Although I do think it’s her stories and she can talk about what she wants, I also get this vibe from her too. I went through a lot of similar things to Mel and can honestly say it’s draining to even think about it let alone talk about it, acting it out etc. It’s almost become her entire personality, what is she without the abuse? Her husband must be tired of hearing about it as he’s not a therapist. She really needs to go and see someone professional that can help her properly.100% I thought this too. She knows they watch as she's said they complain about it. I think it's a "F*** you I can make it without you" kind of thing
This! Just because her general followers don’t know her nieces or nephews, it doesn’t mean others dont. Kids have tiktok, as much as she wants to deny it, it’s a fact, I see some of my friends kids on there. Mel has a recognisable face so any school friend that’s met her are going to know who she’s talking about and then rumours start and before you know it you’ve got kids being bullied for being dirty or because their dads a n0nce.She was supposedly worried about the above happening but ignored her actual own behaviour which I believe is tantamount to emotionally abusing her nieces and nephews. She does this by causing them untold damage by over exposing their private family information to huge audiences, by oversharing & talking about the children's alleged dirty underwear, their alleged poor hygiene & all the other very personal information she exposed in her attention seeking posts about them. More things that we, complete strangers, should not know. Things they could get bullied for. Things that could destabilise their family.
Telling tiktok that information about those children was in no way protecting them, it was malicious & abusive.
I'm positive from what others have alluded to, Mel has made enemies where she is originally from, people will all know the family & will know her brothers children that she deliberately humiliated. She threw those children under her revenge bus. Unforgivable! And such behaviour had absolutely nothing to do with the "trauma" she's supposedly helping the world with by discussing everyday!“There are 10 people who don’t like what you’re doing” no babes they just can’t get on as the tiktokkers thread is closed to newbies
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This! Just because her general followers don’t know her nieces or nephews, it doesn’t mean others dont. Kids have tiktok, as much as she wants to deny it, it’s a fact, I see some of my friends kids on there. Mel has a recognisable face so any school friend that’s met her are going to know who she’s talking about and then rumours start and before you know it you’ve got kids being bullied for being dirty or because their dads a n0nce.
I’m all too aware that her family are scum but what she shouldn’t do is drag down innocent children in the process (or even adults, such as andrews exs)
I don’t know how her husband copes.It’s just going to be a viscous circle. She is going to cycle through the same thing over and over before she has a breakdown from triggering herself and being trolled by her brothers. Or her husband, friend or employer get fed up of her bullshit. Your choice Mel! We’re not responsible for you nor are we trolling you, just to remind you.
I know how it feels to be a people pleaser, but friends aren’t therapists and it’s unfair to rely on them like that.
I think it’s the CTPSD thing of ‘splitting’. People are either good or bad and there’s no grey area. If she had been through the appropriate therapy or had life experience beyond her own nose, she would know this and be able to rationalise the situation. The sycophants are ‘good’ because they don’t challenge her. They give her sympathy and tell her how wonderful she is. What I find wild is that she seems more concerned with Tattle than her brothers who are the ones who are trying to ruin her!Wonderful news!!! 24 hours after another self inflicted meltdown Mel has announced that she is going to 'let everyone be' ("let them")
Well that's wonderful news, as we can continue to vent our frustrations re the world of bizarre grifting tiktokers without any more dramatics!
I appreciate we aren't able to diagnose Mel, but I'm going to speculate based solely on her behaviour.
Her online behaviour is bipolar esque, on top of all other exhibited behaviours, she's behaving soooo polar opposite post to post.
I've never seen anyone go from yesterday she was hysterically lower than low, worst she's ever felt, and today, she's just posted let's chat later to have a "jolly time"
Shes a medical marvel! What on earth is going on with her? Of course I knew she'd be back today, she needs an audience, she needs that validation to function, that we established a longtime ago but my goodness, she seems to switch her emotions up and down with enormous ease.
So tattlers, yesterday we had blame, hysterics, waterworks, self pity, and today it's all about fun fun fun and back to grifting buisness.
Here's to a jolly time! Cheers!
Wonderful news!!! 24 hours after another self inflicted meltdown Mel has announced that she is going to 'let everyone be' ("let them")
Well that's wonderful news, as we can continue to vent our frustrations re the world of bizarre grifting tiktokers without any more dramatics!
I appreciate we aren't able to diagnose Mel, but I'm going to speculate based solely on her behaviour.
Her online behaviour is bipolar esque, on top of all other exhibited behaviours, she's behaving soooo polar opposite post to post.
I've never seen anyone go from yesterday she was hysterically lower than low, worst she's ever felt, and today, she's just posted let's chat later to have a "jolly time"
Shes a medical marvel! What on earth is going on with her? Of course I knew she'd be back today, she needs an audience, she needs that validation to function, that we established a longtime ago but my goodness, she seems to switch her emotions up and down with enormous ease.
So tattlers, yesterday we had blame, hysterics, waterworks, self pity, and today it's all about fun fun fun and back to grifting buisness.
Here's to a jolly time! Cheers!
It's funny you should mention that, I was questioning whether I'd heard her saying she wanted to be a counsellor. Then I realised of course I had because she did a level two qualification in counselling.I think it’s the CTPSD thing of ‘splitting’. People are either good or bad and there’s no grey area. If she had been through the appropriate therapy or had life experience beyond her own nose, she would know this and be able to rationalise the situation. The sycophants are ‘good’ because they don’t challenge her. They give her sympathy and tell her how wonderful she is. What I find wild is that she seems more concerned with Tattle than her brothers who are the ones who are trying to ruin her!
Someone on CC said that she did a live last week and they were all telling her about their trauma and she just kept turning the conversation back to herself! The day after she posted the cooking video!
It’s dangerous for her to profess to want to help people and then dismiss them as ‘trauma dumping’. Some people have no support and may now be relying on her for support. This also makes it highly unethical for her to ever be a counsellor - as well as the fact that she will project her unresolved trauma onto her clients.
As I have BPD I have wondered if she has it also. In my eyes she’s textbook bpd - childhood trauma, incredibly sensitive to criticism, people are all good or all bad, moods flicking from top of the world to extremely low in a short amount of time. This is all speculation of course and the reality is she’s probably got a whole host of mental health disorders due to what she’s been through, it’s just a shame she’s not taking choices to get betterWonderful news!!! 24 hours after another self inflicted meltdown Mel has announced that she is going to 'let everyone be' ("let them")
Well that's wonderful news, as we can continue to vent our frustrations re the world of bizarre grifting tiktokers without any more dramatics!
I appreciate we aren't able to diagnose Mel, but I'm going to speculate based solely on her behaviour.
Her online behaviour is bipolar esque, on top of all other exhibited behaviours, she's behaving soooo polar opposite post to post.
I've never seen anyone go from yesterday she was hysterically lower than low, worst she's ever felt, and today, she's just posted let's chat later to have a "jolly time"
Shes a medical marvel! What on earth is going on with her? Of course I knew she'd be back today, she needs an audience, she needs that validation to function, that we established a longtime ago but my goodness, she seems to switch her emotions up and down with enormous ease.
So tattlers, yesterday we had blame, hysterics, waterworks, self pity, and today it's all about fun fun fun and back to grifting buisness.
Here's to a jolly time! Cheers!
We can indeed speculate without reaction now that Mel has opted to "let all of our comments go"As I have BPD I have wondered if she has it also. In my eyes she’s textbook bpd - childhood trauma, incredibly sensitive to criticism, people are all good or all bad, moods flicking from top of the world to extremely low in a short amount of time. This is all speculation of course and the reality is she’s probably got a whole host of mental health disorders due to what she’s been through, it’s just a shame she’s not taking choices to get better
I hate the BPD diagnosis. It’s CPTSD, but used negatively by the NHS to treat people as a problem and avoid having to help them.As I have BPD I have wondered if she has it also. In my eyes she’s textbook bpd - childhood trauma, incredibly sensitive to criticism, people are all good or all bad, moods flicking from top of the world to extremely low in a short amount of time. This is all speculation of course and the reality is she’s probably got a whole host of mental health disorders due to what she’s been through, it’s just a shame she’s not taking choices to get better
Diagnosis of MH patients is definitely a work in progress in the nhs, but I purely mention them to try explain mels bizarre behaviour.I hate the BPD diagnosis. It’s CPTSD, but used negatively by the NHS to treat people as a problem and avoid having to help them.
Interesting! I knew there was a stigma attached with bpd but I’ve never looked into CTPSDI hate the BPD diagnosis. It’s CPTSD, but used negatively by the NHS to treat people as a problem and avoid having to help them.
Oh yeah, I’m not talking about you! It has been an opinion of mine for a long time having seen how people with a BPD diagnosis have been treated by the NHS and how difficult it is to get it changed to CPTSD. There are so many stories on social media of people being treated as a problem. I hope it is due to underfunding, but there does seem to be some people who are working in NHS mental health services who shouldn’t be.Diagnosis of MH patients is definitely a work in progress in the nhs, but I purely mention them to try explain mels bizarre behaviour.
Nothing more nothing less. Plus Mels that loves to self diagnose and label everyone else's behaviour. Shes diagnosed her whole family, ex friends and we are diagnosed as trolls. But of course she's the victim
The symptoms are the same!Interesting! I knew there was a stigma attached with bpd but I’ve never looked into CTPSD
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