jackolantern
VIP Member
Finally had our dietitian appointment and she was so lovely and said how well we have done and Tommy is absolutely thriving thanks to that, despite pretty much everyone in the system failing us and giving us no support God it makes the world of difference when you have someone who actually listens to you and is in your corner instead of against you. She's pushing to get us the bloods, is keeping an open referral in case we need her for anything at all and is starting to help us through the milk ladder. All that in 10 minutes versus nothing in the past 10 months. It's true what they say about only taking that one person, just bloody awful it's so hard to find them for most
I realised something really important that I hadn't before, she told me how well I'd done with pumping for 6 months and then managing to switch to breastfeeding, acknowledged that it's very rare you can make that switch and I did it all alone. I felt so fucking seen that even though I already knew how worth it it was for me and Tommy, someone else was proud of me too. And it got me to thinking, how rare it is that anyone actually tells us we are doing a good job and how much you really need to hear it.
So mamas, you are ALL fucking boss women, I love our Tattle family and I am so proud of you all. The love and kindness you give your babies, no matter how fucking hard it gets and how much we all think we can't do it, we always show up and we always do the absolute best we can for our babes. I hear you and I see you, you are AMAZING. And my god, your little ones know it.
I realised something really important that I hadn't before, she told me how well I'd done with pumping for 6 months and then managing to switch to breastfeeding, acknowledged that it's very rare you can make that switch and I did it all alone. I felt so fucking seen that even though I already knew how worth it it was for me and Tommy, someone else was proud of me too. And it got me to thinking, how rare it is that anyone actually tells us we are doing a good job and how much you really need to hear it.
So mamas, you are ALL fucking boss women, I love our Tattle family and I am so proud of you all. The love and kindness you give your babies, no matter how fucking hard it gets and how much we all think we can't do it, we always show up and we always do the absolute best we can for our babes. I hear you and I see you, you are AMAZING. And my god, your little ones know it.