Missing people and murder cases #3

[Eureka]

There was a young woman murdered here earlier this year. She was out jogging in the day time in a populated area. She did everything they tell us to do and was still attacked. Despite this I still read posts online that asked why was she running alone, was she wearing earphones, was she wearing tight running clothing, did she not vary her routine? She did everything "right" and still died and despite this people are still looking for something in her behaviour that "got her killed" rather than looking at the attitude and behaviour of men.

Personally I am sick of it. I used to run a lot years ago and would be lectured by men for running alone or in quiet areas, the same people who are first to shout NOT ALL MEN when a woman talks about the fear of day to day life. We make so many micro decisions around safety that we don't even notice them anymore and its become so normalised for us and yet no matter what we do women still get murdered and raped and beaten. Nothing will change unless men and the culture of entitlement they have changes.

 

[Eureka]

I doubt her family have the time to read Tattle. They have just suffered a major bereavement. The concept of Tattle is that we discuss issues away from people's social media platforms, to avoid accusations of trolling and bullying.

These threads will be here in the future long after you’ve moved on from the case one of her family members, her children might read it.

I know it’s just discussion but read back on what you are writing. Even the suggestion of psych ops is crazy. This is a normal mum who died tragically, we don’t need to know anymore. Implying there is some kind of nefarious activity going on regarding her Facebook posts sounds unhinged. And sharing images of her kids is just wrong on so many levels. This isn’t entertainment.

Let the woman rest in peace.

 

[Hollie Day]

When Sarah Everard went missing local women were told to stay inside until the person was apprehended. We are at risk from men yet they are allowed to roam freely and we have to stay inside.

 

[50sGirl]

Poor woman - going to her grave never knowing what happened to her daughter. Life can be so cruel.

It’s cases like this that make me really hope there is a “heaven” or something when we die so they can finally be reunited.

 

[sazzles88]

My dad would always offer to pick me up from a night out, saved me taximoney and he never minded if I was drunk so I always called him. Something I'll do for my children too if it may stop something like this.

So sad for these families. But glad they didn't hurt anyone else.

 

[thegirlscout]

God the comments on that post are a mess, but the person who organised the fireworks/vigil commented (to argue) but also confirmed it in his comment.

The amount of people who commented on the grieving father’s post must be thick in the head - it is Rafel’s fault. He could have said ‘no, I’m too drunk/high to drive’ but instead everyone posting in favour of him wants to absolve him of any responsibility.
‘he wouldn’t have driven if he knew the outcome’ - no shit! Unless he was suicidal, but the idiot still drove the car, it’s his responsibility to be alert and sober.
‘we’ve all done stupid things when we were younger’ - there’s stupid and there’s driving at speed whilst off your face and killing yourself and 2 others!

 

[Rainbowcactus8]

I really don’t like to speculate, however a quick google tells you a lot about one of the people involved (unless this is a really common name?).. I really hope this is not a repeat offence also, the car apparently had no MOT? This whole situation is just a recipe for disaster. Such a heartbreaking situation for everyone and their families, no matter the cause.

First article is from 2011, hence the young age. https://www.thefreelibrary.com/Mour...ed'+by+plan+for+city+crematorium.-a0248114271

Second article is from 2022.. meaning he would still be banned from driving.. https://www.southwalesargus.co.uk/news/20580599.court-newport-abertillery-risca-cardiff/

 

[lookatmekimmy]

So the sister died in a crash involving a drug/drunk driver and there was a documentary about it (including the girl involved in this accident): https://www.express.co.uk/showbiz/t...s-fatal-car-crash-drugs-convicted-documentary

I hope it doesn't come out the driver of the vehicle was intoxicated, although that seems to be the common assumption. Such a shame to be deeply affected by it in your life, take a strong stance on it, then get in the car anyway.

I mean, we’ve all made silly mistakes when young/pissed and I’m certainly not sitting here trying to say I was whiter than white and the poor girl/family, BUT I cannot understand how she could’ve made that choice to get in that car knowing full well the devastation that can come from it most of us get away with these things I guess and she prob felt invincible we never think it will happen to us

 

[Deeznutslol]

I know some people don't want this conversation to be had, but it needs to be had. If you are offended by discussion of the Nicola Bulley case, please ignore this post. This video is very interesting and seems to shine a light on Penny.

Imagine how much this poor woman has been harassed by nut job, pathetic conspiracy theorists since this case started, it’s been going on for months now. No wonder she’s fucked off by it all.
Get these freaks down to the fucking job centre I beg, get them doing something useful for society instead of causing trouble and clout chasing off of a tragic accident which has left a family without a mother.

 

[thegreencow]

Little Miss Nobody, a child Jane Doe discovered on 31st July 1960 has today been identified as Sharon Lee Gallegos. Sharon was abducted in front of her friends or siblings from the alleyway behind her Grandma's house on 21st July 1960, just weeks before her 5th birthday. I have been watching the live press conference by Yavapai County (Arizona) of the announcement of her identification. The detective quite rightly said that he hopes that the name 'Little Miss Nobody' is never used again.
NOW: 'Little Miss Nobody' Identified Decades Later - YouTube

This is proof of how incredible science is. I'm constantly surprised by how old these doe cases are. More information about Sharon and her abduction here:
Sharon Lee Gallegos – The Charley Project
‘Little Miss Nobody’ remains from Arizona cold case identified as New Mexico girl abducted in 1960 (nbcnews.com)

 

[Bima6694]

It seemed to me that the medium was questioning if it indeed was Nicola on the walk, which also doesn't make sense as someone who knows Nikki claims to have seen her on the walk.

But it is an interesting theory.


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Here, Nikki's face appears to have a full shape, square like.

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Here, the face appears to be more narrow, and the right eye appears to be more deep set than in the first picture.

Give over man. People like you are the reason the police have had to air poor Nicolas dirty laundry.

Psychic is a load of shit

 

[Eureka]

So, several years ago I was working on a film shoot near Heathrow Airport at a canal basin and we found a body in the canal I'm not sure how long he had been there, but he was very bloated, not massively decomposed from what we saw. I remember what he was wearing to this day. One of our crew kept hold of him in the water with a boat hook while we waited for the police to arrive. Absolutely grim.

I found what I thought was a dead body in undergrowth near my home a few years back. Turns out he wasn't dead, just badly injured and he thankfully survived. It was in a really shit location and I had to wait to direct the ambulance which seemed to take forever. Although it wasn't a death it still left me with a bit of ptsd.

 

[50sGirl]

I’ve noticed her mum is giving a few interviews to the media. She gave one to the Sun before and another to the DM I believe and now this.

Yes, imho now is not the time. She is guessing what happened in that car and it’s not fair to the families of those who died to speculate like this.
She should be concentrating on her daughter right now. Media and apportioning blame can wait.

 

[HannahC]

If my relative was missing, presumed dead, i'd be absolutely furious and devastated that a charlatan physic was looking to get their five minutes of fame by making up complete horseshit about my loved one. It's offensive.

 

[SaLou]

People have lost their damn minds. The rubbish still written about Nicola and her family is absolutely disturbingly bonkers.

 

[puddleduck]

Dear me. This poor woman has died. Time to move on and leave it be.

 

[JBinstafun]

I’m wondering if there was a relationship breakdown very recently. The partner only talks about the kids, her parents only talk about the kids. I know if my husband went missing I’d be telling him how much I loved and missed him as well as the kids...

 

[LilPinkie]

Can we move the Nicola Bulley chat to her thread?

This is a missing person thread and she’s missing. I’d rather read posts on this thread than some of the ridiculous theories hobbling around on the dedicated one. That’s why I don’t read it anymore.

 

[50sGirl]

The video appeared to play a connection with the spirit of Nicola and the psychic's own spirit guides. The video suggested that Nicola was murdered by Paul because Nicola found out that he was having an affair. It also suggested that Nicola's body has been 'dismantled' and buried.

And you thought that was “interesting”?
So Paul who, it has been ascertained, never left the house, managed to murder Nicola in a very short time, dismantle (she’s not a piece of furniture!) and bury her in ground that at the time was likely have been frozen solid?!

Okaaaay…
Wanna buy some magic beans?

 

[LaBlonde]

I'm with you, 100%, on this.

Does anyone remember the case of Helen Bailey, the author who was murdered by her husband?

It was thanks to concerned everyday citizens raising the alarm that her husband's previous wife had also died under what were thought to be puzzling circumstances; after a full investigation he was indeed convicted of her death also!

There are many, many things that don't add up about Nicola's death. It's not good enough just to leave it because her family have pleaded for privacy - nobody is above the law and all avenues need to be properly investigated.

every single part of the nicola bulley case “adds up” - the only thing we won’t ever know for sure is how she came to fall into the river but even then there are likely theories.

i find your final paragraph a little worrying tbh. her family pleading for privacy is very much a good reason to “just leave it”. they’ve made it incredibly clear how upsetting they find this line of conversation and to ignore their wishes is just cruel at this point.