Minniharrisuk #1

[Outtheforest]

Oh for fuck sake she is pregnant! She is so immature. Why does she need another kid, two is plenty

 

[byefeliciax]

NEAT ZOFLORA ONTO THE FLOOR AND THEN GONE OVER WITH STEAM?!?!? WITH THE DOORS AND WINDOWS SHUT TOO!!!

She really is completely fucking thick isn’t she? That poor kitten, let alone baby. Silly little girl playing houses and dollies without a clue!

It irritates me so much that someone in her comments has called her out on spraying chemicals around a new baby and everyone has jumped on them for being mean. No, they’re being responsible to let her know. Safeguarding is everyone’s responsibility, and nobody should be inhaling harsh chemicals in steam in an unventilated room, let alone a fucking newborn with immature lungs! Human and feline!

(Interesting that she replies that she was home alone, I thought Kyle was on paternity leave and being oh so supportive?)

 

[byefeliciax]

Sorry to turn this a bit Mumsnet, but I’m really concerned about her hospital bag packing. She says in her comments she doesn’t bother to pre-wash baby clothes if they’re brand new. Sorry, what?!?!?!

Chemical residues, manufacturing dyes, dust, germs from people who walked past them in the shop coughing, or the hands of the people who packed them and scanned them through the till, etc etc etc.

“Brand new” does not = clean.

On top of that, you should absolutely endeavour to have all your baby’s clothes smelling the same, because their experience of the world so sensory, familiar smells create a sense of home and safeness for a tiny newborn.

I bet she got half that stuff from Shein, which has already been subject to scandal for their children’s clothes containing dangerously high levels of harmful chemicals. Not to mention the materials they’re made from! Babies need to be dressed in natural fibres like cotton or bamboo or linen because those fabrics breathe so a baby can better regulate their body temperature, they’re softer on their delicate skin too. Those plastic type fibres (that that embroidered jumper is undoubtedly made of) just aren’t suitable for babies to wear. Alright for a photo perhaps, although I think it’s very cruel to wrestle a baby into something hot and uncomfortable just for a picture for some strangers on the internet.

That whole bag just screams “I’m getting a new dolly to play with”.

 

[byefeliciax]

Not to mention her little children were introduced to his parents and family early on too. We know of at least one time they have spent away with his family at Christmas time in a caravan. Doesn't know these people from Adam! The family would not be responsible enough to be around my children, letting them use sparklers with bare
ungloved hands and stood there beside the kids watching them flicking sparklers up close to their faces.

I wonder in these situations..would Minnie be letting these people that come into her kids life so very soon, would they be changing nappies, take Emmy to the loo - wipe after loo, bath them. It is madness and a huge recipe for disaster

Ah. Had a thought..remember they left the caravan Christmas time early because she was ill.

She may have gone into labour early, baby could have spent a little time in SCBU. Remember early in the year she was tail between legs, it was a stressful time behind the scenes.

It’s funny you should raise this. I was being nosey before, not going to put screenshots or name names here, but she has previously tagged Kyle’s family in posts and I went snooping.

His mum’s Facebook is wide open. In (I think) around May time last year, when she’d known the family 3 months, they went out on a boat trip with the kids and then had a family barbecue. Minnie posted about that. Kyle’s mum also posted it, but in his mum’s photos little E was sitting on Kyle’s dad’s lap steering the boat with him. And then the kids were in swimsuits in a paddling pool in their garden, and Kyle’s mum also posted a photo of just E on her public profile, completely topless with her little chest and nipples out. You just don’t know who is doing what with that photo do you!

I’m sorry, they might be the nicest family in the world, but she had no way of knowing that that early on. Look how many public figures (even some who have been considered national treasures) have turned out to be n0nces and grapists! You just can’t know!

I think not only is it wildly inappropriate to have a family you barely know that intimately close to your young children (and encouraging your tiny daughter that it’s ok to sit on a strange man’s lap), but to allow them to share public photos of your half nude child? And then to allow them be so careless with sparklers with her toddlers? It screams safeguarding at me, and that Minnie isn’t mature enough to set or enforce boundaries to protect her kids.

Being a good parent is more than keeping their clothes clean, serving up 3 meals a day, and decorating their bedrooms. It’s being smart enough to keep them safe from harm, and that she is clearly not.

 

[byefeliciax]

Claiming her birth was ‘healing’ is a bit odd/concerning. I wonder if that’s in reference to having a present partner instead of doing it on her own this time? Either way, I’m always alarmed by the language she uses in relation to her kids fixing her or healing her. Children aren’t supposed to bear responsibility to repair their parents, she’s got it all backwards. She’s still so very young in her mind, too young, and with so much still yet to learn and overcome. I worry for those poor kids down the line.

 

[da_foooke?!]

A video from another “influencer” just came up on my fyp from December, Minnie commented on it….. MONTHS?! Have you even been together for that many months?!

 

[Leita]

I did start watching and liked her, her approach was refreshing attempting things and showing how she’d done it. Decorating in a budget etc.

Sadly, Minnie is turning into the same standard influencer. Ads, gifts, and they aren’t always marked appropriately.

it’s an unfollow for me.

 

[Emsie]

It is. They were offered an education setting and she hasnt taken it. Minnie isn't educated herself and lacking sense. The children would benefit the pre school places. Starting Reception at 4 full time is going to be a real shock for the eldest and may take her ages to settle.

This isn't true though is it. Children should be at home with their caregiver for as long as possible, like most other children in other countries do. Just in the UK we ship them off early and think anyone that doesn't is bizarre.
There is a lot to slaf Minnie off for, but keeping her children at home isn't one of them. Imo.

 

[Dwight]

Not a chance she doesn't have a pair of shoes that aren't wellies or sandals. What a ridiculous thing to say

 

[JustHereForTheAgriculture]

When I read it spelled like that, I just see Mango.

 

[Moonbaby09]

Sorry but her teeth are rank. Hopefully someone gifts her an electric toothbrush soon bless her must be so hard being a grifter

 

[byefeliciax]

Absolutely this. The last few years, during the cost of living crisis.it is the lower paid working familiessuffering and have been the ones using food/clothing banks, not heating their homes. Kids going without. All WRONG.

It’s a sorry state of affairs when those who have never worked nor contributed are living better quality lives than those who have paid in from the moment they left school.

Like I say, I’m left leaning, and I think all children should be provided for, none should have to suffer because of their parents’ choices, but Minnie makes me feel the opposite. Maybe if her and her kids weren’t so comfortably cared for by the state she might have no choice but to figure out contraception and get out into the workforce. But now she’s bought herself some more time where she won’t be able to afford childcare for so many kids at once and has no choice but to be catered for by taxpayers.

Whoever it was in her comments that said she should set up an Amazon wish list needs to give their head a wobble. She takes enough as it is!

 

[byefeliciax]

The sob story is getting tiresome.

Is it “budget friendly” though? Because when I was a homeless then council-housed teenage parent on benefits like she is, I certainly wasn’t in a position to have a £500 Ruggable rug, a £210 DUSK coffee table, plus brand new sofa, a £300 mirror, a £700 camera, panelling kits, different paint colours in every room, brand new furniture in every room, a car on finance, after £40 an hour driving lessons and multiple tests, flooring put down then ripped up months later on a whim, new beds just before Christmas just because, etc.

There’s nothing about Minnie’s spending that has ever screamed “budget friendly” or realistic on the benefits in a council house. I bet she’s got debt coming out of her ears trying to keep up influencer appearances, when she would have been so much more relatable settling for an old banger and upcycling furniture from skips like I had to.

It also winds me up when she says in her posts that she’s “rebuilding her life”. Sorry to be pedantic but she’s like 12: there’s nothing to “rebuild”, shes building a life.

 

[byefeliciax]

Shame for the children of these situations.

The guy just looks like a total creep. His family look well off and he’s been love bombing showering Minnie and the children with generous gifts since really early on, it just makes me wonder what he could possibly want with getting tied to a single mum with responsibilities at his age when he’s carefree and loaded with cash?

He was spending time with the little ones straight away, there was a gross video of him doing panelling topless, and a picture of him holding the little girl where her knickers are on display. He’s got too comfortable too quickly in my view. There’s no way in hell I would allow that as a mother, I’d be a lot more suspicious than naive Minnie.

 

[dumdums83]

Don’t worry Minnie you can thank me later for being at work all day, paying my taxes whilst my child has to go to a childminder! Boils my piss having to support these dickheads!

 

[dumdums83]

Hopefully she has realised she’s a shit fucking poncing cunt that has no business influencing anyone when she uses her kids on the internet! Get your tubes tied Minnie or close your Minnie cause we the tax payers that fund your lifestyle don’t need to fund anymore of your crutch goblins

 

[byefeliciax]

Yeah and that’s what I said and got blocked for it. She’s not a nice person, plays the system and should have a platform on social media. Nasty girl and an absolute tramp

I imagine she’s having to filter out a lot of negative comments and that’s going to continue for a long time yet. She’s such a grifter.

She had the prime opportunity to focus on her kids, a career, her home, her relationship, and plan on expanding her family when she had the space and resources a couple of years down the line. But no, she’s entitled, and she thinks the rest of the country should support her little game of mummies and daddies and dollies and houses. The inability to plan and think it through is testament to her immaturity. The fact she’s rushed into family trapping the first boy who would date her again just shows how badly she needs therapy, not more kids.

 

[byefeliciax]

Agree with all of the above about how short-sighted she’s being.

I was a very young mum too and my kids were well loved and provided for. I would get compliments from strangers on public transport about what a lovely mum I was, reading and playing I Spy on our little outings on buses and trains. They were well routined, well dressed, well fed, and it was a doddle really. I would have loved a third, but didn’t have another bedroom and couldn’t afford a bigger car and could only hold two little hands to cross the road, so it got put on standby. I’d had them so young I had plenty of years left ahead of me to build a base to welcome a third baby later down the line.

Well Christ, am I glad I didn’t have that third and chose not to later on, because as my kids grew so did their problems and so did their needs and suddenly what felt like a doddle with little ones became me drowning in responsibility I could never have imagined back when we were just baking and reading and looking for bugs in the garden.

Three close together as babies and toddlers is very, very different to three close together as teenagers and young adults. How does she suppose she’ll be affording to get three kids on the road one after the other? How will she manage space for homework when all her kids have GCSE and college work? What happens if 1 or 3 of them want to go to university, how will she provide? How does she suppose she’ll manage all of the extracurriculars and essential residential trips as part of their learning through the years? How will she afford to give them all pocket money so they can learn to manage money? What happens when they need adult sized clothes that aren’t cheap anymore? How will she support their emotional needs, when she has 3 teenagers close in age going through traumas and peer pressure and friendship and relationship difficulties? All of those kids are going to grow into the same kind of maladjusted adult she is. Work shy, broken, desperate and needy, insecure, and grifting.

This won’t even be the last baby, mark my words. This boyfriend who hasn’t even moved in yet will flee as soon as the reality kicks in, and she’ll be on to honey trapping the next one.

(Bollocks did she not know she would have a third baby so soon when she bought that car! She claims to have already miscarried Kyle’s baby and continued to have unprotected sex, what did she think would happen?!)

 

[byefeliciax]

All of her air-headed followers bleating about how “inspirational” she is to have pulled herself out of the gutter after being in a hostel like she’s done something truly incredibly astounding and not like she’s simply just got herself knocked up and been given a free house on the council and benefits to boot. I’ve done more inspirational turds.

ETA: Yeah I know it takes two to tango. That lad looks like a right drip though, bet he couldn’t even put a condom on a carrot.

All her income is from benefits, gifts from losers on the internet, and the odd few quid from TikTok ads that she adds monthly to her benefits calculation. She’s living the life of Riley. What isn’t free is “earned” (I use the term loosely) through every 20 year old narcissist's hobby of dancing around on a camera for cotton-brained strangers who lick their arse.

She’s selling her kids’ private lives for a fraction of a penny per view, and leaving them wide open to later-life identity theft, AI manipulation of their pictures for paedos, and public ridicule. That’s not inspirational, that’s abusive. The culture of ‘oversharenting’ makes me sick. “Good mums” don’t need to seek validation from TikTok about what a good mum they are, they just crack on and raise their kids.

 

[Fauxphiehinchcliffe]

Gender reveal at 5pm tomorrow will be a picture of the actual baby already born.