That is a choice very likely to backfire and make the transition worse. I say this as someone with some expertise in child development. Doing something special together while can, absolutely. Saying “yes to everything” NO. Once the baby is here, it will be reasonable for the child to blame the baby for everything shifting from yes to I can’t right now.I think doing whatever she wants is going to cause it to be so so much harder when baby arrives and mum can’t just drop everything to cater to her… she’s had her whole life of 1:1 I’m sure she’ll be okay if the next 10 days are just normal. Feels weird to talk about being sad when it’s like you legit chose this.. a very deliberate choice