Bit kate to the party as per usual but throwing my opinion in to the ring regarding the flashcards..
Firstly, YES! WELL DONE ZOPH! Genuinely happy for little Ron to have something helpful and it's kind of lovely to have home made ones. Well done you!
Secondly I know this is speculation but in my experience, flash cards were the first thing the SALT guys recommended for my eldest when he was having some problems and seemed behind his peers and was having some problems with his behavior. I really do think Ronz has started nursery and he has had a referral. Which is scary as a parent I know, but so wonderful in the long run! I wish she would open up about things like this. When I was going through it I felt like such a failure as a Mum and having someone high profile speak about it may have helped me feel less alone
Thankfully in my case my boy has flourished, we think it was a case of new baby in the house upsetting him and making him regress. I hope whatever it is with Ronnie they keep up with the effort and don't let it slip when cc2 arrives!
Just to balance it out - scent boosters literally have a warning on to keep out of reach of children. Why the fuck would you package them up like sweets and leave them where a toddler could see them?!?! Moron.