WilmaHun
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I was about to say "sorry you feel this way" but I stopped myself because what a silly thing to say!? You shouldn't feel sorry for how you feel, it's who you are.
I really would recommend you speak to your partner about this. I had a friend who had similar feelings but tried to hide them - she ended up spiralling and ended up in a really sad place. I'd hate for this to eat away at you.
At the end of the day, being gay isn't a choice, we don't choose who we are attracted to or what turns us on, it is just one of those things we have no control over. It's who you are as a person and that is absolutely ok!
I know you're not really looking for advice per se, you were just venting but I couldn't scroll past without saying anything. I really recommend you try to speak about your feelings and open up.
I really would recommend you speak to your partner about this. I had a friend who had similar feelings but tried to hide them - she ended up spiralling and ended up in a really sad place. I'd hate for this to eat away at you.
At the end of the day, being gay isn't a choice, we don't choose who we are attracted to or what turns us on, it is just one of those things we have no control over. It's who you are as a person and that is absolutely ok!
I know you're not really looking for advice per se, you were just venting but I couldn't scroll past without saying anything. I really recommend you try to speak about your feelings and open up.