Minniharrisuk #1

[Iamintherealworld]

On the note of safeguarding her children, I’ve a mind to contact social services after seeing this! This is just plain irresponsible!

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There’s a very good reason you’re not meant to give sparklers to children under 5 and why you should be instructing them to hold them at arms’ length, wearing gloves, and with strict supervision.

Her boy isn’t even 2 yet and nobody was even holding it with him?! And the way that little girl was waving the damn thing so close to her face! It’s a wonder her hair didn’t catch light or she didn’t end up with serious burns and scarred for life while her mum just looked on, phone in hand, getting “content”. Those things burn at temperatures 10x that of boiling water, they’re not toys! AND SHE GAVE THEM TO BARE HANDED TODDLERS! Absolute imbecile!

Who are the divs beside the kids egging this stupidity /danger on? Woman with glasses is that Kyle's Mother? If so, she should know better. She grabs the boys wrist and tells him to shake the sparkler.

Minnie needs guidance on parent craft and safeguarding from professionals to show her how to parent & safeguard her children. What else goes on. If she's put this on IG thinking this is acceptable!!!!.

I saw the IG post about warning to mothers of babies and children letting men in around them. It isn't rocket science..peados and abusers go where they can get prey. Until they are caught no one knows what they're up to and DBS checks are the same! Valid and clean until caught.

 

[Lizzie Mintdrop]

I think most people are this daft with fireworks and that's why there are so many incidents. A while ago, someone I worked with, he held a very sensible job, ward officer in local council (a job for a responsible person, dealing with community groups, cash grants and liaison with the public) and he almost blinded himself whilst setting off fireworks, he went back to a lit firework, even though he'd held safety sessions with community groups on the dangers of fireworks. People are fools

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I think most people are this daft with fireworks and that's why there are so many incidents. A while ago, someone I worked with, he held a very sensible job, ward officer in local council (a job for a responsible person, dealing with community groups, cash grants and liaison with the public) and he almost blinded himself whilst setting off fireworks, he went back to a lit firework, even though he'd held safety sessions with community groups on the dangers of fireworks. People are fools

You could not make this up!

Then again you could because there could actually be a thread on here about public sector employees ! This just about sums them up!

If I had my way I'd ban fireworks for personal use. Just have them at professional displays. I loathe the bloody things and would never have them in my back garden. And the grief they cause for the poor animals.

 

[byefeliciax]

It looks like most of the “responsible” adults were probably drinking. It has really shocked me how Minnie could allow such risky behaviour around her precious babies, and instead of advocating for them and protecting them she’s just standing back and filming and laughing. It just goes to show how easily led she is into dangerous situations with reckless people without thought for her children’s safety.

From what we can see of Kyle he’s probably around her age (21/22) and comes from a family with a bit of money. It looks like they keep a nice home and enjoy trips and treats. Kyle himself seems able to splash cash around too. Within weeks of being together he was treating her to pricey dates, buying toys for her kids, and he spent somewhere in the region of £400 on jewellery for her birthday. It’s all massive red flags to me, like they saw her coming. Something about it all (and how he is with those children) gives me the heebie jeebies. The spending and the love bombing all smacks of grooming.

I dated as a young single mum in the past, and I can tell you there are very few families out there who support their newly adult son getting wrapped up in raising someone else’s children with a single mum on benefits in a council house. At that age they want their sons to travel, network, go out, have fun, build careers, save money for their future, buy property, live their lives, and not get anchored down to a freeloader with a ready-made family.

They could of course we really kind and genuine people who have taken a shine to Minnie and feel sorry for her circumstances, or they might have had no choice but to embrace her and her kids knowing she’s carrying their grandchild, but in her shoes (with her alleged experiences) I would have been a whole lot more cautious when and a whole lot less trusting. I wouldn’t give near-strangers such intimate access to my kids so fast.

 

[Very traditional]

By the looks of her family Christmas Day her own mother has 7 kids from a string of terrible relationships (that led to Minnie herself being a “homeless” teenage mother). It’s a shame Minnie herself didn’t learn from her own mother’s blunders and strive for better for herself. Although, it wouldn’t surprise me if she’s seen her mum get bigger and bigger council houses to accommodate her growing brood and just fancied a bit of that for herself.

I think it’s massive red flags how quickly her new boyfriend got his feet under that table with such young children, and how fast his extended family got so close to them too. Child abuse is almost always committed by someone you know/have allowed access to your children.

@lalalaletmeexplain posted a reel on Insta the other day that made me stomach turn but I think is a cautionary tale to all single mums. Yes, single motherhood is hard, yes we all deserve to be loved and to have a doting partner, but yes we and our kids are also extra vulnerable to predators.

I think Minnie is a naive and silly little girl who thinks she’s just playing dollies and houses, and lacks the life experience and emotional integrity to realise the dangers of her actions. I’ll also never understand why she went from blurring her kids faces (the right move) to showing them off again. Did her engagement drop? Was that more important to her than her children’s right to privacy and safety?

Im a single mother to a 3 year old, the result of a long term relationship which broke down when she was 1. I haven’t even considered another relationship and we’ve been split up for nearly two years. I just cant imagine bringing someone in to her life and I definitely can’t imagine trusting someone with her. It’s crazy to me much Minnie has changed in the short time I’ve been aware of her, it’s really sad. But I think she wants to be loved and to have a stable home and in her head she thinks this new man and his family are providing that - and on paper they are. But it’s too much, too soon, and if it doesn’t work out the kids will be the ones who suffer.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Im a single mother to a 3 year old, the result of a long term relationship which broke down when she was 1. I haven’t even considered another relationship and we’ve been split up for nearly two years. I just cant imagine bringing someone in to her life and I definitely can’t imagine trusting someone with her. It’s crazy to me much Minnie has changed in the short time I’ve been aware of her, it’s really sad. But I think she wants to be loved and to have a stable home and in her head she thinks this new man and his family are providing that - and on paper they are. But it’s too much, too soon, and if it doesn’t work out the kids will be the ones who suffer.

I agree with everything you say.

I hope life improved for you. The females do get left holding the baby at times. If Minnie's case the pregnancies were intential and as I've said before, children come first and should be protected.

The saying nothing for nothing in life is very true.

 

[byefeliciax]

Im a single mother to a 3 year old, the result of a long term relationship which broke down when she was 1. I haven’t even considered another relationship and we’ve been split up for nearly two years. I just cant imagine bringing someone in to her life and I definitely can’t imagine trusting someone with her. It’s crazy to me much Minnie has changed in the short time I’ve been aware of her, it’s really sad. But I think she wants to be loved and to have a stable home and in her head she thinks this new man and his family are providing that - and on paper they are. But it’s too much, too soon, and if it doesn’t work out the kids will be the ones who suffer.

I separated from my husband when my youngest was a toddler, and didn’t introduce my kids to anyone I dated until they were teenagers. It did mean a lot of my “relationships” were short lived because my time with them was so limited, but my time with my kids (and their security) was my ultimate priority. Predator risks aside, I didn’t want to put my kids through getting attached to someone for a couple of months only for them to disappear. I needed to know it would be secure and long-term before my kids were involved or anyone came into our home.

It was only a year ago that Minnie was still on-off with her kids’ biological father. She didn’t give herself, or her children, chance to heal before leaping straight at the first thing that came along.

I sincerely hope it all works out just the way she wants it to, but it’s rare this kind of situation doesn’t end in tears or trauma. I think it’s irresponsible for an “influencer” with such a large following to normalise jumping in hard and fast to new relationships with toddlers in tow, and to paint it as picture perfect.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I separated from my husband when my youngest was a toddler, and didn’t introduce my kids to anyone I dated until they were teenagers. It did mean a lot of my “relationships” were short lived because my time with them was so limited, but my time with my kids (and their security) was my ultimate priority. Predator risks aside, I didn’t want to put my kids through getting attached to someone for a couple of months only for them to disappear. I needed to know it would be secure and long-term before my kids were involved or anyone came into our home.

It was only a year ago that Minnie was still on-off with her kids’ biological father. She didn’t give herself, or her children, chance to heal before leaping straight at the first thing that came along.

I sincerely hope it all works out just the way she wants it to, but it’s rare this kind of situation doesn’t end in tears or trauma. I think it’s irresponsible for an “influencer” with such a large following to normalise jumping in hard and fast to new relationships with toddlers in tow, and to paint it as picture perfect.

Well done you. Your thoughtfulness and care for your children was the right thing.

 

[byefeliciax]

Had to go home from the holiday because she’s not feeling great, but not said what her symptoms are. Another pregnancy breadcrumb?

 

[dumdums83]

Does she ever stay for a whole holiday? Seems she always leaves early, what the point of going away?

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Had to go home from the holiday because she’s not feeling great, but not said what her symptoms are. Another pregnancy breadcrumb?

They've all had sickness bug. Kids got it then she did. She was unwell on top of Xmas day. She justified going to her Mother's saying they've all had it/got it so she's not spreading it.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Does she ever stay for a whole holiday? Seems she always leaves early, what the point of going away?

Do you hav kids?! It's the norm! It's them building immunity. We've been through it all when v young..and too when they were a bit older. In Dubai had to visit a hospital for terrible ear infection. I found the constant illness in the formative years extremely challenging.

 

[byefeliciax]

Her New Year’s post says she lost a baby this year Whilst I’m sad for her and know what a painful thing that is for any woman to go through, it sickens me that she was even attempting having a baby with a guy she’s had in her (and her kids’) life a matter of months. It’s like she didn’t learn from watching her mum, nor the first time she ended up on her own with two toddlers being bailed out by the public purse. That council house and welfare net was a second chance at getting on the right track, not at repeating the same mistakes. She needs therapy and guidance, not more effing kids before she’s even got a fully matured frontal lobe.

It just goes to show how predictable Minnie’s type is, we’ve been saying for months she’ll announce a pregnancy before 2025 is out. She’ll be just like her own mother: not taking the second chance extended to them by public expenditure, but instead making social housing and benefits a lifestyle, carelessly popping out the next generation of maladjusted grifters to repeat the cycle. They’re the reason the stereotype exists.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Her New Year’s post says she lost a baby this year Whilst I’m sad for her and know what a painful thing that is for any woman to go through, it sickens me that she was even attempting having a baby with a guy she’s had in her (and her kids’) life a matter of months. It’s like she didn’t learn from watching her mum, nor the first time she ended up on her own with two toddlers being bailed out by the public purse. That council house and welfare net was a second chance at getting on the right track, not at repeating the same mistakes. She needs therapy and guidance, not more effing kids before she’s even got a fully matured frontal lobe.

It just goes to show how predictable Minnie’s type is, we’ve been saying for months she’ll announce a pregnancy before 2025 is out. She’ll be just like her own mother: not taking the second chance extended to them by public expenditure, but instead making social housing and benefits a lifestyle, carelessly popping out the next generation of maladjusted grifters to repeat the cycle. They’re the reason the stereotype exists.

HNY all!
Yep, saw the post. Utter stupidity as it is, no wonder so many kids end up the way they do and the MH issues, growing up with a multitude of fathers, bfs around is not good for them. Unfortunately, they won't be cycle breakers because they see how easy they can have it living buckshee from the Government..even more enticing with this this Government. However, annoying it is what Labour has done, it won't be the same forever..I just could not live at someone else's mercy, changes and cutbacks will happen again.

 

[byefeliciax]

Why is she thinking more babies and bigger council houses instead of just getting a job and working together with her boyfriend to save to buy something together? I mean, he was able to spend £400 on a ring for a girl’s birthday when he’d known less than 6 months, so surely he’s got money to save? She seemed prepared to settle down and have a baby with him, why should the taxpayer continue facilitating that decision for them both? Why does she even need a bigger house anyway? Her kids are tiny, they’re fine to share for a good while yet.

I admired Minnie at the beginning, she seemed to be a sweet, misguided soul who was making the best out of a bad situation. But the more she posts, the less likeable she becomes. She comes across as an entitled cat who had those children to game the system. Most would think moving to a bigger house is a huge goal. Not Minnie! She’s always had houses just handed on a plate hasn’t she, easy peasy.

 

[rosieflowers]

From her 2025 post, it looks like she met him in May and had him around her kids and a swimming pool by June... also to be just 22, in a council house with no job, 2 kids and pregnant by another man... that is a sorry state of affairs

 

[Iamintherealworld]

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Why is she thinking more babies and bigger council houses instead of just getting a job and working together with her boyfriend to save to buy something together? I mean, he was able to spend £400 on a ring for a girl’s birthday when he’d known less than 6 months, so surely he’s got money to save? She seemed prepared to settle down and have a baby with him, why should the taxpayer continue facilitating that decision for them both? Why does she even need a bigger house anyway? Her kids are tiny, they’re fine to share for a good while yet.

I admired Minnie at the beginning, she seemed to be a sweet, misguided soul who was making the best out of a bad situation. But the more she posts, the less likeable she becomes. She comes across as an entitled cat who had those children to game the system. Most would think moving to a bigger house is a huge goal. Not Minnie! She’s always had houses just handed on a plate hasn’t she, easy peasy.

Agree!!! Why are people commenting clapping on this on. She is nothing to be admired, only a teen girl, played the system. She has not matured and grown up herself. The kids are clothed well, in a clean house, yes - no doubt from debt. They are not safe from a few things we have be shown. Minnie does not attempt to hide where she or her mother live, their faces shown (lots of men following her) introduces bfs far too soon, let's tiny tots wave sparklers around like crazy gloveless.

 

[byefeliciax]

I can’t get over the rationale that she should do a house exchange so “neither of us has to go back on the waiting list”. She does realise that nobody has to reapply for a council house, right? Like, there are other options. She’s young, fit, healthy, allegedly in a relationship with prospects, so surely getting a job, opening a LISA, and setting long-term savings goals for home ownership is an option too? Even if it’s shared ownership to begin with? But I guess rinsing the public purse is all she’s ever known, looking at her Jeremy Kyle Show family.

She also said in her post she’s struggled for money this year. Until her eldest is 10 she wouldn’t even be eligible for housing benefit to cover a third bedroom anyway, so not exactly a smart move for someone who can’t self-support.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I can’t get over the rationale that she should do a house exchange so “neither of us has to go back on the waiting list”. She does realise that nobody has to reapply for a council house, right? Like, there are other options. She’s young, fit, healthy, allegedly in a relationship with prospects, so surely getting a job, opening a LISA, and setting long-term savings goals for home ownership is an option too? Even if it’s shared ownership to begin with? But I guess rinsing the public purse is all she’s ever known, looking at her Jeremy Kyle Show family.

She also said in her post she’s struggled for money this year. Until her eldest is 10 she wouldn’t even be eligible for housing benefit to cover a third bedroom anyway, so not exactly a smart move for someone who can’t self-support.

I would not be surprised if she's lost a baby but is pregnant again.

She is going to be a repeat of her Mother. No doubt aiming for a big detached council home.

 

[byefeliciax]

Agree!!! Why are people commenting clapping on this on. She is nothing to be admired, only a teen girl, played the system. She has not matured and grown up herself. The kids are clothed well, in a clean house, yes - no doubt from debt. They are not safe from a few things we have be shown. Minnie does not attempt to hide where she or her mother live, their faces shown (lots of men following her) introduces bfs far too soon, let's tiny tots wave sparklers around like crazy gloveless.

Agree! People praise her as a good mum for doing the absolute bare minimum. Nurseries and pre-schools take on 16 year old kid apprentices because it’s not exactly hard to be able to meet the basic needs of babies and toddlers. All she’s doing is playing dollies right now, the real parenting comes in when your kids learn to answer back and develop their own identities aside from what you choose for them to be. It’s easy peasy while you’re the one choosing their outfits, meals, games, friends, routine, environment, etc.

In every way it actually counts in the long-run she is not a good parent. She is not an independent provider, she is at the mercy of the state. She is not healed from her own childhood, she continues to put her children at risk while she seeks validation from strangers on the internet. She hasn’t learned from her own alleged abuse, she puts her kids I harm’s way allowing brand new boyfriends (and their families) intimate access to her children. She is not a good role model for work ethic and success, she is a grifter who thinks popping out kids at everyone else’s expense is a career.

I feel quite sorry for her that she clearly has no good role models, but she’s the parent now, it’s time to get some contraception, some therapy, a real job, and stop posting those poor kids’ lives on the internet. They won’t thank her later for having all of their private information shared and for the exposure to strangers dissecting their childhoods.