Hello Ladies!
It's about time I joined this thread
My little miracle baby girl was born 34+2 after I developed moderate pre-eclampsia. I had a 4 day pre birth hospital stay which was horrendous - went to triage on the Monday with itchy hands and feet and severe swelling everywhere and was admitted and rapidly told by consultants that my pregnancy would be coming to an end very soon. The next day I was told I'd be induced for a natural birth then the next day I was told by a different doctor that the chances of a failed induction were high this early then the following day I was told it would be a c-section and the following day they actually went through with it! All different opinions sent my head into a bit of a head fuck.
We were briefed by neonatal about the markers she had to hit and what to expect. When baby TTC made her grand appearance she decided she'd be a tiny 4lb 6oz premie with the development of a full term baby. She went off to NICU for 2 hours for observation but was rapidly kicked out. She hasn't required any intervention, she's breathing on her own, feeding on her own, and hitting all the markers. I am beyond grateful.
Since then they have been wanting to monitor her closely on the basis things might decline but she hasn't and it's absolutely mind blowing so grateful to say we're going home!
My mind is all over the place at the moment, everything has been so traumatic and a big blur. I don't know how to feel. I'm supposed to still be pregnant, I've spent almost 7 days in 4 small walls with her and I'm severely sleep deprived. I feel guilty I don't have this massive rush of love yet for her as I feel robbed of so much but also I'm so grateful. I've been so excited to get home but now that I've left the hospital I don't feel so excited about it? This experience has robbed me of the excitement of having a baby and taking her home
I feel so guilty for thinking I don't want this anymore. I know I do, I just didn't want all the trauma which has robbed me of everything.
Please tell me this is normal? X