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Iamintherealworld

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She needs to do her own reseach and watch The Dark Side of Showing Your Kids Online.

And. What about the long term affects on the bloody victims of all this - the children in years to come. Their MH. The impact and toll it takes on them having their formative years publicised and monitised. They cant give consent to what is shared about them as children. Omg, it makes me absolutely furious.
 
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Dwight

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This is probably a bit weird for me to say but I'm actually so disappointed that she's gotten pregnant again in such circumstances... don't get me wrong, I'm not naive enough to believe the poorly curated persona of a young doting mother that she tries to display online, or that her "origin" story isn't heavily embellished. It's just always sad to see anybody come from poverty and council roots repeating the cycles, especially so when it's clear they are very aware of said cycles existing. This just really cements that she is a very selfish person with zero consideration or ambitions to provide a decent life for herself or her children.

I feel for those two kids - it's pretty clear they already don't get enough focused attention from her, now that's about to reduce even more. On another note (kind of) she's a first class twat for getting a kitten whilst pregnant, obviously without any intention to actually care for it. How long until that gets rehomed or lashed outside do we think??
 
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byefeliciax

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Not only is she shouting to a public audience of creeps on the internet about being a single mum and living alone in the Norfolk area with two tiny and recognisable children, but now she’s showing off a fully identifiable car and promoting that it will soon be sold on Facebook Marketplace…

This girl has absolutely no clue how to safeguard herself or her children, she’s a risk to them. I’m seriously considering putting in a report, I’m scared for them. She doesn’t care as long as she’s getting likes and praise! It’s tragic. All it’s going to take is for one of the creeps to arrange to look at the car and they will be able to narrow down her location. How stupid and desperate for attention can you get?!

Did anyone else watch the Netflix documentary about kidfluencing? There were some seriously scary stats about how the majority of engagement on posts about kids were… weird men. Why would you risk it?
 
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Iamintherealworld

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She is dining out on the pregnancy. Another post👀

This announcement has got this thread talking with more people too.

I give it 18 mths to 2 years before baby No4.
 
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byefeliciax

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Her mum really does look like a stereotype, doesn’t she? Multiple kids from multiple dads, a massive council house, no teeth, no class, sounds thick as pig shit. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was in on Minnie’s “homelessness” to free up some space for her other 5 kids. If she told the college and the council she wouldn’t take Minnie back after their falling out, then they would be forced to help Minnie find accommodation, but when that was only a hostel I bet her mum told her if she was pregnant she’d get it all for nothing like she always has. She got a one bed with one baby, then got pregnant again straight away and upgraded to two. That’ll all be on her chav mum’s advice of how to play the system.
 
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byefeliciax

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I thought she knew some of the risks her children are vulnerable to because for a very short time she was blurring their faces, but in hindsight I think that was just performative and she genuinely is that brainless and naive.

It’s either pure stupidity or that the engagement dropped, and validation from strangers was more important to her than protecting her kids from dirty men on the internet.

You only have to scroll through her followers to see how many dirty men who don’t even interact with her posts are watching her and her kids. Of course they’re watching her! She looks like a 12 year old with massive tits, and she freely shares her children with them. She’s a torpedo’s dream account, they don’t even need to go to the dark web for their fap fodder.
 
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Goldfish

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I'm an austistic adult who is hyperlexic so I just want to chime in here to say that hyperlexic kids very commonly turn into quite academically burnout and exhausted adults. Please look out for that if you suspect your kids fall into that category. Please be mindful of celebrating them without unintentionally pushing their special interests, intelligence or academic achievements as their personality wholly, or what makes them "them" if you will ...it's a hard identity shift to unravel in adulthood. Also it's quite often diagnosed alongside autism, it was a major part of my autism being diagnosed as a child. I flew under the radar a lot due to being academically focused and articulate from a very young age. While some of this may sound positive please just be aware that it can actually be quite an all encompassing hyperfixation that distracts from other developmental or social milestones, that inherently internalises a connect between self esteem and productivity.

Other than that, any specifically themed encyclopedia, interesting looking thesaurus' or games centred around words have always been a favorite item of mine to be gifted, and very much still are. Do with that whatever you will lol.
That is actually very informative, so thank you!! We do try and make sure it isn’t a big focal point of his personality, we can definitely see adhd/autism traits in our son that is only now being recognised by the school, he’s about to start year 4, due to the fact he absolutely thrives academically
 
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Iamintherealworld

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She’s calling him husband now 😂
Wants Kyle to put a ring on it ! 💍 then big white poppy show wedding 👰‍♀ Kyle ain't interested in these rings that's for sure

How long we we give this relationship?

If she was so abused by her STEP FATHER. Why have strangers around her very young kids? Wouldn't she be overly cautious ? Oh wait. These idiots won't stop the dysfunctional cycle.

No sympathy at all for woman that pimp.kids online and invite men early in the relationship to their home with their kids around.


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byefeliciax

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I just can’t believe for a second she was spending all those hundreds of pounds on an NIPT test privately to find out the sex of a 9 week fetus, especially when she’s not raking in the money and (sorry if this sounds insensitive) she’d allegedly not long miscarried, and knew she wasn’t in that ‘safe zone’ second trimester.

Also at that time she was a) on benefits, b) struggling to buy a car outright because she’d spent all her money on driving lessons, and so c) had just committed to a ‘66 plate Nissan Juke for nearly £11,000 on finance (so repayments are probably around £250 a month… out of her measly benefits). There’s no way early sex testing was a funding priority, and if it was then she’s dumber than I first thought.

Of course the boyfriend’s family might have paid for it, but I doubt the average family is jumping for joy and excited enough about gender when their 22 year old son has just knocked up a scrounging single mother he’s only known a few weeks.
 
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byefeliciax

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I can’t stop seeing the word mango when I’ve seen her posts.

She’s still got time to change it before she registers the birth, don’t lumber the poor kid with a lifetime of corrections like you say.
She won’t care, she’s not mature enough to look that far into the future. It’s just a game of mummies and daddies!
 
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MissWinnie

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I wonder if they just had a bit of a barny about him moving in because he decided not to yet, but they are still technically in a relationship? I can imagine that would be an upsetting pill to swallow after she’d been promised Happy Families from paternity leave onwards?

Let’s face it, he’s probably on alright money for a young single man living at home, but not to support a whole family on. She’s got very little income to contribute from social media, young children she can’t leave to get a real job, and she would lose her benefits with his income. It would be a big financial responsibility for the lad, to provide for a partner (with her financed car/home bits on credit/other debts), a baby, and two children he didn’t make.

There don’t seem to be any signs of him in her content recently. There’s a massive pile of junk in her garden that you’d think he might have taken to the tip for her, none of his clothes on the line, and she’s posted in bed with all 3 kids no Kyle, etc.
She wouldn’t admit to there being issues just yet because it would confirm what so many are likely to be thinking. She’s still so young, she had plenty of time to see how things went with him but instead chose to get knocked up, not once but twice before they’d even been together a year. She also brought a man into her children’s home when she didn’t really know him at all. He’s probably a nice guy but being young himself, not everyone is cut out to take on another persons kids and then find out you have one of your own on the way. I can’t help but think she’s quite a difficult girl to deal with sometimes as well.

I feel for the three little ones :(
 
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byefeliciax

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Do we think Kyle actually moved in after his paternity leave, or was that all empty promises on his part?

It still seems so odd to me that they weren’t trialling cohabiting until after their baby arrived. All those evenings Minnie was posting stories of her and her kids in bed together, touching her bump, with no partner in sight, just gave me a massive sense of what was to come. She’ll be posting #singlemumof3 before the year’s out.
 
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byefeliciax

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I Am Mum Bum posted recently in response to people criticising her adverts saying they were tired of seeing so many accounts sharing the same boring shite. She basically said it wasn’t up to her how many influencers a brand hired at once, she just gets offered a deal and if it aligns with who she is and she believes in the product she’ll take the pay and the script and promote the product. Girl’s making a living! (Without sharing her kids’ private details and faces, I hasten to add…)

Unfortunately though, not many influencers have that kind of integrity to turn down a deal if it doesn’t represent who they are. Small time influencers like Minnie are so so so desperate for validation and recognition they’ll take anything. The JamDoughnut thing is a classic example: She’s never spoken about budgeting or showed any interest in being money conscious (quite the opposite!) until she got offered that deal. Now she’s trying to make it her personality. It’s so false and obviously so.

Influencer marketing is basically clever people using dumb and vain and insecure people to sell products to dumb and vain and insecure people.
 
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byefeliciax

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Seeing how she has played out for the last few months makes me even more convinced she elaborated about her so called child hood abuse to gain a council place. Then used some fool to get herself pregnant not once but twice then another fool.
I’m even doubting her miscarriage now. Not only because of the timings, but I think she’s damaged and scheming and emotionally manipulative enough to have made it up to make people feel guilty for speculating on a pregnancy she wasn’t ready to announce yet. She has said in the past she has a personality disorder.
 
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Iamintherealworld

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Those tests say 1-2 weeks but that means 1-2 weeks post conception (the way Americans measure it), so actually 3-4 weeks the way the English measure it.

It does look like she’s about 20 weeks so maybe the August photo shoot with the kids and scan picture was the baby she lost. Which is sad in any situation, to have lost a baby especially at a gestation where they’re somewhat developed, but that does also mean that she got pregnant within 2 months of knowing her new boyfriend. That’s absolutely disgustingly irresponsible. “Accidents happen” but when you already have two toddlers, you know how those accidents happen, and you do more to avoid it.

Of course it won’t have been an accident. She’ll have kids by another two fathers yet.
She is doing an update about 'how life has really been'. If this is the sob story put out.i hope followers see how irresponsible & scheming she is. Two pregnancies with a guy not known a year.

Have you seen in comments, you are such a good mum. Really? Inviting random men into the house aroind her kids, exposing them online, giving them sparklers inadequately dressed ect.and way back a really bad safeguarding isssue. Young ppl in her home, cant remember the story. She ended up locked out of her home.!
 
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lisaaaah

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Has anyone else seen Minnie’s latest insta stories about being homeless and having to sleep outside? I thought it might’ve been a dig at Alex who wasn’t actually “homeless” in the literal sense of the word.
Erm actually Alex had to sleep on a mattress in her dads box room, I’d say she definitely had it way worse 🙃😏 or she’d like us to believe that anyway lol
I hope it is a dig at Alex because she’s realised that no matter how much she begs it in Alexs comments, she will never get to be her friend lol
 
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