I think my knobwaffle wins.
Although I’m sure it’s bordering/is abuse now.
he’s been saying I need some time for me, to get back to the gym or de stress a few times a week.
3 times I’ve been to the gym for less than an hour, and the whole time he bombards me with messages, telling me BabyShark is screaming (she takes a bottle fine!), every few minutes he’s trying to ring me. Wanting me to come home etc. I’m annoyed as I don’t ring him every time the baby cries, he’s got 4 kids his not new to this!
Ive told him to leave and I don’t want him in the house.
I don’t even feel sad about asking him to leave, because I stood by him through his addictions and job losses, I financially supported us for years. I think I emotionally checked out a while ago.
I don’t know how I should be feeling but right now I’ve got BabyShark and 7 year old in bed with me.