Niamh Cullen #4

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Let’s face it she didn’t stay in when he was very sick she won’t do it now. She’ll be back on the sesh in no time. It’s who she is. Of course she has to live her life but let’s call a spade a spade
 
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Jesus for duck sake nobody knows what to do in these situations...at the end of the day she needs to survive and get on with life.i don't think anyone should be judging in this situation, most of us know whow we would react...and shouldn't we all be so grateful we don't. Let's just be a little kinder here
 
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Jesus for duck sake nobody knows what to do in these situations...at the end of the day she needs to survive and get on with life.i don't think anyone should be judging in this situation, most of us know whow we would react...and shouldn't we all be so grateful we don't. Let's just be a little kinder here
How about you stop telling us what to think? Comments here are based off what she shares so better yet tell her what to share
 
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I'm just shocked that people would be so negative of a person that lost her husband and begrudge her going outside with her friends...I thankfully have never lost somebody so close to me but I would think in this day and age we are beyond the old age thinking. I'm sure that's not what her husband would of wanted.are we really that bad we want a young girl to wallow up in pure misery....what would we all want our friends to do in the same situation?
 
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He was buried barely a week ago, im also shocked she’s posting about being out and about at a funfair. She needs to get on with her life yes, there’s no timelines for grief etc. etc. blah blah blah, but it’s literally been one week. Whatever about going, I sure as hell wouldn’t be posting it!
 
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Jesus for duck sake nobody knows what to do in these situations...at the end of the day she needs to survive and get on with life.i don't think anyone should be judging in this situation, most of us know whow we would react...and shouldn't we all be so grateful we don't. Let's just be a little kinder here
Think you're on the wrong site. Better off on mum's net or rollercoaster 😂
 
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The nights are long and lonely enough for her.. good on her friends for dragging her out and giving her something different to think about for a little bit
I doubt she has ever been dragged out in her life
 
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I lost my baby boy three years ago, within 4 days I was booked into a five star hotel with my partner. I spent that month out every weekend. anything to distract.

I went on multiple holidays in the months after. but behind it I was drinking way too much and miserable.

it's not for anyone to judge how someone grieves.
 
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I lost my baby boy three years ago, within 4 days I was booked into a five star hotel with my partner. I spent that month out every weekend. anything to distract.

I went on multiple holidays in the months after. but behind it I was drinking way too much and miserable.

it's not for anyone to judge how someone grieves.
I’m so sorry for your loss 💙
 
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Fair play to her. Don't want to judge as I've never been in that position but couldn't imagine getting ready and dolled up for a night out whether an hour or the whole night. I suppose even though it's only been 2 weeks they probably knew it was coming a lot longer.
 
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Meh still doesn’t sit with me. Even if she knew for longer I think it’s wrong
 
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She deserves a couple hours of normal, whatever her new normal is 💔 she has a great support system around her, if Niamh being out with a smile on her face doesn’t sit right with you, thank your lucky stars your not in her position
 
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She deserves a couple hours of normal, whatever her new normal is 💔 she has a great support system around her, if Niamh being out with a smile on her face doesn’t sit right with you, thank your lucky stars your not in her position
I am thankful but the carry on of her the last year is crazy stuff and I’m sorry for saying it… she will regret everything it will just hit her one day… let’s watch
 
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I’m delighted to see her out. It’s a few hours of the week away from being at home thinking about everything. Thank god she has friends and events to keep her busy. If I was ever in her position I would hope I have the same to get me through.
 
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I honestly think this thread is just going to be a constant division of - I think she's right to be out and about and - the polar opposite of - I think it's bad form being out and about publicly so soon. It seems people are going off their own experiences which is totally normal. Maybe for the sake of what tattles about- we should ditch that narrative and just do the normal thing... On such a hot topic you'll never get everyone agreeing.

Anyone?

No?
 
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sometimes u do have to just stay at home . if it was 2 months fair enough , but it's only a couple of weeks . How can she get dolled up like that , she's some woman ! I have to say hats off to her , i would look like tit , blotchy red face from crying and just not want to face people if it was my husband . it's admirable in way that she can do that . shocking 😮
 
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