I feel she would’ve stayed lots of memories there like she says. Hope wherever she moves to the 3 of them are just as happy.

 

[Truthspeaker]

Also this is quite random but I could so see Ebony in an acting role of a woman in the police, I can imagine her with a bullet proof vest, cap, gun - don’t know why maybe because she seems very focused on her gym stuff and for playing an police officer you need focus. Also I feel like with how strong she is she can be so convincing that she can take anyone down

Are you okay? 🫣

 

[rainymorningreading]

Sorry but I think her & her bf look like siblings