Incase it gets pulled - this has just arrived.
I am here just been really busy this evening. Yes I don't deny what I did, the reasons I didn't mention it in this particular thread are -
A. I am hugely ashamed
B. It was the biggest mistake of my life and was over many weeks ago
C. I did end up telling my husband and we were still trying to work things out
The question I asked in my original post was does anyone think the ticket thing is suspicious. I wasn't asking for opinions on if one partner has been messing about, is it ok for the other to do the same. And I'm not saying that to be argumentative. I genuinely wanted people's opinions as I was worried I was overreacting.
There is absolutely no excusing my behaviour but we had already planned our separation when I replied to this man. I'd been called old, not attractive anymore etc and yes, I enjoyed the attention.
We weren't in the same bed and were living separate lives. And I made a huge, huge mistake in meeting up one time after we'd agreed to try again.
I'm quite upset that some people are posting emojis of popcorn as if this is amusing, it is very much my life and it's shit right now. Comments about my poor child are also exceptionally hurtful.
I think I need a break from this but I am grateful for all the replies and suggestions/support.