O’Donnell Sisters #9 lumpy lips, photoshopped hips & wonky nips.

[Danniixx1]

In a way I understand why he may not wanna watch her favourite movie as if it’s girly film or whatever he may not be interested same way if a guy I’m seeing wants to watch some action mafia film I’d tell them off .
But they are still early on in relationship, which means he already comfortable with her and doesn’t have try anymore to impress her or win her over . He is becoming comfortable, I say he is probably being a jerk more so controlling

 

[Jehrune]

whats their mum and dad do anyway that they have a driveway full of big cars? even a lambo at home

 

[Danniixx1]

Where is brother Leigh gone ? She isn’t in Dubai ? Wonder why she and daisy didn’t plan to go together somewhere

 

[Paddyp89]

Ellie’s whole story just resonated with me massively - might seem like something so small to others regarding Jay refusing to watch her favourite film because “he didn’t like it” but this is exactly what my narc ex did. Anything I expressed that I loved or really liked, he’d dismiss it or pull it down or ridicule me for it but pass it off as a joke & that he “didn’t mean it” & I was being too sensitive & couldnt take a joke.
Then listening to the sound track but the next video Jay had turned it off & put a rap song on. My ex did this too, to the point I never listened to my own songs anymore because he just used to complain, ridicule me or say they were tit constantly & his music was much better.
maybe I’m reading too much into things & like I said, these are such small things an outsider would totally think was nothing - “he’s allowed to not like the same things as her” I can hear this in my own voice because that how I justified it to myself. And this is true to an extent, but when it’s happening constantly & with absolutely everything it literally strips you of your identity.

In a relationship, you do things/watch things/listen to things you might not like but you do it for your partner.

I just feel like she’s completely being isolated from her family, him kicking off New Years (we suspect), the fact she goes nowhere without him not even to see her own sister, she seems (in my opinion) to be covering up more on her posts & now this little video. I really dislike him & I agree with the last poster she looks completely dead behind the eyes in her most recent things since NYE.

I hope I’m wrong but I honestly felt like I was watching myself before I got away in that video today.

I’m sorry you had to go through that

I can totally relate, I feel like this is why Jay just irks me so much! I’d be driving in my own car with my own phone plugged into Spotify listening to my music giving my ex a lift or picking him up from somewhere, and he’d literally take the mick out of every song I liked or listened to. If it was one he liked too, he’d take the mick even more and say I only liked it because of him. Same went for tv shows & films, if I tried to watch anything I enjoyed I was slapped with an ultimatum that we turned it off or he’d go out with the lads instead of spending time together like we had planned. Was never bothered about him going out, it was the manipulation. Things were even worse when we’d go out drinking, he’d say awful things that bought me to tears then he’d laugh at me for crying in public. He’d humiliate me and kick me out of taxis claiming that he didn’t know me and leave me stranded in the middle of the night to make my own way home. He’d tell me that if I told my friends + family or tried to lean on them for support that they’d just think I was an attention seeking psycho, and they’d never believe me cos of how great he looked on paper (he literally thought everyone loved him and totally pulled the wool over everyone’s eyes being OTT friendly). It all resonates very much with Ellie’s story today and whatever happened with them on NYE. He might not be abusive, he could just be selfish and immature but I just see red flags, especially since daisies been in the same city for nearly a week and they don’t appear to have even gone on a coffee date or lunch together.

is the penthouse a club/bar in Dubai? Daisey posted to her story asking who was going but it’s disappeared now

 

[Imhere123]

Ellie’s whole story just resonated with me massively - might seem like something so small to others regarding Jay refusing to watch her favourite film because “he didn’t like it” but this is exactly what my narc ex did. Anything I expressed that I loved or really liked, he’d dismiss it or pull it down or ridicule me for it but pass it off as a joke & that he “didn’t mean it” & I was being too sensitive & couldnt take a joke.
Then listening to the sound track but the next video Jay had turned it off & put a rap song on. My ex did this too, to the point I never listened to my own songs anymore because he just used to complain, ridicule me or say they were tit constantly & his music was much better.
maybe I’m reading too much into things & like I said, these are such small things an outsider would totally think was nothing - “he’s allowed to not like the same things as her” I can hear this in my own voice because that how I justified it to myself. And this is true to an extent, but when it’s happening constantly & with absolutely everything it literally strips you of your identity.

In a relationship, you do things/watch things/listen to things you might not like but you do it for your partner.

I just feel like she’s completely being isolated from her family, him kicking off New Years (we suspect), the fact she goes nowhere without him not even to see her own sister, she seems (in my opinion) to be covering up more on her posts & now this little video. I really dislike him & I agree with the last poster she looks completely dead behind the eyes in her most recent things since NYE.

I hope I’m wrong but I honestly felt like I was watching myself before I got away in that video today.

I literally just saw her story of her going out dressed in trousers & top, and although I thought she looked really nice I also thought it strange how she’s covered up because normally she wears dresses or shorts. Then I came on here again & noticed you commenting her covering up more too. My opinion is if we’re seeing these things & we don’t even know the girl or spend time with her, then there must be something going on. It’s little things that don’t seem like anything, but when it happens all the time it just wears you down. My sister was in a similar relationship for a few years & within a few weeks of them dating I started noticing little things that he’d say & it just seemed off. Then she would turn up late to family events all the time, which was really out of character for her. After a few months I spoke to my other sister about it & she confessed she had the same feelings. Eventually our sister did confide in us, but it still took her another 18 months to actually leave him. It was heartbreaking to see her broken inside & it does show physically too, you just see it in the way they act, the way they walk, talk, sit & dress.

 

[Laurawright]

I dint get it if daisey family are wealthy why do they resort too buying fake designer?

 

[Herefortheteabot123]

Cause their not that wealthy just make it look like they are, look where they stay on family holidays not exactly 5star hotels/villas

 

[Saywhat578]

In a way I understand why he may not wanna watch her favourite movie as if it’s girly film or whatever he may not be interested same way if a guy I’m seeing wants to watch some action mafia film I’d tell them off .
But they are still early on in relationship, which means he already comfortable with her and doesn’t have try anymore to impress her or win her over . He is becoming comfortable, I say he is probably being a jerk more so controlling

it totally could just be him being a fool or for all we know, they could always watch what she wants etc but these are like the little things that I never batted an eyelid at & looking back, they were red flags.
she was literally back with Bear (complete narcissist) a week prior to meeting Jay & I dunno about anyone else, my I’m less than a year after leaving my narcissist ex & I honestly couldn’t think of anything worse than being with another guy. It’s almost like I have a form of PTSD. It appears from an outsider shes jumped from 1 nar

I’m sorry you had to go through that

I can totally relate, I feel like this is why Jay just irks me so much! I’d be driving in my own car with my own phone plugged into Spotify listening to my music giving my ex a lift or picking him up from somewhere, and he’d literally take the mick out of every song I liked or listened to. If it was one he liked too, he’d take the mick even more and say I only liked it because of him. Same went for tv shows & films, if I tried to watch anything I enjoyed I was slapped with an ultimatum that we turned it off or he’d go out with the lads instead of spending time together like we had planned. Was never bothered about him going out, it was the manipulation. Things were even worse when we’d go out drinking, he’d say awful things that bought me to tears then he’d laugh at me for crying in public. He’d humiliate me and kick me out of taxis claiming that he didn’t know me and leave me stranded in the middle of the night to make my own way home. He’d tell me that if I told my friends + family or tried to lean on them for support that they’d just think I was an attention seeking psycho, and they’d never believe me cos of how great he looked on paper (he literally thought everyone loved him and totally pulled the wool over everyone’s eyes being OTT friendly). It all resonates very much with Ellie’s story today and whatever happened with them on NYE. He might not be abusive, he could just be selfish and immature but I just see red flags, especially since daisies been in the same city for nearly a week and they don’t appear to have even gone on a coffee date or lunch together.

is the penthouse a club/bar in Dubai? Daisey posted to her story asking who was going but it’s disappeared now

I’m so so sorry this happened to you, very similar to my experiences also. Alcohol would also be a factor for my ex. The whole thing about manipulating you regarding your friends & family - exactly the same here. It’s honestly horrendous & you can’t even explain it to other people even when you try. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. So glad you got out 🤍

but yes I agree it’s all these little red flags put together along with the fact she left her family to be with just him & then not seeing Daisey & knowing he fell out with Daisey the last trip. Its just giving me bad feelings all around

 

[lmr93]

whats their mum and dad do anyway that they have a driveway full of big cars? even a lambo at home

Her dad is in the property line of work. The Lambo is Ellie’s boyfriends, I’m sure he’s got 3 from reading back on these threads!

it totally could just be him being a fool or for all we know, they could always watch what she wants etc but these are like the little things that I never batted an eyelid at & looking back, they were red flags.
she was literally back with Bear (complete narcissist) a week prior to meeting Jay & I dunno about anyone else, my I’m less than a year after leaving my narcissist ex & I honestly couldn’t think of anything worse than being with another guy. It’s almost like I have a form of PTSD. It appears from an outsider shes jumped from 1 nar



I’m so so sorry this happened to you, very similar to my experiences also. Alcohol would also be a factor for my ex. The whole thing about manipulating you regarding your friends & family - exactly the same here. It’s honestly horrendous & you can’t even explain it to other people even when you try. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. So glad you got out 🤍

but yes I agree it’s all these little red flags put together along with the fact she left her family to be with just him & then not seeing Daisey & knowing he fell out with Daisey the last trip. Its just giving me bad feelings all around

🤍 ... Sorry to butt in but what actually happened with Jay and Daisey? I missed the stories and was behind with that thread so I don’t know what happened re the fallout

 

[poopoo]

How does she not end up with neck ache?! She’s in a Lamborghini in case you didn’t know?!

Is it me or is she doing her makeup like his ex Georgia Sutherland??? Like the minimal eye?She never normally does her makeup like that

 

[Saywhat578]

🤍 ... Sorry to butt in but what actually happened with Jay and Daisey? I missed the stories and was behind with that thread so I don’t know what happened re the fallout

we don’t even know, again all speculation. This is it in a nutshell: It was Daisey’s bday & they’d all gone out in Dubai inc some others from marbs & that mr faizer Daisey was seeing. Next minute, Ellie had removed all the pics of her & Jay, Daisey & Ellie left with Jay & Leigh staying out & I think Daisey posted from a hotel room eventually (they’d been staying at Jays apartment until this), Daisey then unfollowed both Jay & Leigh & posted a cryptic story of a pic of her & Ellie saying about family being everything. Daisey also unfollowed mr Faizer & then he disappeared off everyone’s stories.
the day after all was quiet. Then Daisey unfollowed Ellie & stayed in the hotel on her own on her actual birthday. Ellie posted being back in Jay apartment.

Few days later they were all hanging about together but it looked strained. Daisey then went off with leigh a lot for the trip.
they all met up for a DJ playing & another influencer put a story up filming the DJ booth & it caught Daisey shouting at Jay & like using her hands like an argument & Ellie pulling her away from him with Leigh like trying to get in between Daisey & Jay.
Daisey only recently followed him again. All very odd & bizarre.

The Five is labelled as the party hotel & all this & yeah, the beach/ladies days are okay but when I stayed I thought the penthouse & the other nightclub there were awful & pretty dead, even on a weekend so can’t imagine what it would be like during covid. I know insta makes it look full & stuff but I think it could be quite misleading..

 

[Fairycake79]

Gosh her eyes look really empty here! I really think she’s in some bad dynamic relationship with that guy. I don’t like her but I hope she doesn’t let him manipulate her into moving out there & never seeing her family & friends again. I wouldn’t wish that on anybody!

On another note, their fashion line & the fact they never wear it, never talk about it & quite clearly don’t ever do any work on it because they’re on constant holidays! I have been following Jade Holland Cooper & even though she’s just had a baby literally about 3 weeks ago, she is constantly working, posting stories of herself wearing her clothes & talking about them, talking about the style, fit, colours etc & even how to style them with other items. They could do with learning a few things from her, because she seems to LOVE her brand & lives and breathes it. I know they’re different price brackets but it’s the same principle. If you want to make money from your brand, you need to show your passion for it!

I agree! Love Jade Holland and her brand. Even though she is stinking rich and her house is like a Stately home she seems so much more likeable and relatable I don't mind buying her stuff and making her richer I've met her a few times on her stand at Country shows and she is really nice. Her baby is absolutely gorgeous too

 

[Bellexox]

NOBODY CARES

 

[Mcjlxi]

Ellie’s whole story just resonated with me massively - might seem like something so small to others regarding Jay refusing to watch her favourite film because “he didn’t like it” but this is exactly what my narc ex did. Anything I expressed that I loved or really liked, he’d dismiss it or pull it down or ridicule me for it but pass it off as a joke & that he “didn’t mean it” & I was being too sensitive & couldnt take a joke.
Then listening to the sound track but the next video Jay had turned it off & put a rap song on. My ex did this too, to the point I never listened to my own songs anymore because he just used to complain, ridicule me or say they were tit constantly & his music was much better.
maybe I’m reading too much into things & like I said, these are such small things an outsider would totally think was nothing - “he’s allowed to not like the same things as her” I can hear this in my own voice because that how I justified it to myself. And this is true to an extent, but when it’s happening constantly & with absolutely everything it literally strips you of your identity.

In a relationship, you do things/watch things/listen to things you might not like but you do it for your partner.

I just feel like she’s completely being isolated from her family, him kicking off New Years (we suspect), the fact she goes nowhere without him not even to see her own sister, she seems (in my opinion) to be covering up more on her posts & now this little video. I really dislike him & I agree with the last poster she looks completely dead behind the eyes in her most recent things since NYE.

I hope I’m wrong but I honestly felt like I was watching myself before I got away in that video today.

completely agree It’s the little things they do that people might not see as a big thing but when you’ve dealt with it personally you know it’s only going to get worse! The thing that gets me is the fact she’s not even went for lunch with her sister since she’s been there fair enough not out clubbing with them both as they clearly don’t get along but maybe daiseys actually called him out on the way he treats her & we’re all saying daiseys this & that My ex hated my cousin because she noticed little digs about what I’d wear so he isolated me from her

 

[ShondyLife]

Oh dear brother Leigh... bit of a photoshop fail here either that or you should book a trip to the docs for that lump growing out the side of you hun

Brother Leigh genuinely has the worst photoshop skills I've ever seen, you would think his mates would tell him what a twit he looks........

 

[onetreehill233]

My boyfriend who hates musicals sat through 3 hours of The Sound of Music because he knew it was my favourite film, and pretend to enjoy it the whole time.

I feel sad for Ellie.

 

[Lola Lopez]

I know right , I mean this photo for example , if daisy and Ellie really where her friends they tell her that is edited too heavy and it looks horrible but both of them are commenting nice things .

Omg Marilyn Mason's looking rough

 

[Mrsoreilly]

Anyone think the answer to not seeing Daisey is odd? You could meet at the mall for a coffee, go to a beach club you don’t have to go out clubbing. Anyone think NY Eve has put Ellie off partying?

 

[laughing]

Ellie is wearing another's brand version of an item in her own collection.

When do you think they will admit that their brand is rubbish? Says it all when you are wearing another's brands identical suit.

 

[Saywhat578]

Anyone think the answer to not seeing Daisey is odd? You could meet at the mall for a coffee, go to a beach club you don’t have to go out clubbing. Anyone think NY Eve has put Ellie off partying?

yeah such an odd reply. She could have 100% just seen her for lunch/dinner or a coffee or a shopping trip to the mall. She also didn’t have any issues last time attending the beach/ladies days & then going off with Jay on a night?
I feel like it’s because she doesn’t want a lecture/questions from Daisey about Jay & NYE & also because Daisey seems to be around a lot of guys so reckon Jay has said she can’t be going out & being around all the guys (or she’s decided that herself to not cause issues in the relationship)