Nadia Anya

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If I remember correctly, the house is owned my Nadya alone, not Johnny at all? Or do I remember wrong? She has also mentioned so many times how she wants to move to Scotland, so that could also be an issue to Johnny.
I think your right about the house, from what I have seen of jonny's background his whole family is involved in finance, and he is from a well off family too. His parent's bought a large plot and built their home. The move back to Winchester was maybe to be close to his family, although most holiday's Anya spend's with her own family here and abroad.
I am not sure she will move to Scotland as only her parent's are there, most of her work and friend's live nearby and would be far from jonny to see Monty.
 
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If he is as useless as he’s come across in previous vlogs I’d not be hesitating to get back up to Scotland to be with family
 
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never nice to see any family break up, especially with a small child involved.
 
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Its very common for couples who have gone through IVF to split up soon after baby, its a lot for any couple to handle.

Glad to see that they are on good terms for the sake of their child.
 
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The weight loss if related kind of tells us she’s not ok 😓 hope she’s being supported
 
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For some reason I am not seeing any stories from some people I follow on Instagram, but as many of us have noticed the break up has been for a while now, it is very sad with a child involved as well, but longterm it is the best for both parties. I figured out that Jonny was still with her on daytrips with Monty, and it will still work whilst they both live near each other and not in a new relationship. I do feel Nadia may have decided to split up as she wanted the , baby, marriage and house, Jonny was happy to be living togeather. They have been togeather since Nadia was young, it is not easy to share updates like this when your on social media, I hope she gets support as she is alone a lot, It is great that they both are still friends and co parent
 
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i can't imagine how hard that must be. they wanted a kid so bad, all the rounds of IVF, and once they finally made their dream come true, this is what's next. oh, i feel for her.
It is very sad indeed. Having a child will only exacerbate any issues in a relationship not make it better. Some people don’t realise this and sadly have a child anyway. Not saying this is the case here but I imagine having Monty has put a strain on their relationship. I have always said from personal experience the first 1-2 years after having a baby are the hardest but if you can survive that your relationship stands a good chance. I do hope she has lots of support around her, the weight loss makes sense now sadly.
 
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I feel the weight loss is more than just the stress of the split. Nadia is very fussy about her hair and how she looks and to me she seems to have taken some weight loss aid, she has had a huge reduction of her lean body mass (muscle) Even prior to her pregnancy her body shape was very different but still slim, also her face and skin show sign's of this. Coming out about her split may help, as that also must have been stressful, especially when having to vlog and on her instagram.
The move from London and IVF surely is a factor, Personally if my partner was not considering marriage with me then I would not have a child with him. Living togeather for years when one person wants something else will not end well. No relationship is guaranteed but many comments on here did not see this relationship as ideal. Everything happens for a reason and what we see on social media is never the reality
 
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I do feel so bad for her. Having had ivf myself I know how stressful and long the process is. And now knowing all your embryos are with someone you are no longer with, if the infertility factor was down to her, and if she wanted another child she would have to go through the whole process again.
Also I remember her saying, before she would try again naturally, she would want to use the same embryos again as due to the science, her children would be like fraternal twins as are her and her sister albeit years apart.

I remember her saying after Monty she would try quickly for a second as she wanted her children before she turned 30, I wonder if they had issues as soon as Monty was born which is why she didn’t stick to that orginal plan, and became more relaxed about having a second.
 
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In one of the videos she also said her sex drive is non existent, something like she's happy she has a lot of embryos left so she can have more kids without ever needing to have sex again. I totally get where that's coming from after giving birth but also making at least minimal effort to keep intimacy alive is very important and maybe he was just not okay with it. I know when I watched the video I kept thinking how that's not a good sign and I wondered what he thinks about it. Based on everything she described I guess they just grew apart and became roommates instead, so they can still be friends but not much more.
 
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I always find it really sad when a couple splits within the first year or two after having a baby. It’s the hardest time in a relationship.

The best advice I got was if you have young children and you’re on the verge of splitting, double down on your relationship and give it a year to steady before you do anything. When my husband and I wobble I always remember this.

Agree with the poster above that it’s especially sad that Nadia wanted to use the remaining embryos and now won’t. A very emotional process for her to accept that and decide what to do with them, I’m sure
 
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I do feel so bad for her. Having had ivf myself I know how stressful and long the process is. And now knowing all your embryos are with someone you are no longer with, if the infertility factor was down to her, and if she wanted another child she would have to go through the whole process again.
Also I remember her saying, before she would try again naturally, she would want to use the same embryos again as due to the science, her children would be like fraternal twins as are her and her sister albeit years apart.

I remember her saying after Monty she would try quickly for a second as she wanted her children before she turned 30, I wonder if they had issues as soon as Monty was born which is why she didn’t stick to that orginal plan, and became more relaxed about having a second.
How does that work if she wants another baby is she legally allowed to implant one with his dna or are they wasted now ?
 
She reposted this on TikTok, probably a joke but there’s clearly no love lost there 😂
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