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I think it all adds up perfectly. He's gone on a hedonistic holiday, absolutely caned the booze and drugs, got absolutely wasted and decided he could walk 11 hours or however long it's supposed to be and has probably died of dehydration in a bush somewhere.
 
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Bima6694

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I dont feel sorry for him ome bit he almost killed a lad in 2021...also what 19 year old goes off with strangers and then tries to walk 10 hours back? I think something more happening
Drugs. That's what makes a 19 yr old do stupid things. Drugs.

Idk why everyone is going Sherlock Holmes on this. The most likely scenario is the most obvious one
 
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hellothereyellow

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I saw a medium on live earlier and she was 'tuning' into Jay and started screaming 'IM ALIVE BUT I'VE FALLEN I CANT SCREAM, IM WEAK, SOMEONE HELP' and I thought to myself imagine being that lads mum and you see someone do that???? These mediums need sectioning, it's a mental illness I'm telling ya!!
 
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YeahBrackie

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The Facebook groups are absolutely bonkers. Thousands of people all trying to outdo each other in terms of who is the most upset about someone they've never met.
"I only got 2 hours sleep last night worrying about him."
"Well, I only got one hours sleep. AND I didn't eat all day yesterday because I was so upset. I've also prayed for him 20 times so far today and it's only 10 past midnight."

Then all the ridiculous theories and people making completely illogical suggestions in their desperation to show everyone how helpful they are. "Someone says they saw him walking along the road with a beer in his hand yesterday." "Why would he have a beer?" "Maybe he found it or someone gave it to him."

None of it seems altruistic, it just comes across as people finding all the drama exciting and using it as a way of both entertaining themselves and demonstrating what kind empathic people they are
 
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Guys, there has been a development in the Asha Degree case. Disappearance of Asha Degree - Wikipedia

Asha was a 9 year old little girl from a happy family who in 2000 seemingly got up independently in the middle of the night, grabbed her backpack and left home. She was spotted in the early hours of the morning by a truck driver who stopped and tried to help her as she was walking down a busy highway in heavy rain and wind. She ran off into the trees and he reported it. Her family discovered her missing at 6:30am (she was seen in bed at 2:30am) and reported her straight away.

Some time later her bag was found buried off the side of a highway. Another time some of her possessions were found in a hut alongside a picture of a mystery girl and some other things. The mystery girl in the photo has never been identified.

On Missing Childrens day the FBI released a tip that said she was potentially seen getting in to an old model green car - like a 70's 80's model.

Last night a farm very close to where Asha went missing was raided, reports are that a body has been found, rumours are abound that it came from a confession. In additional news the Degree family have made a statement on FB seemingly confirming the rumours of the raid and saying it is 'distressing for the family'.

I hope they get the answers that they deserve after 24 years. Asha would be 34.
 
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Windermere

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Anyone else sick to death of seeing these style tiktoks? Teens recording themselves and just putting some text about the missing lad 😐 absolute attention seekers the lot of them
 
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I predict Jay Slater will need his own thread. We have an Archie’s Army type situation developing; deluded parent, over involved Facebook group members, dodgy fund raising activities, skeletons in the family closet…
 
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churro

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Always nice to know that Sharon and Dave from your resort have got your back if you ever do go missing on holibobs, straight out to search after the all inclusive brekkie x
 
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filthycop

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Just a question really, but why do some folks get so much media coverage when they go missing, but other folks go missing every day and there's nothing?
I think it is a number of factors - whether the police/family think it was deliberate or if it is something more sinister. Some families talk to the media a lot and try to keep the story alive, others dont. Sometimes there may police concerns that full media will be dangerous to the missing person etc... a lot we dont know that is going on behind the scenes.

I have a friend who went missing - there was some, but not much, publicity and it died down. But he'd been having mental heath issues and we all know where he has gone in our hearts. He was caught on CCTV near the cliffs at his favourite holiday place buying a bottle of whiskey. He hasn't been seen since then in 2016, we all know he is never coming back. heartbreaking, but constant appeals wont help either.
 
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kermucklowe

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Personally, I abhor Go Fund Me, I'm sorry if that makes me sound heartless, I just don't agree with them.
 
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churro

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Anyone seen the video of Jays mum pleading with the ‘kidnapper’ to let him go … What in the Karen Matthews is going on
 
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swipeupqueen

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The FB group is absolutely bonkers

Like others have said its Azaylias army etc all over again

At 19, off me head on drink and drugs at 8am would 100% have decided to walk home if I had enough, no matter the terrain or the fact I didn't have battery on my phone or water, pretty sure as long as I had a packet of fags and a bloodstream of drink and drugs I'd have thought I was invincible and the walk "wouldn't take long"

I really can't see this having a good outcome.
 
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Koalalalala

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Poor little boy. How awful 😢

I was listening to The Missing podcast yesterday, was about Charlene Downes.
I did not know about this case and it’s another really terrible one.
But towards the end, it touched on some stuff about her background that made me do a real double take, and see things from a completely different perspective.
I wondered if anyone else had listened to it, or knew of the case, and what your thoughts are?
It’s left me feeling so uncomfortable and so sad for the poor kid. The podcast seemed to gloss over a lot of stuff, but it seemed as though she never stood a chance in life :(
I know of the case and have read about it online quite a lot. It’s also been discussed on the real life crime and murder threads (if you fancies a read) I’ll copy and paste an article another user posted at the time…

I've done this before but will do it every time I have to. All you need to know about Charlene Downes is contained in this article from the times written in 2013 - it's now paywalled so I've transcribed it. I would also go as far as to say that I am 99% certain that she will never be found and her case will never be solved.

Too little cared for and too little mourned

"There goes Charlene Downes, ten years ago today, skipping towards the bright lights of Blackpool. Never to be seen again.

It was late autumn, the final night of the season. During the evening, the 14-year-old was spotted in a bar at the seaside resort’s North Pier. Someone bought her a vodka and Coke. She left with a young friend. They headed for a dark, waste-strewn passageway lined on each side by the rear entrances to several takeaway food premises.

This was “Paki Alley”, where chips and alcohol were in plentiful supply for children smart enough to know that one good turn deserved another. Arcades and kebab shops were a cheap escape from teenage boredom but on that particular night, November 1, 2003, a crime took place which meant that Charlene never came home.

A decade on and the unsolved murder has barely registered with the mainstream public. By contrast, Britain’s far-right parties have taken such an interest in the Downes case that banners demanding “Justice for Charlene” were raised on football terraces by sections of hardcore fans.

Their focus was triggered by a 2007 criminal trial at which it was alleged that the child was killed by a Jordanian kebab-shop owner who later disposed of her body with the help of his Iranian business partner. No remains were discovered.

Lacking concrete proof of murder, the prosecution was built on hearsay evidence from an unreliable witness and on a police officer’s transcription of low-quality recordings from bugs placed in the flat and car of one of the suspects. Its accuracy was repeatedly challenged by the defence.

On the eve of a scheduled 2008 retrial, after the first hearing led to a hung jury, the case collapsed. Both defendants were acquitted. The far-right’s conspiracy theory — dark-skinned men getting away with the rape and murder of a white girl — gained strength in 2011 when it emerged that an unpublished police report identified more than 60 girls who were groomed for sex by Asian workers at a cluster of takeaways.

Today, Charlene’s disappearance will be marked by a memorial service in the town, organised by the British National Party. Tomorrow, its supporters will stage a demonstration against “Muslim grooming gangs”. Leading the tributes will be her parents, Robert and Karen Downes. They are cherished icons of the nationalist movement. But they sit on a hollow throne.

The truth, hidden until now, is that so many men of all creeds and colours were suspected of sexual offences against Charlene that when she first went missing the police did not know which way to turn. One of the trails led directly inside the Downes family home. Confidential witness statements, social services records and internal police reports reveal that the child protection authorities first became concerned about Charlene’s home environment in 1989, the year she was born.

Then, the family were living in the West Midlands. Police and social services launched a joint investigation because a convicted rapist, jailed three times for buggery and indecent assaults on two young girls, was a regular visitor to the house and was allowed unsupervised access to a child.

Mr Downes, now 52, was “strongly advised” by social services not to allow the man inside his home but the visits were suspected to have continued. A witness told the authorities she saw the rapist “fondling [a child] in the house and that the parents were present”. They deny that any such incident happened.

In 1998, when Charlene was 9, she and another girl alleged that they were being sexually abused by a man “trusted by Mr and Mrs Downes to take them to school”. He was charged with rape but the case collapsed when the other girl failed to give evidence.

Charlene’s parents told The Times that the man seemed trustworthy because “he had a girlfriend”. They rejected a police officer’s report that they “had some knowledge of the abuse but failed to act”.

The family moved to Blackpool in 1999 after Walsall social services threatened to prosecute the parents for wilful neglect and to have the children taken into care. In the North West, a succession of men were introduced to the family after meeting Mr Downes in local pubs. Some stayed overnight or even longer.

They included a man in his 50s who described Charlene, then 13, as his girlfriend, and a 40-year-old who later admitted to police that he paid her to carry out a sex act. Three days after Charlene vanished, a 34-year-old man, staying with the Downes family while on bail, was jailed for crimes that included indecent assaults on three young girls. He admitted indecently touching the missing child.

An account of life inside the Downes home came from an environmental health officer, visiting one morning on council business, who walked into a downstairs room to find Charlene, then 12, lying on a bed in a “skimpy” nightgown. Lying alongside her was a man in his 60s. The girl jumped up and “started to scoop a number of pound coins off the bed”. The man, “shaken and trembling”, began “pulling his trouser zip up and fastening his belt”.

In a witness statement, the council employee described his shock at “the situation I had stumbled into”. He said Charlene was quick to tell him that “it’s OK — he’s my uncle”. Mr Downes then entered the room, apparently unconcerned, and explained that the man was “a family friend”. The incident was reported to social services but “it was decided not to pursue the matter further due to lack of evidence, lack of co-operation from the family and no complaint from Charlene”.

Her parents described it as a misunderstanding. Mrs Downes blamed the council worker for being too “nosey”. They said that the man on the bed with Charlene was “a lovely, nice old man” who had merely been adjusting his trousers. Mr Downes said he did not know, at the time, that any of the men he brought home had a sexual interest in children.

The couple did not comment on a hospital doctor’s report from June 2000, when Charlene was 11, warning of suspected sexual abuse, nor on the 13 visits she made to an NHS walk-in centre over a 12-month period in 2002-03, when she regularly sought help for sexual health problems.

Her mother insisted this week that her husband always sought to protect their daughter. She described the documents seen by this newspaper as “widely exaggerated and untrue”.

This is the mother of a child who apparently made regular visits, aged 11, to a Salvation Army soup kitchen and was seen dancing for men outside a pub, aged 12. Her parents explained that she enjoyed going “to church” and often danced to “music that she liked”. It was against this background that Charlene began swapping sexual favours, during the final months of her life, with Asian and Arab takeaway workers.

The Times understands that, three months before she vanished, she was one of two girls driven by Asian men from Blackpool to a lay-by in Blackburn. There, at midnight, she walked down an alley with one of the men, returning an hour later. Back in Blackpool, she was handed an envelope. Her friend asked what was inside and was told it was “what I got for what I did in Blackburn”.

Another Asian man is known to have taken her to Manchester in an old BMW less than a week before she disappeared. Neither incident was connected to the two men who stood trial over her murder.

It can also be revealed that a week before she went missing, a white man with the “motive and opportunity to murder Charlene” gave her £40. He met her again on her final night. A police report described him as a “compulsive, perverted paedophile” living in “a squalid flat knee-deep in pornographic material of all types including those featuring young children”.

Lancashire Constabulary today announces a new investigation, pledging “an open mind” about the murder. Its inquiry will not be short of suspects. Some are white; some are not.

Evidence shows that Charlene Downes was failed throughout her life. Until now, she has also been failed in death. The reports suggest that she was let down by her parents, by care professionals, by dozens of sex abusers, by her killers and by a police force that mismanaged a murder inquiry.

Today, the BNP distorts her story to sow seeds of divisive malevolence. Too little cared for, too little mourned. She deserves better."
 
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Hereforthelol’s

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It goes against human nature to remain with someone that stabbed your only son and a suspect in the disappearance or your only daughter . Both kids gone and one common denominator. How this woman wakes up and looks at herself the mirror beggars belief . The epitome or pure evil .I hope Amy’s Dad gets gets closure .
 
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karmadrama

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Is anyone part of the group for missing woman Victoria Taylor? It’s like Jay Slater and Nicola Bulley all over again. Saw a post this morning from someone with a photo of a peacock saying ‘hello from mr P who is looking out for you. I’m not local but will keep looking and saying hello to you every day’

What the actual fuck is wrong with these people. I doubt she’s going to be sat there scrolling through the group thinking oh shit the peacock is concerned for me, better go home now 🙄
 
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Davena94

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So funny how fickle social media is. These exact same people who “can’t sleep for worrying” would have been calling for a public hanging over what he did a couple of years back
 
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WordsFromReuben

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For anyone following the disappearance of Jack O’Sullivan in Bristol after a night out, police have found a badly decomposed body, possibly could be missing Jack 🙁
 
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