Minniharrisuk #1

[aec87]

She will need to be registered as self-employed and declaring her earnings to Universal Credit on a monthly basis, and they will adjust her payments from them accordingly making deductions if necessary (if she has earned above the threshold). They may ask also to see bank statements etc.

She really doesn’t seem the type to actually do this,she will leave it then just play dumb if they ever catch up with her for it.

 

[MissWinnie]

Gone v quiet on Minnie's page.

I noticed that, don’t think she’s even posted any stories?

The most recent couple of posts on insta barely had any interaction comments wise, I’m not surprised. There hasn’t even been anyone questioning if she’s ok. Reality of 3 under 4 has probably hit her now but I hope there has been no illness or anything but it’s not a bad thing at all. Those kids deserve their privacy and she’s been flakey with any decent content for a while now.

Bet she’ll pop back up soon. She’s probably landed herself a 3 bedroom house or found a way around her car problem whilst she’s been off the radar knowing that one

 

[Iamintherealworld]

It’s the boohoo my babydaddy ignored me while I was giving birth that got me. She keeps alluding to abuse from him but never quite saying it, it just feels attention seeky/click baity.

If he was a 30 year old adult I’d say that’s despicable, he should be accountable for caring for the mother of his child, but this lad was also a kid. 18 year olds aren’t supposed to know how to be loving and supportive partners in serious life-altering situations, they’re meant to be figuring out who they are and where they belong in the world. He was in the room, that said he half knew it was right to be there, but he looks so gormless in all her old videos I think he was probably like a rabbit caught in headlights. At that age, with no life experience, who can really blame him?

I think it’s in very poor taste to publicly go and badmouth the father of her children at any age though, to divulge that delicate and sensitive insight into their relationship for the world to pick apart and pass judgement. Not only does she risk destabilising any potential future for effective co-parenting, but that’s out there on the internet now for her kids to be wounded by.

I think I’ve said this before, but it seems the decision to have children was calculated on Minnie’s part and she just chose an easily led sap of a boyfriend to go along with it. She posted at 18 about “finally being a mum”. Finally. At 18. Starting a family was clearly something she thought about more than the average teenage girl for it to have felt so long-awaited. She definitely saw it as the easy route to independent living, housing and money, she was lonely, and she didn’t have the insight or maturity to realise she had childhood hurt to process before trying to bring life into the world with the first boy to want to dip his wick in her. She clearly wanted to make a family for herself who would have no choice but to love her back, but choosing the wrong teenage lad to do it with backfired. She doesn’t then get to slag him off online, just because she made naive decisions. What if he started doing the same? What if he started telling 200k people on the internet personal stuff about their time together? I bet he and his family would portray her as a very different person to the Minnie brand she’s trying to build.

I agree, influencers need to disappear forever. They all need to go and get some self-awareness and therapy and take their lives off the internet.

You articulate so acuratley & perfectly Felicia!

 

[Goldfish]

Do we think Kyle actually moved in after his paternity leave, or was that all empty promises on his part?

It still seems so odd to me that they weren’t trialling cohabiting until after their baby arrived. All those evenings Minnie was posting stories of her and her kids in bed together, touching her bump, with no partner in sight, just gave me a massive sense of what was to come. She’ll be posting #singlemumof3 before the year’s out.

I thought this, maybe she’s gonna radio silent as it hasn’t worked out

 

[mindlesswaffle]

It’s either a baby or an engagement as it says our little secret. I still think baby because of all the pram talk previously and the three hearts

 

[Iamintherealworld]

On the note of safeguarding her children, I’ve a mind to contact social services after seeing this! This is just plain irresponsible!

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There’s a very good reason you’re not meant to give sparklers to children under 5 and why you should be instructing them to hold them at arms’ length, wearing gloves, and with strict supervision.

Her boy isn’t even 2 yet and nobody was even holding it with him?! And the way that little girl was waving the damn thing so close to her face! It’s a wonder her hair didn’t catch light or she didn’t end up with serious burns and scarred for life while her mum just looked on, phone in hand, getting “content”. Those things burn at temperatures 10x that of boiling water, they’re not toys! AND SHE GAVE THEM TO BARE HANDED TODDLERS! Absolute imbecile!

Who are the divs beside the kids egging this stupidity /danger on? Woman with glasses is that Kyle's Mother? If so, she should know better. She grabs the boys wrist and tells him to shake the sparkler.

Minnie needs guidance on parent craft and safeguarding from professionals to show her how to parent & safeguard her children. What else goes on. If she's put this on IG thinking this is acceptable!!!!.

I saw the IG post about warning to mothers of babies and children letting men in around them. It isn't rocket science..peados and abusers go where they can get prey. Until they are caught no one knows what they're up to and DBS checks are the same! Valid and clean until caught.

 

[byefeliciax]

No it’s cause she went on a blocking spree that day, I was blocked myself, she’s a cunt

Oh really?! What a twat! So she blocked all those people and then hasn’t even made the following back with what should be the most engaging content of hers for a while?

She’s just not popular or interesting enough to call this a viable career. It’s time to give up and give those children their privacy and dignity back.

 

[Squirrel3009]

Where has she disappeared too. I saw her deodorant ad and I hope she’s ok.

I saw her at a pumpkin patch last weekend. It felt weird because I when I saw her I thought she looked familiar and took a moment to realise where I recognised her from.

 

[Dwight]

Why has she decisively spelt it wrong... c'mon...

 

[byefeliciax]

Oh here we go, she’s on the grift for freebie dentistry now!

I was feeling a bit sorry for her, but now I remember that she’s an entitled little narcissist like every other influencer.

 

[DeloresBawbag]

I am often surprised at how much people spend on unnecessary stuff in the supermarket, particularly when they say they’re on a budget. When my second child was a few months old, my husband lost his job. I was on stat mat pay. To make our meagre savings stretch, I took out EVERYTHING unnecessary from the groceries. Even though that was 10 years ago now, those habits stuck.

Don’t buy squash or fizzy drinks or fruit juice. No convenience food. Batch prep homemade pasta and curry sauces. Look for yellow labels always. Never buy single use things like wipes or kitchen paper. Do buy fresh meat and veg and fruit, and huge discount bags of pasta and rice. Choose own brands or discount offers for toiletries.

It’s crazy how much money she’s wasted, while she is patting herself on the back for changing her habits.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

It’s not the first time she’s twisted things for public sympathy.

She shared some videos a while ago that were secret recordings of her “abusive” step dad. In the recordings she framed as devastating abuse and him kicking her out of her home, it was basically him saying something along the lines of, ‘Don’t come back to this house if you think it’s ok to speak to your mother like that!’. It just sounded like anyone trying to set boundaries with a salty teenager.

I’ve raised teenagers. I know all too well how they’ll take anything you say and spin it into, ‘It’s so unfair!’ - think Kevin and Perry. It’s an important evolutionary phenomenon: teenagers push parents away (and make themselves harder to be around) so they can fly the nest (and parents can let them go) to diversify the gene pool. These days they just don’t tend to diversify the gene pool straight away, multiple times in quick succession, with different fathers, and demand bigger council housing and more benefits with every baby...

I honestly don’t think I know anyone who has endured abuse and thought to whip out their phone to record it, and then captured something like that and thought, ‘Yup. That’s strong evidence to support my abuse claims, now I’m going to turn this into inspirational social media content so people can blow smoke up my arse’. As an outsider, it really didn’t translate the way her self-indulgent teenage brain heard it, and the way she’s spun this latest tragic tale makes it harder to believe that “abuse” wasn’t all completely exaggerated for effect.

She’s looking at the world through the lens of a child who only got their needs met when something dramatic happened. I imagine she was pretty much ignored and left to her own devices growing up because her parents were spread so thin between the what, 7 siblings? The squeakiest wheel got the oil I bet, and so I think she’s learned to weave drama out of scraps of negativity so that someone will pay her attention. It’s all a bit Boy who cried wolf now, and she’s playing a dangerous game to make claims that can be debunked in black and white. Nobody made fun of her weight or acne. She doesn’t even have acne, she gets some hormonal chin spots like we all do, that in itself proves how dishonest she’s

There's people following these accounts that do not see the bigger picture..will reach out feeling for them.

Look at the amount thinking she so wonderful turning her life around..18yo pregnant to get a council place. She said herself finally a mum aged 18.

 

[FeelingPrawny]

I wonder if she's factored in the actual cost of running a car. Not just tax, mot, insurance etc, but if something actually goes wrong with it. The costs of new tyres, an unexpected flat tyre, part of the engine going, cam belt, clutch breaks and discs. Ensuring that it's being serviced. General wear and tear. Breakdown cover. Factor in how much fuel costs and mpg. That cars need regular driving and not just short tootle journeys. Driving with kids is also a completely different experience to driving with them to drop-off just down the road.

 

[byefeliciax]

She’s definitely trying for baby number 3 before she’s even financially secure and adequately housed. I think it’s an unwise move because she’ll lose a lot more of the followers who followed her to see her finding her feet again. They didn’t follow to watch her spunk even more of their tax money on making the same reckless and immature decisions to procreate without a plan.

She claims she regrets getting rid of her favourite double Bugaboo buggy and doesn’t know why she did (because when you don’t have to actually earn what you have in life it’s easy not to appreciate the value of a £1.2k pram). She has now re-bought the same buggy for a quarter of the price on Facebook Marketplace (still ~£300 then) and is saying her eldest won’t need to use it much longer because she’s 4 this year. Then was it really an essential spend then, Miss ‘I’m Quitting Unnecessary Spending’? Quite clearly, she has every intention of needing a double buggy for the longer term.

 

[Goldfish]

I think my issue with the young/teen mums is they really try and glorify it and almost make it like a flex? Just to add, I was a teen mum, and then continued to have two other children by the time I was 23, granted I am now married to their dad and we’re currently pregnant with our 4th, but I’d never try and make it seem all sunshine and roses, I had to sacrifice my career as both the careers my husband and I had chosen were just not doable with having such young children, so he stayed doing that career and had worked his way up so much in the last however many years. But so many of them are so irresponsible with it and just rely on making tiktoks and people finding them relatable, which it really isn’t

 

[byefeliciax]

That reel like “Not sure where a cot will fit yet”…

Usually whether another child fits in your car or house is a consideration before trying for a new baby. She has plenty of room. She can get two sets of bunk beds in that larger bedroom easy - although that solution doesn’t make good for an “overcrowding” plea.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I really quite like her, but I feel she’s got very limited capacity to understand what she’s doing. She doesn’t strike me as very bright, nor is she surrounded by smart people or good role models.

She’s repeating what she lived, with a big of ‘I’ll be better at this,’ mixed in, and simply doesn’t see the risks she’s taking or the poor choices she’s making.

The speed with which her bf and his family got their claws into her and her kids is a big red flag.

I think she’s a sweet girl and I really hope it all works out for her the way she hopes.

I don't comment on here to like or dislike. My concerns are children's welfare, I'm outraged at the vast amount of children being put at risk online . It is modern day child labour and an extremely high safe guarding issue. This is why laws and policing are need in life because you get people who are like this for example.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Baby number 3?!?

Of course
More babies = more sponging and no proper going out to work supporting ourselves.

 

[byefeliciax]

Molly sent her a gift though. I wonder if they’ve slagged Alex off together

 

[mimidiamond]

Shes posted on a house exchange group on facebook looking for a 2/3 bed house in a diff area so can have more help from family ... shes just decorated her house , and probally running out of content ideas