This is a bit of a weird situation and I’m not sure what to make of it really. So my friends and I went to a different city recently for shopping, food etc.
We sat to have lunch and I mentioned I get a discount at this place. My friend Jess (not her real name), turned to me and said “ it’s probably easier if you pay on your card then, and we can transfer you”. I asked about the discount and they didn’t offer it on that day, but anyway, I still paid for everyone. In my mind I thought, surely it’s easier just to tap your card on the machine now? Than work out what you had later and transfer it? But whatever, it wasn’t an issue
Later we had dinner and drinks, and afterwards Jess said “it’s easier to do it all on the same card and then send it all at once”, implying I should pay on my card again. It made sense, instead of transferring different people or working out individual costs there, so I paid and everyone took pics of the receipt to work out their share later. The next day, the girls sent the receipt pics in the chat, they all transferred me the money and told me they had sent it over, except Jess. She read the messages and didn’t say anything and still hasn’t paid me back, about a month later.
I had totally forgotten about it until today, and I’m really not bothered about the money, I just find it a bit strange that she offered me to pay and then didn’t pay me back…I hate confrontation and feel a bit awkward to bring it up so long after. My boyfriend thinks she just didn’t want to pay for the food. It’s one thing to forget which I totally understand, but when people send messages saying they’ve transferred the money, surely that would remind her?
I’m not really sure what to make of it tbh so thought I’d just ask you guys!
We sat to have lunch and I mentioned I get a discount at this place. My friend Jess (not her real name), turned to me and said “ it’s probably easier if you pay on your card then, and we can transfer you”. I asked about the discount and they didn’t offer it on that day, but anyway, I still paid for everyone. In my mind I thought, surely it’s easier just to tap your card on the machine now? Than work out what you had later and transfer it? But whatever, it wasn’t an issue
Later we had dinner and drinks, and afterwards Jess said “it’s easier to do it all on the same card and then send it all at once”, implying I should pay on my card again. It made sense, instead of transferring different people or working out individual costs there, so I paid and everyone took pics of the receipt to work out their share later. The next day, the girls sent the receipt pics in the chat, they all transferred me the money and told me they had sent it over, except Jess. She read the messages and didn’t say anything and still hasn’t paid me back, about a month later.
I had totally forgotten about it until today, and I’m really not bothered about the money, I just find it a bit strange that she offered me to pay and then didn’t pay me back…I hate confrontation and feel a bit awkward to bring it up so long after. My boyfriend thinks she just didn’t want to pay for the food. It’s one thing to forget which I totally understand, but when people send messages saying they’ve transferred the money, surely that would remind her?
I’m not really sure what to make of it tbh so thought I’d just ask you guys!