Hereforthehonesty
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I’m genuinely concerned/surprised that Molly works in a childcare setting herself, she’s perpetuated this issue with Hugo coming into her bed for the last 2 + years (lack of routine, the cabin situation, always providing emphasis on “chilling”) and now decided she needs a routine so is removing “privileges”(play doh) for Hugo when he does not stay in his own bed.
Totally understand this needs to change but removing stuff from him for an issue she has caused. How does she expect a 2+ year old to understand this, why has it been ok up until now? Does she think he has the capacity to understand her rational.....
this is in stark contrast to her making allowances for his crappy attitude and behaviour, then he gets lots of treats and allowed to stay up late, and don’t get me started on the amount of material possessions. She’s all over the shop with any sort of structure for Hugo it’s chaotic parenting whatever way the wind blows for Molly. How can he possibly understand any of this ?!
Totally understand this needs to change but removing stuff from him for an issue she has caused. How does she expect a 2+ year old to understand this, why has it been ok up until now? Does she think he has the capacity to understand her rational.....
this is in stark contrast to her making allowances for his crappy attitude and behaviour, then he gets lots of treats and allowed to stay up late, and don’t get me started on the amount of material possessions. She’s all over the shop with any sort of structure for Hugo it’s chaotic parenting whatever way the wind blows for Molly. How can he possibly understand any of this ?!