I’m struggling with her chain of thought at the moment. She seems to think her life is rubbish because of America but I can’t see much changing when she moves back. She won’t be financially better off back here and she will have 3 kids…. Good luck getting a baby sitter at the drop of a hat. She strikes me as one of these people who always need a life event . A move abroad, a wedding, a baby, a new house, a baby rinse repeat . Can’t she be content with what she has?