I’m late to these people, but why isn’t custody split evenly of both kids if they have two parents?
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having been through the Australian family court system, I can tell you 50/50 split custody is extremely rare.
There can be very legitimate, child-focused, reasons why 50:50 shared time may not be appropriate. It’s not always a case of withholding or anything nefarious or sinister.
Generally speaking, a very young child, pre “school age”, has a strong attachment to one parent. In those cases, the general thinking is that to ensure their secure attachment is unaffected, they live with one parent and spend meaningful time with the other parent. It’s obviously a tricky and delicate time for the other parent as they are keen to build and maintain a solid bond and attachment too.
Once children reach primary school the general thinking is that the idea of 50:50 shared care can start to be put on the table. But it’s never a presumption. Always depends on individual circumstances and the needs of the child.
I have no interest in defending Moaning, but on this topic I don’t have concerns.
Generally speaking, a very young child, pre “school age”, has a strong attachment to one parent. In those cases, the general thinking is that to ensure their secure attachment is unaffected, they live with one parent and spend meaningful time with the other parent. It’s obviously a tricky and delicate time for the other parent as they are keen to build and maintain a solid bond and attachment too.
Once children reach primary school the general thinking is that the idea of 50:50 shared care can start to be put on the table. But it’s never a presumption. Always depends on individual circumstances and the needs of the child.
I have no interest in defending Moaning, but on this topic I don’t have concerns.
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Yep, a great summary. And also in this situation - A was extremely young, and still BFing when they split - it wouldn't have been feasible to do 50/50 at that point.
I just saw the herald sun saying they had split up. I didn’t read it cause I can’t stand that paper.
So they spent the last few months lying to everyone
Those aus open photos were fake as and the birthday ones I could tell they were just playing it up for the cameras
Exactly the AO photo's when we knew, super disingenuous
Even last week M flat out lied and gave the impression we are still together but M is working, says a lot about a person
Everyone should give these self-important, influencers of nothing, permanent ‘privacy’ ….by never following, liking, endorsing and/or blowing smoke up their arses!
Capitalising & monetising their extraordinary ’love-stories’ that are as fickle & transactional as the next ‘most favourite product they swear by’. duck em all
Capitalising & monetising their extraordinary ’love-stories’ that are as fickle & transactional as the next ‘most favourite product they swear by’. duck em all
God forbid anyone ask what’s happened. These influencers can bait their viewers with vague posts but if someone dares to ask for clarity …. Whoaaaaaa, how inappropriate, omg
Why was she barefoot in the lift 
Saw this in the comments 
Attachments
WHAT! Ahi has another Mum.....Saw this in the comments
Attachments
Miserable Moaning Moana 🥱
This whole situation actually bothers me so much, S has another Mum....WTF! Is this as we suspect parental alienation or does B genuinely not see him as her son? So bleeping sad either way. I have never seen a custody agreement like it, what about those bloody kids?!
The thirst trap selfies are upping their game. And they were both at the same event for the GP …
She’s not a complex character, so let’s put 2+2 together
She’s not a complex character, so let’s put 2+2 together