Minniharrisuk #1

[Dwight]

This thread isn't about you, HTH.

Yeah I think it's a bit ...reductive to start assuming people's comments are sweeping statements about individual circumstances none of us are privy to tbf. We know the state of Minnie's finances because she chooses to put her information and lifestyle on display for all to see... given what we know about her specifically I, personally, think it's fair to say she absolutely shouldn't commit to financing a car and it would be silly to even consider it. That doesn't mean that I think this applies to everybody in social housing, receiving any form of universal credit or all single parents. It's pretty clear her finances aren't stable, she isn't good with money and she's obviously fickle and irresponsible. It's just a recipe for neverending debt and eventual CCJs, imo.

 

[byefeliciax]

Her engagement may have increased but it hasn’t gained her many followers.

Oh wow, interesting to see -122 the day of her pregnancy announcement. It’s like her OG following who were impressed by a young mum who was finding her feet after a difficult start to adult life and motherhood, are not so impressed by a total grifter repeating history, getting knocked up gleefully by a stranger, on the beg for a bigger council house already, and expecting the benefits system to stump up extra cash to fund her lifestyle.

 

[byefeliciax]

This is a bit harsh. Just because the kids are eligible for nursery doesn't mean that they have to go. Lots of people keep their children at home and there is nothing wrong with children and their caregiver staying together.
Now she's had a third she probably does need some extra help and there is nothing wrong with that either.
But buying the school shoes now is silly.

That’s why I’ve said “each to their own”, there are lots of reasons people keep their kids home longer. I just find it odd that as someone who was always so quick to boast her child free days, left them gladly with her mum (who not so long ago she was portraying on social media as an irresponsible parent who abandoned her for a bloke), was happy to leave them with her new boyfriend’s family quickly, etc. that she didn’t take advantage of the free preschool places at the earliest opportunity. Children don’t have to go to nursery but I’m saying Minnie strikes me as the sort of person who can do all of the fluffy and performative parenting, the nice clothes and activities and days out, but the actual life admin and nitty gritty of raising kids escapes her. It wouldn’t shock me if she just didn’t get around to applying or finding out how to.

She hasn’t, however, hung about in putting her name down for a bigger council house. Funny that.

 

[byefeliciax]

That's not what on tick means in England

I’m in England and I’ve definitely heard people asking if dealers will tick them until payday, but I think dealers only tend to offer credit arrangements to their most loyal customers I think it’s just slang that originates from getting store bought goods ‘on ticket’.

I would consider DFS credit, credit cards, Klarna, car finance, etc all to be ways of buying on tick.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Wasn't she abused by a step father? You'd think she'd be more protective/savvy. Minnie does not impress me at all, and I do not admire her. Getting pregnant v young to live on benefits and get a brand spanking new council house..shows me she plays the system for an easy ride.if she'd educated herself and got a good well paid job and become a cycle breaker I'd have a lot of respect. I've often thought she could be sent money from dirty old pervs following her when she's going on about breast feeding/breast feeding and doing her decorating in tight revealling tops.

It infuriated me when she ripped up the months old carpet. Easy come fucking go. Us out working, paying for our goods woukd hav

 

[byefeliciax]

Out for a slap up meal and he’s got a pint of Guinness on the go.

I know not everyone will agree with me, but I just don’t think alcohol with a meal is necessary, not when you’re out for that meal with your pregnant girlfriend and likely small children. It’s quite telling of someone who likes a tipple.

 

[byefeliciax]

SS wouldn’t give a turd. Her kids are fed and clothed and their house looks nice, SS resources are spread too thinly to care about Minnie’s kids when there are kids of junkies falling through the net. That doesn’t mean Minnie is a mature or safe parent though. She gives strangers intimate access to her kids, on and offline.

It’s about time the government, as part of the online safety movement and banning social media for under 16s, move into regulating what is shared online by parents. We know the risks, you only have to Google ‘sharenting’ or ‘oversharenting’ to see article after article about the risks. It’s high time sharing your child’s life, personal information, and intimate family photos is seen as the child abuse that it is. Once upon a time, it was a social norm to put whiskey in a baby’s bottle to help them sleep and everyone said that was ok, but we’ve learned and we’ve grown. It goes to show that just because it’s normalised doesn’t mean it’s harmless. People need to wise up about sharenting.

There’s a lot of hatred towards Tattle, but it’s the only place on the internet where there is sensible discourse and critique of parents who exploit their children for monetary gain in the completely unregulated world of “influencing”.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

So she said she was posting with a bit of a delay because she was wanting to surprise her mum, which makes sense, she obviously wanted to show her mum the car before social media.

However, if she’s had the car a week already then why was she asking for advice on whether to get finance or not 4 days ago, when she had clearly already gone ahead with it and also shown her mum?

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She’s taken the right piss out of her audience and doting fans who took time out of their days for free to give well articulated and generous advice to her when… she didn’t actually even want/need it. She just exploited their generosity and cashed in on their engagement.

Influencers are such parasites.

Is she an influencer?
I'd say not

Shes an unemployed young woman in receipt of Government benefits to look after her and her kids and uses socials for a few freebies.

 

[Dwight]

I didn’t even notice that story today! Do we think she reads here?

Where is anyone making fun of her weight, face or acne? Speculating on a hidden bump (when she herself keeps talking about needing a bigger house and bigger pram etc) and playing Spot The Difference with her selfies to catch out her lies is absolutely not making fun. And if people know what’s going on in her private life and recognise her partner out and about, that’s only because she’s overshared publicly and reinforced parasocial relationships with complete strangers by broadcasting to them like they’re old pals. Nobody should be “antagonising” him about a loss, but the way she’s misrepresented the things people have said about her, it makes me think that’s not even the full truth, it’s a sympathy lure. She’s creating her own narrative for effect.

It’s like she’s got victim complex. Twisting people’s words just to take offence so she can wallow in self-indulgent pity and harness sympathy from others is seriously concerning attention seeking behaviour. I think she needs to come off the internet and get some proper help.

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Tbh this was my thoughts too... it reads that she's being purposely vague about whatever bad thing happened because it's a half truth. The comments aboout weight, skin etc, I suppose are people talking here about noticing the differences in her appearance and that has only happened because she's tried to pass off a selfie from months ago as recent... pure observations about that were all i remember seeing here, no fun being made of it. Plus, she's kinda contradicting herself by implying her and her partner are being harassed in public to saying then its a "small handful" of people. Maybe I've become biased but nothing seems authentic from her to me. Even her "origin" story provokes zero sympathy from me tbh. Maybe that's harsh to some but her story is far from unique... and hoenstly is relatively tame compared to a lot of care leavers tbh. Aside from all of that she's still very young and in a much better place now to start pursuing the life she wants for herself and her kids, yet all she's positioning herself to do is post poorly thoughtout videos online for money. Minnie, with all due respect - get yourself back to education, give yourself and those kids a better chance of breaking the clear cycle of trauma and poverty you have experienced.

 

[byefeliciax]

I think she has mentioned before that “we” had a miscarriage and that someone was taunting him about it so it probably was his. But whether she was 9 or 19 weeks pregnant in August, to have been pregnant twice by then by a guy she met in February, is just disgusting. Especially when it’s clear as day she planned and wanted it.

I can’t pretend like accidents don’t happen early on in relationships, but when it isn’t an accident it’s actually really worrying about that mother’s mindset. Nobody in their right mind plans a family with someone they’ve known five minutes. Then when you add into the equation she made that choice when they had no experience of living together, she doesn’t have a financial plan to provide for the child, and she expects a bigger council house on top…

 

[byefeliciax]

Minnie (who drove her new car with a new licence whilst wearing flip flops, leaves pens and paint out around toddlers to plaster on her new sofa without covers on, had a new boyfriend practically move in with her vulnerable self and kids within days of knowing him) probably can’t be trusted in the common sense department.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Nice of Rachel reeves to lift the two child benefit cap so Minnie can carry on popping them out and buying crap without having to worry about getting a job

Boils my piss.

So many in receipt of benefits and child benefit haven't paid a bloody penny into the system or society.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

She won’t, she’s got a new cash cow on the way, she doesn’t care about the protection of those children

It may not last. It is so common for controlling men to go for her type, not much, young dependent kids. Easy to control. the days out, meals, breaks - all him coughing up can end up nasty.

It never works a man coming in taking on a family financially. Every time i have seen it, disasters.

 

[dumdums83]

God they make me sick, I’m
So glad I go out to work for them to live in luxury and make them able to afford everything I can’t!
No im not jealous I’m furious!

Yeah I work my fucking ass off, will be lucky if I’m able to spend 1 night in a travel lodge this year!

 

[byefeliciax]

The staged sad pout and lip syncing to an emotive song makes me cringe so hard. I’m so embarrassed for those people who film themselves crying for content, yet always manage to get the angle and filter and lighting just right and look immaculate while they do. It’s just the way they’ve had to actively set their phone up, hit record, then walk away to cry. It’s seriously unhinged. In my difficult moments I just want to chuck a duvet over my bright pink, puffy crying face and be left alone, my mind isn’t on how to monetise my tears with my performative bullsh!t.

She’s chucking out the toddler bed that she keeps banging her head on. Wasn’t she gifted it? Ungrateful brat.

 

[MissPrint]

Let’s all pretend to be shocked.

 

[byefeliciax]

It looks like most of the “responsible” adults were probably drinking. It has really shocked me how Minnie could allow such risky behaviour around her precious babies, and instead of advocating for them and protecting them she’s just standing back and filming and laughing. It just goes to show how easily led she is into dangerous situations with reckless people without thought for her children’s safety.

From what we can see of Kyle he’s probably around her age (21/22) and comes from a family with a bit of money. It looks like they keep a nice home and enjoy trips and treats. Kyle himself seems able to splash cash around too. Within weeks of being together he was treating her to pricey dates, buying toys for her kids, and he spent somewhere in the region of £400 on jewellery for her birthday. It’s all massive red flags to me, like they saw her coming. Something about it all (and how he is with those children) gives me the heebie jeebies. The spending and the love bombing all smacks of grooming.

I dated as a young single mum in the past, and I can tell you there are very few families out there who support their newly adult son getting wrapped up in raising someone else’s children with a single mum on benefits in a council house. At that age they want their sons to travel, network, go out, have fun, build careers, save money for their future, buy property, live their lives, and not get anchored down to a freeloader with a ready-made family.

They could of course we really kind and genuine people who have taken a shine to Minnie and feel sorry for her circumstances, or they might have had no choice but to embrace her and her kids knowing she’s carrying their grandchild, but in her shoes (with her alleged experiences) I would have been a whole lot more cautious when and a whole lot less trusting. I wouldn’t give near-strangers such intimate access to my kids so fast.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Just seen the latest post update which is no update.

Someone has commented calling her by her real name and said they know her and said don't be like her mother - benefits career.

There are stupid bitches sticking up for Minnie. One has even said Minnie has worked her arse off. Worked her off off shagging to conceive.

Minnie is planning to come off benefits. Her influencer income and Kyle's income will mean they will no longer qualify for benefits! Bulllllshit. .......for starters, this relationship is far too new to have given themselves time to know each other. Unlike meeting without any baggage = 2 v young kids, are in the relationship, young kids are stressful and cause tension within marriages and relationships that have been steady for a few years. And throw in being a step parent - not your children, add in the real baby Daddy. New quick relationship with a brand new baby, more stress. Kyle is a tradesmen, should earn quite well. Minnie the spender will like his salary, wonder if he knows the extent of her debts & piss poor financial decisions.?
Another big tension in relationships is MONEY.

 

[mindlesswaffle]

The three hearts are brown, orange and white though, odd choices to represent children. I think she’s just getting a tortoiseshell kitten I think she’s immature enough to try and wind up the gossip thinking she’s all big and clever.

A baby is on the cards imminently though, without a doubt. She wants a bigger council house and more benefits!

Ding ding ding

 

[DeloresBawbag]

I think one of the most telling things in her recent content was when she she was posting about what she wanted for the year ahead.

In that context of how she wanted the year to go, she said ‘I’m not putting any pressure on myself.’

I like Minnie, but she’s fallen victim to social media and the close influences in her personal life. It seems nobody has modelled for her the effort it takes to be a good parent with firm boundaries; rather than a fun parent with pastel walls and regular treats. Or to work hard and consistently towards bigger goals that will benefit your family for years to come, and really raise them out of the situation she said she wanted to avoid for them.

Her kids are so young. She’s made a lovely home and learned to drive, which was an amazing start - but this new relationship seems to have diverted her into having no focus or ambition, being happy to shop, laze about, live in a midden, and keep having babies she doesn’t have space for, a relationship that’s dripping in red flags.

Why not put pressure on yourself Minnie? You’re young and healthy, and on the bottom rung of society’s ladder - why not follow through on what you said you wanted? Work hard, in a job or by reliably developing useful content, keep your kids lives and faces private, put them in nursery so you can focus, use contraception so you don’t end up like your mum, maybe take a parenting course or read some books; and see where ‘pressure on yourself’ takes you over the next year. It’s bound to be better than waiting for freebies and posting reels of your creepy bloke talking about what he’s shoved up his ass.