Minniharrisuk #1

[byefeliciax]

There’s no way benefits money covers all of that, she’ll be up to her eyeballs in credit cards and Klarna. But by showing off what she’s spending without saying how, she perpetuates the problematic false narrative that benefits cover a more comfortable lifestyle than working.

 

[byefeliciax]

Why is she thinking more babies and bigger council houses instead of just getting a job and working together with her boyfriend to save to buy something together? I mean, he was able to spend £400 on a ring for a girl’s birthday when he’d known less than 6 months, so surely he’s got money to save? She seemed prepared to settle down and have a baby with him, why should the taxpayer continue facilitating that decision for them both? Why does she even need a bigger house anyway? Her kids are tiny, they’re fine to share for a good while yet.

I admired Minnie at the beginning, she seemed to be a sweet, misguided soul who was making the best out of a bad situation. But the more she posts, the less likeable she becomes. She comes across as an entitled brat who had those children to game the system. Most would think moving to a bigger house is a huge goal. Not Minnie! She’s always had houses just handed on a plate hasn’t she, easy peasy.

 

[byefeliciax]

She’ll be honey trapping him in no time and on the housing list for a 3 bed

 

[Iamintherealworld]

More vague “U ok hun”/“I’ll PM you hun” typed posts. Such a massive attention seeker, it’s tragic.

It's like the the Facebook Hospital check-in posts..Here Again .all for attention and the you OK HUN. PM me or I'll PM you.dont mention the struggles, simple. Life is busy with 2 very young children. Learn the art of demplomacy.

But, this is life! Life is defo not easy, anyone who says it is, is a fool..we all have to take the crap, move on, build resilience, learn and use coping strategies for the next lot of shite. People that know me and my life well. say I could write a book. What I endured as a child, teen, young adult, adult. When you have zero good parental foundations and home is as dysfunctional as can be, no siblings (well you do but they have inherited the Narc and Physc gene) (your solid rock family members have passed on ) going through life is incredibly difficult. I have cycle broken . I have not come from the stereotypical lower class dysfunction, we had money, parents spent mainly on themselves and used money as a dangling carrot. The dysfunction went on around the world, everywhere we went. Parents were very well connected.

Minnie has started off very young with huge responsibility having kids so young. My children's NHS red books from birth are 0 to age 25. Research has shown children are children for much younger than previously thought (the brain)

If she was hospitalised for any length of time or treated for cancer she'd be in a children's ward herself.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I thought the same. Isn’t the point of a sling that it’s hands free?

Spraying chemicals around a newborn with its head hanging loose.

 

[byefeliciax]

Finally got fed up of Kyle not committing to their little family

She strikes me as the sort of girl who would rather be with someone inconsistent than nobody at all though. I hope they haven’t split, that would be rather embarrassing after her immature rush to play happy families in public view, and devastating for her kids.

I really hope it’s just that she’s seen sense about trying to make a living selling her children to strangers. Hopefully Kyle or his/her family have had words with her, she stopped posting their faces on her page a while ago so maybe they weren’t happy to be public and have said they’re not happy for her to jeopardise the children either. Now they can all live happily ever after in private.

Time for a proper job soon, and to stop trying to make a quick buck out of breeding and broadcasting her babies.

 

[byefeliciax]

She’s either thick or rage baiting at this point. She’s told someone in the comments that she only has sandals and wellies and learned in wellies and she researched whether it was illegal!

Ok then Minnie, well done for researching whether it was legal to drive in stupid shoes, but did you research whether it’s safe? I could perfectly legally drink a pint of vodka and take myself off for a swim in the sea. It’s legal, but not exactly advisable is it.

It worries me that I drive on the same roads as cocksure idiots like this.

 

[byefeliciax]

We might get the maternity photo shoot (another money making service really not needed just utter comercialism) pics before birth pics.

I hope they did a homemade shoot and it wasn’t just another obscene waste of benefits for the sake of keeping up appearances when she owns a decent camera herself.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

She was hashtagging #singlemum up until the 30th of January.

Six weeks later, on the 17th of March, she said she “started seeing someone” in a video where he was already around her kids.

They’ve known each other, what, 8 months? And I think there’s a good chance she’s already 3 months pregnant.

This will all end in tears.

I doubt it will end I tears. The kids will grow up

The guy just looks like a total creep. His family look well off and he’s been love bombing showering Minnie and the children with generous gifts since really early on, it just makes me wonder what he could possibly want with getting tied to a single mum with responsibilities at his age when he’s carefree and loaded with cash?

He was spending time with the little ones straight away, there was a gross video of him doing panelling topless, and a picture of him holding the little girl where her knickers are on display. He’s got too comfortable too quickly in my view. There’s no way in hell I would allow that as a mother, I’d be a lot more suspicious than naive Minnie.

Could not agree more.

When disasters happen and people reel off their sob story with long sad faces it really angers me. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY. Us on here saying showing children on socials is NOT bullying or trolling, it is a fact it is a safeguarding issue. (Remember when she said she felt worried and trolled but then wasn't so started exposing the kids faces again). Bringing anyone into your life no matter what the relationship is, cleaner, nanny, gardeners, new partner - anyone. if they are close to your children you need to protect/shield the children.

A good sensible mother would date and not introduce her partner/s for a long time, until she knew the person quite well it is not good for children either to see men come and go in their mothers life.

And remember. Peodos go where children are!!! They are not labelled a pedalo until they are caught. Something my parents always said when I was young (Gen X) so were always highly vigilant and told me to tell them of any dodgy behaviour. These things aren't new my mother was touched up by a perv man in a swimming pool as a child in the 50s.

Statistically, any abuse is the highest from people we actually know.

 

[da_foooke?!]

Still has cheese strings whole on the same plate though...can't teach stupid!

Hi Minnie you clearly read here

 

[byefeliciax]

The life update post, been too busy to do anything, it's a busy time of year with birthdays, Christmas. Errrrr..how on earth does she think working parents with young children do it all?! Nursery/childminder/preschool/school drops. Uncertainty of school hols childcare and sickness childcare.

Exactly this! No employer is giving anyone all of November and December off to just play happy families. She’s so out of touch. If she wants social media to be her “career” and pay her a living then she needs to treat it like a job and actually show up, no wet excuses. Instead she treats it like a hobby. In fact, no, she doesn’t even do that! People dedicate far more time in the week to even hobbies!

It’s outright offensive to claim content creation is your job for which you are owed a lifestyle of luxuries and big ticket items that you show off, but then you give it 10 minutes a week of your time, whilst simultaneously claiming benefits and living in housing subsidised by the tax payer.

I liked her in the beginning but she’s put me right off.

 

[byefeliciax]

More vague “U ok hun”/“I’ll PM you hun” typed posts. Such a massive attention seeker, it’s tragic.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

*GRIFTING

Probably knows no better. The mother must have a lot of kids and big house being paid for by the Government, doubt she has worked much herself..Minnie needs to look around, learn and cycle break.

 

[byefeliciax]

She’s clearly tactically leaving big gaps between posting now, because she’s lapping up all the “any signs yet hun?” messages.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I agree about women getting the harsher end of the criticism, and I would usually say “it takes two to tango” and that a man is just as responsible for taking precautions (if not more so, since their precautions don’t have to tamper with hormones) but in this instance we know Minnie already has form for trying to force family on naive, horny boys because she’s lonely and damaged and thinks creating the family she never had will repair her wounds. She’s oblivious to repeating cycles and instead inflicting the wounds on her own kids.

They definitely weren’t using contraception. Including the miscarriage she claims, she was pregnant twice within 3 months of knowing him (and 4 times in 3 years), no contraception fails someone that badly. Most contraceptions are over 99% effective when used properly, and there is always the option to double up too. They should have been using condoms from an STI perspective anyway!

They have all been planned pregnancies on her part, I would put money on it. That’s why I feel more for the lad who was duped. She’s a serial breeder and he fell in the trap!

'Finally pregant' her own words. Aged 18..says it all !!!!

2 pregnancies within a couple of months with Kyle says it all!!!!

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I know, I noticed. The safety risk too when she was going to put the MINI on Facebook Marketplace (did someone comment about the saftey risk, think someone did)

I worry about selling on Marketplace . Years ago before it was common here. A murderer in the USA was getting victims on a USA s selling site. Because MP is linked to FB - depending on how tight and secure your FB profile is.

 

[Fauxphiehinchcliffe]

Free dentistry doesn’t always cover getting teeth straightened I would imagine. Surely it would just be stuff the nhs would cover?

j ahve some wonky teeth as I had epilepsy as a child and wasn’t allowed a brace. I have an nhs dentist (I pay the charges so it’s not free but that would be what Minnie is entitled to if anything). They tried to flog me various teeth straightening systems - none of it covered by nhs.

 

[rosieflowers]

I wonder if Kyle has 'moved in' and supporting his ready made family or are they doing the woman stays on government handouts and the BF stays the maximum number of days a week allowed before he has to contributefinancially!

He's 100% moved in but not on paper ‍ such gross leeching behaviour

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I wonder if Kyle has 'moved in' and supporting his ready made family or are they doing the woman stays on government handouts and the BF stays the maximum number of days a week allowed before he has to contributefinancially!

 

[byefeliciax]

I’m sure she’ll settle fine, she seems like a confident little character and kids are resilient and catch up. I do agree that she’s missed out on a big chunk of learning and socialising opportunities, but that’s not the end of the world. My main point was that this late application just appears symptomatic of Minnie’s parenting being “picture perfect” rather than actually child-focussed. If she were child-focussed, she wouldn’t be exposing those children online.