Minniharrisuk #1

[byefeliciax]

That baby was definitely planned.who does a very early pregnancy test. Those wishing and desperate to conceive. She was 1-2 weeks pregnant on the test.

Personally, i think without the cap lifted shed have had another. And will continue

Now a rainbow baby mentioned . Cant stand the phrase (i had losses before a baby came, it is the worst when you long for a child and have planned your life in every way, for a baby, however, mine have never been called rainbows - a bloody marketing phrase if you ask me and women needing labels for everything)

Those tests say 1-2 weeks but that means 1-2 weeks post conception (the way Americans measure it), so actually 3-4 weeks the way the English measure it.

It does look like she’s about 20 weeks so maybe the August photo shoot with the kids and scan picture was the baby she lost. Which is sad in any situation, to have lost a baby especially at a gestation where they’re somewhat developed, but that does also mean that she got pregnant within 2 months of knowing her new boyfriend. That’s absolutely disgustingly irresponsible. “Accidents happen” but when you already have two toddlers, you know how those accidents happen, and you do more to avoid it.

Of course it won’t have been an accident. She’ll have kids by another two fathers yet.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Those tests say 1-2 weeks but that means 1-2 weeks post conception (the way Americans measure it), so actually 3-4 weeks the way the English measure it.

It does look like she’s about 20 weeks so maybe the August photo shoot with the kids and scan picture was the baby she lost. Which is sad in any situation, to have lost a baby especially at a gestation where they’re somewhat developed, but that does also mean that she got pregnant within 2 months of knowing her new boyfriend. That’s absolutely disgustingly irresponsible. “Accidents happen” but when you already have two toddlers, you know how those accidents happen, and you do more to avoid it.

Of course it won’t have been an accident. She’ll have kids by another two fathers yet.

She is doing an update about 'how life has really been'. If this is the sob story put out.i hope followers see how irresponsible & scheming she is. Two pregnancies with a guy not known a year.

Have you seen in comments, you are such a good mum. Really? Inviting random men into the house aroind her kids, exposing them online, giving them sparklers inadequately dressed ect.and way back a really bad safeguarding isssue. Young ppl in her home, cant remember the story. She ended up locked out of her home.!

 

[byefeliciax]

Next time lefty loon James O'Brien sticks up for benefits mothers on his LBC show. Saying no one plans to live on benefits or make a career. I will suggest he looks up Minnie, Alex M Forevergrowingnest. The cocky adult child girls plaster it online.

I actually find myself agreeing with a lot of what J O’B says and do consider myself a bit of a lefty loon, but people like Minnie wind me right up because they are a minority who make a mockery of any pro-welfare argument. They do a disservice to everyone who needs a temporary state-funded leg up, because they treat it like an unlimited handout and they’re so brazen about it.

Benefits and social housing pulled me and my family out of a tight spot when my whole world collapsed. I would have loved more children but I knew I couldn’t provide for them, and it wasn’t for the rest of the world to foot the bill for my choices.

 

[rosieflowers]

Its absolutely mental to me that someone with no independent way to provide for their children thinks they should have another. It shows the benefits must pay her well.

Was about to say no chance is she officially moving him in. What a sad state of affairs. I wouldnt be surprised if she's already on PIP because of her 'mental helf' and supposed back story

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I actually find myself agreeing with a lot of what J O’B says and do consider myself a bit of a lefty loon, but people like Minnie wind me right up because they are a minority who make a mockery of any pro-welfare argument. They do a disservice to everyone who needs a temporary state-funded leg up, because they treat it like an unlimited handout and they’re so brazen about it.

Benefits and social housing pulled me and my family out of a tight spot when my whole world collapsed. I would have loved more children but I knew I couldn’t provide for them, and it wasn’t for the rest of the world to foot the bill for my choices.

Well done to you. Could not have been essy

I have not experienced benefits. I get upset because of being taxed to buggery my husband and i's entite life. The child benefit reform 2013 was it? affected us. I was a SAHM. Life was a struggle for us with young kids. Yes he was a good earner but just over the threshold.if we had a joint income of about 90k i think it was, paying less tax each not higher rate. We'd have still got the child benefit

And it makes me really sad. My grandmother (before benefits) REALLY had it hard. My grandad was a sick man from childhood illnesses and was in out work. When he was post op for months they had nothing. Nothing!!! Not saying it should be like this again.it certainly shoukld be only a help up for a short time.no way a career

 

[byefeliciax]

Its absolutely mental to me that someone with no independent way to provide for their children thinks they should have another. It shows the benefits must pay her well.

Was about to say no chance is she officially moving him in. What a sad state of affairs. I wouldnt be surprised if she's already on PIP because of her 'mental helf' and supposed back story

I think you might be right about PIP. I have experience of benefits as a single mum of two and that was back when my shopping and utility bills were quarter what they are now, and there’s no way in hell I could have afforded to finance and run and insure and maintain an automatic vehicle (let alone do the £45 an hour driving lessons), buy a £600 trendy rug all the other content creators have, buy new appliances every time I fancy it, redecorate a room whenever I fancy it, buy a brand new sofa, plus expensive coffee table, plus £300 mirror, plus IKEA hauls regularly, plus new beds for the kids just because they were on sale (even though she will need bunk beds imminently), as well as having family outings all the time, paying for shopping bags in Aldi, blah blah blah and then feel flush enough to bring another life into the world on purpose!

She says openly her content creating doesn’t bring in enough to come off benefits, but the lifestyle she exhibits isn’t affordable on the bare minimum Universal Credit. She’s got to be tapping into extra pots of public money.

Her boyfriend and his family seem reasonably well off, he has treated her to a lot of expensive things, so part of me wonders whether she’s tapping into their money too claiming she’s carrying his baby so it’s time to start coughing up maintenance.

 

[byefeliciax]

Well done to you. Could not have been essy

I have not experienced benefits. I get upset because of being taxed to buggery my husband and i's entite life. The child benefit reform 2013 was it? affected us. I was a SAHM. Life was a struggle for us with young kids. Yes he was a good earner but just over the threshold.if we had a joint income of about 90k i think it was, paying less tax each not higher rate. We'd have still got the child benefit

And it makes me really sad. My grandmother (before benefits) REALLY had it hard. My grandad was a sick man from childhood illnesses and was in out work. When he was post op for months they had nothing. Nothing!!! Not saying it should be like this again.it certainly shoukld be only a help up for a short time.no way a career

Our system is currently geared to support the wealthiest and support the poorest, but it completely misses out the ones in the middle who earn marginally over thresholds for financial support (and in principle should be comfortable on their income) and yet they’re the ones who take the full brunt of the cost of living with hikes in mortgage rates and council tax and utility bills and food shopping etc.

It’s obviously not always the fault of the poorest in society that they end up needing a bit of help, though little mats like this do actively make the choice to game the system at everyone else’s expense because they’re comfortable being waited on. It’s no wonder hardworking taxpayers feel like the Minnies of the world are a burden. It’s tone deaf, to be gloating about their spending and ability to afford to grow their family and their entitlement to a bigger house when actually… they’re not the ones really paying.

My friend is currently facing near poverty trying to get by on maternity pay. She’s paid into the system all her adult life, dedicated her career to public service, then decided to have a baby before it was “too late”, and now can barely afford to fuel her car. She would have loved a second baby but is seriously reconsidering whether that’s even financially viable. Meanwhile, Minnie’s never contributed to society and is like…

She’s in for some serious backlash. Never paid a penny in tax, 3 kids under 4, all provided for by the people who are having to sell the cars they worked for to pay their mortgage, and giving up on dreams of having a family of their own. I think silly little Minnie has a wake up call coming her way. Now would be a good time to walk away from having a public persona.

 

[byefeliciax]

I don’t think the beach photo was a gender reveal, it looks like they just went to tell the kids she was pregnant there and obviously needed a love heart cake for the gram. She has no bump, which she would if she knew the sex.

I originally thought she made it black and white to disguise the colour of the cake, but now I think it might just be black and white to represent the baby she didn’t get to have.

 

[dumdums83]

Our system is currently geared to support the wealthiest and support the poorest, but it completely misses out the ones in the middle who earn marginally over thresholds for financial support (and in principle should be comfortable on their income) and yet they’re the ones who take the full brunt of the cost of living with hikes in mortgage rates and council tax and utility bills and food shopping etc.

It’s obviously not always the fault of the poorest in society that they end up needing a bit of help, though little mats like this do actively make the choice to game the system at everyone else’s expense because they’re comfortable being waited on. It’s no wonder hardworking taxpayers feel like the Minnies of the world are a burden. It’s tone deaf, to be gloating about their spending and ability to afford to grow their family and their entitlement to a bigger house when actually… they’re not the ones really paying.

My friend is currently facing near poverty trying to get by on maternity pay. She’s paid into the system all her adult life, dedicated her career to public service, then decided to have a baby before it was “too late”, and now can barely afford to fuel her car. She would have loved a second baby but is seriously reconsidering whether that’s even financially viable. Meanwhile, Minnie’s never contributed to society and is like…


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She’s in for some serious backlash. Never paid a penny in tax, 3 kids under 4, all provided for by the people who are having to sell the cars they worked for to pay their mortgage, and giving up on dreams of having a family of their own. I think silly little Minnie has a wake up call coming her way. Now would be a good time to walk away from having a public persona.

And I’m blôcķêd

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Our system is currently geared to support the wealthiest and support the poorest, but it completely misses out the ones in the middle who earn marginally over thresholds for financial support (and in principle should be comfortable on their income) and yet they’re the ones who take the full brunt of the cost of living with hikes in mortgage rates and council tax and utility bills and food shopping etc.

It’s obviously not always the fault of the poorest in society that they end up needing a bit of help, though little mats like this do actively make the choice to game the system at everyone else’s expense because they’re comfortable being waited on. It’s no wonder hardworking taxpayers feel like the Minnies of the world are a burden. It’s tone deaf, to be gloating about their spending and ability to afford to grow their family and their entitlement to a bigger house when actually… they’re not the ones really paying.

My friend is currently facing near poverty trying to get by on maternity pay. She’s paid into the system all her adult life, dedicated her career to public service, then decided to have a baby before it was “too late”, and now can barely afford to fuel her car. She would have loved a second baby but is seriously reconsidering whether that’s even financially viable. Meanwhile, Minnie’s never contributed to society and is like…


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She’s in for some serious backlash. Never paid a penny in tax, 3 kids under 4, all provided for by the people who are having to sell the cars they worked for to pay their mortgage, and giving up on dreams of having a family of their own. I think silly little Minnie has a wake up call coming her way. Now would be a good time to walk away from having a public persona.

Absolutely this. The last few years, during the cost of living crisis.it is the lower paid working familiessuffering and have been the ones using food/clothing banks, not heating their homes. Kids going without. All WRONG.

 

[dumdums83]

Yeah and that’s what I said and got blocked for it. She’s not a nice person, plays the system and should have a platform on social media. Nasty girl and an absolute tramp

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Yeah and that’s what I said and got blocked for it. She’s not a nice person, plays the system and should have a platform on social media. Nasty girl and an absolute tramp

Agree. Shes a sheep in a wolfs clothes.

 

[byefeliciax]

Absolutely this. The last few years, during the cost of living crisis.it is the lower paid working familiessuffering and have been the ones using food/clothing banks, not heating their homes. Kids going without. All WRONG.

It’s a sorry state of affairs when those who have never worked nor contributed are living better quality lives than those who have paid in from the moment they left school.

Like I say, I’m left leaning, and I think all children should be provided for, none should have to suffer because of their parents’ choices, but Minnie makes me feel the opposite. Maybe if her and her kids weren’t so comfortably cared for by the state she might have no choice but to figure out contraception and get out into the workforce. But now she’s bought herself some more time where she won’t be able to afford childcare for so many kids at once and has no choice but to be catered for by taxpayers.

Whoever it was in her comments that said she should set up an Amazon wish list needs to give their head a wobble. She takes enough as it is!

 

[byefeliciax]

Yeah and that’s what I said and got blocked for it. She’s not a nice person, plays the system and should have a platform on social media. Nasty girl and an absolute tramp

I imagine she’s having to filter out a lot of negative comments and that’s going to continue for a long time yet. She’s such a grifter.

She had the prime opportunity to focus on her kids, a career, her home, her relationship, and plan on expanding her family when she had the space and resources a couple of years down the line. But no, she’s entitled, and she thinks the rest of the country should support her little game of mummies and daddies and dollies and houses. The inability to plan and think it through is testament to her immaturity. The fact she’s rushed into family trapping the first boy who would date her again just shows how badly she needs therapy, not more kids.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I imagine she’s having to filter out a lot of negative comments and that’s going to continue for a long time yet. She’s such a grifter.

She had the prime opportunity to focus on her kids, a career, her home, her relationship, and plan on expanding her family when she had the space and resources a couple of years down the line. But no, she’s entitled, and she thinks the rest of the country should support her little game of mummies and daddies and dollies and houses. The inability to plan and think it through is testament to her immaturity. The fact she’s rushed into family trapping the first boy who would date her again just shows how badly she needs therapy, not more kids.

I dont believe she needs therapy, I dont believe everything she has said about the abuse from her step father - because. If she was abused by a atep father she would be OTT cautious about BFs, and potential step father around her own children.

I do believe she was dragged up by a benefits scrounging mother. Minnie is repeating the cycle and no doubt got and getting all the information she needs to play the system from her Mother.

Apart from pissing around 'influencing' which takes not much skill, much effort..regular hours. This girl wont ever support herself with her own income

Going back to her Mother. She clearly did not raise her well because if she had of. Minnie would not have the teeth she does. She has severe overcrowding, a dentist would have extracted 4 teeth when she was an early teen. Had it myself! Then braces and one of my children have had the same. Her mouth must be quite sore and uncomfortable because it looks like she has trouble closing her mouth due to overcrowding, I am not body shaming. Pointing out that these types do not do the basics requirements for their children.

 

[Goldfish]

She is living a life of luxuries I could only dream of, I’m married, I’m a sahm of 3 soon to be 4, my husband earns a pretty decent wage, especially for our age, we get top up of uc, it still doesn’t even compare to the amount he is taxed monthly and we don’t have a car on finance, we haven’t been able to redecorate our whole house for the sake of it, it seems the ones living solely on benefits and the people who are stupid rich are doing fine and the people who are in the middle of that, the ones also working while still needing a bit of support are getting bite in the a by the system

 

[byefeliciax]

I dont believe she needs therapy, I dont believe everything she has said about the abuse from her step father - because. If she was abused by a atep father she would be OTT cautious about BFs, and potential step father around her own children.

I do believe she was dragged up by a benefits scrounging mother. Minnie is repeating the cycle and no doubt got and getting all the information she needs to play the system from her Mother.

Apart from pissing around 'influencing' which takes not much skill, much effort..regular hours. This girl wont ever support herself with her own income

Going back to her Mother. She clearly did not raise her well because if she had of. Minnie would not have the teeth she does. She has severe overcrowding, a dentist would have extracted 4 teeth when she was an early teen. Had it myself! Then braces and one of my children have had the same. Her mouth must be quite sore and uncomfortable because it looks like she has trouble closing her mouth due to overcrowding, I am not body shaming. Pointing out that these types do not do the basics requirements for their children.

By therapy I mean she really needs to deep dive on why she behaves the way she does and figure that out to make positive changes, because it’s not normal for such a young girl to jump head first into parenting with the first boy who looks her way - and she’s done it with two boys in less than 4 years. The first one she was only with a couple of months when she gleefully fell pregnant as a teen, and then even when they were on and off she thought a second baby would fix it, and then they remained on and off, and 6 months after they finally split she was pregnant with another boy’s child after knowing him weeks. She definitely needs therapy.

I agree her mother neglected her as a child, she had too many kids (7 I think?) and one one pair of hands. She couldn’t possibly have met all their needs! And have you seen her own mum’s teeth? It’s clear none of them ever went to a dentist despite being on benefits and it being free for them. But her mum can’t drive so I imagine the logistics of booking 7 dentist appointments and taking multiple kids out of school and on buses was too much to manage. People judge large families for a reason: because 9 times out of 10 there are multiple children being failed, older ones being parentified, middle ones being missed out, nobody’s emotional or physical needs being fully met, etc.

Minnie is going the same way as her mum when she had the perfect opportunity not to. Her kids will end up just the same, without the full care and attention they need, and then jumping into bed with strangers to make babies to fill the gap their childhood neglect left.

I’d think much more of her if she had taken the opportunity to break the cycle but she didn’t.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

She is living a life of luxuries I could only dream of, I’m married, I’m a sahm of 3 soon to be 4, my husband earns a pretty decent wage, especially for our age, we get top up of uc, it still doesn’t even compare to the amount he is taxed monthly and we don’t have a car on finance, we haven’t been able to redecorate our whole house for the sake of it, it seems the ones living solely on benefits and the people who are stupid rich are doing fine and the people who are in the middle of that, the ones also working while still needing a bit of support are getting bite in the a by the system

I feel for you, i really do.x

 

[Iamintherealworld]

She is dining out on the pregnancy. Another post

This announcement has got this thread talking with more people too.

I give it 18 mths to 2 years before baby No4.

 

[Dwight]

She was definitely going to announce this pregnancy at Christmas. She must have gotten pregnant within about 2/3months of knowing him, so irresponsible honestly.