Hey.
I became a "hincher" (AKA cleaner
) around the time she hit the 1million mark.
I really liked her. I thought she was funny and relatable to me as a dippy blonde
I did the whole stockpiling of zoflora. I put unstoppables in organzer bags. Dryer sheets inside cushion covers. And went down the whole grey route.
I bought into everything she used! She really motivated me to care for my home and be proud of everything I achieved.
I had a breakdown a bit before she became big, I couldn't leave my house, I would spend days not washing or dressing and she helped me find something to focus on.
I even tried making my own "home account" hoping I could one day be as successful as she was. She even commented on one of my posts about my utility room and I was over the moon that she had noticed me.
Iv been on so many different medications over the past few years so I'm a bit blury when it come to timeliness and remembering things.
But for some reason I either stopped following her or came off SM.
And i remember my youngest daughter, who was also a "hincher", that hinch was having a massive extension done on the house.
I remember thinking "why? I thought she liked her house as it was?"
Then I either started following her again or went back on SM after it was finished.
Then I enjoyed watching her through her pregnancy. But did feel a bit worried about her breathing in so many chemicals while she was pregnant.
Then January last year I took a break from all SM. I watched a series called You or Your and something the main character said about SM in the programme really struck a chord with me so I ditched the lot.
But low and behold when I came back she had had a whole new kitchen
That was when she began to really piss me off because I distinctly remember her saying on a story or post that she would never change her kitchen. People had asked her why she didn't extend it or some shit and she made a point if saying "why would I? I would never change it" She had had to have something replaced like a door front or kick boards or something but i absolutely remeber her saying she
Would never change her kitchen.
for me it was just downhill after that.
she stopped appealing to me she was no longer relatable. It becsme clear she was all about the money
I came across tattle after the "someone betrayed" her episode where J said something about toughening her up.
I genuinely think she has PND and because she's never had help for it she hasn't been able to bond properly with Ronnie.
I adore Ronnie but I think his lack of interaction with other children is holding him back.
I love Henry, I am a fur mom too, but I agree he is over weight. But that is her doing its not Henrys fault.
And as for J well I don't really know what to say.....but he is definitely sponging off her.
But I do think he's a great dad, just could do with standing up for his son a bit more