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I know that she says her lad gets better support out there but ever since she moved to America she has said she’s lonely, her mental health has suffered, she sacrificed time with her mum, her boy has no family over there. Now that she’s spilt up with him you’d think she would come home. Can’t beat having your family around you for support and she always said they was a close family.. It’s very odd why she would want to stay as for the last four years been moaning.
I can understand her not wanting to return to wallsall, feeling like a failure etc if she returned to the same streets, but the UK is a huge place. She could make a new life here within 30mins/1hour drive to her dads and it would be amazing for keegan to be around his cousins and family weekly/monthly. Maybe she still sees her stepkids and wants to keep that relationship going though by staying over there. Or like someone else mentioned she may be back on the dating scene.
Her shares on insta are getting abit embarrassing now
Me to other wise she would have ran home she has missed home so much while there and hates her working life something is keeping her there and it ain't mark
Agreed!! She would have jogged over, unless there’s money involved.
I don’t think she’s met another man. She won’t get any support from Mark if she leaves but if she stays then it’s his responsibility to make sure she doesn’t fall below the poverty line which is around $1800 a month. Plus she doesn’t need to be married or even in contact with him to get support.
Either way she’s not putting Kegan first. I’ve got an autistic 8 year old nephew here and an autistic 6 year old nephew in England and I can tell you now the support isn’t that much different, neither better or worse. Kegan will get support in England for his autism but he’ll also have family and his dad. She needs to stop trying to dance on TikTok at her big age dressed like John Cena and make sure her son’s needs are being met. It’s really odd to me.
Either way she’s not putting Kegan first. I’ve got an autistic 8 year old nephew here and an autistic 6 year old nephew in England and I can tell you now the support isn’t that much different, neither better or worse. Kegan will get support in England for his autism but he’ll also have family and his dad. She needs to stop trying to dance on TikTok at her big age dressed like John Cena and make sure her son’s needs are being met. It’s really odd to me.
Is 1800 Dollars enough to realistically live on out there though? Does she still work? Is there a welfare system like over here she'd be getting various supports for Keegan
She needs to earn that as a minimum I think and if she doesn’t then mark has to step in but she’d get Medicaid, snap benefits (food stamps) and low income housing. I know green card holders are entitled to things like that and I think having a child with a disability may entitle you to more.Is 1800 Dollars enough to realistically live on out there though? Does she still work? Is there a welfare system like over here she'd be getting various supports for Keegan
it’s really confusing and it’s not something I’ve done personally, I just read about it while going through my own immigration process so it may be slightly different now under Trump. Basically the citizen sponsoring your green card application has to sign a bunch of forms saying they’ll financially support you until you permanently leave or die.
Hmmm interesting to know not that I will ever put myself in this situation.
Well if he’s abusive then she really really needs to leave the US —because if what you are all saying re him having to support her unless she leaves the country or dies - by being there her abuser has a vested interest in her being dead and that is a terrifying thought.
I thought her son was going with her? He’s going himself to the father and step mom …
She said she is going too, maybe she is coming back while her son spends time with his dad for the summer.
She will have to go back for work I’m sure
She is going over for 2 weeks I think she said and then she will fly back to America. While her son will spend the rest of the time in England with his dad and step mum for the summer.
That actually is a really scary thought. He would end up in temporary foster care until one of her family comes to get him. Then they would be vetted and looked into by social services, they can look into UK backgrounds etc here. I would definitely want to be around my family and support system if I have a child. She's being a bit selfish keeping her son from his family and support system.
She posts about how hard it is having an autistic son, but it wouldn't be as hard if she was at home with support. She's putting them through this, for what?
I don't think she will go back surely not why would she. I have a feeling it's all a big lie to get home and stay home and I think she would be right to stay in the UK.
I’ve no idea why she would want to stay out there. It’s no fun in America unless you’re loaded which they clearly are not. If she stays. I agree with above comments, she must have a new man, which would tie in with her leaving Keegan over here for weeks so she can go and be with the new man in America, where it’s the holidays so she wouldn’t have school to pap him into.