I think she really needs some help, professional help, this isn't normal, for most people after 3 months life has returned to normal, not saying the sadness isn't still there, but life has to go on, you can't just stop life for months at a time. She's come to the age where a lot of deaths around her are going to happen, is this how it's going to be every time? God help her when she loses Henry and her mum, and those are normal predicted deaths, what would happen, God forbid, if something were to happen to any of the boys or Jamie short for James. In the space of one year I lost my mum, dad, mum in law, my daughter was so ill she was heading in the wrong direction and my stepson was diagnosed with cancer, it was a year from hell and it was hard, but I had very little time off work and just had to get on with it. Outside the immediate family nobody else knew anything about it, as it should be, but this absolute idiot feels the need to share her 'extreme' grief with 5 million strangers. Get a bleeping grip and grow up!