I think anyone who comes onto a forum and passes judgement on a user looking for support or reassurance needs to take themselves right back off again.
No reason for anyone to judge you! Life happens and sometimes it happens at the wrong time. It doesn’t make you a bad person for questioning the impact a baby would have on you and your family, get yourself out of hospital and out of pain (hopefully) and then make a decision as a couple as to what you want to do. You absolutely will make it work if you do find yourself with two babies but you have options and choices and you will do whatever if best for you all.Thank you all for your lovely and non judgemental replies xx
Surely they should be testing your hcg levels after 48 hrs as they should double in that time! Maybe request they do your bloods sooner xThanks everyone. Still getting pain from the gallstones but trying to avoid pain killers as much as possible. I’ve decided I’d like to keep the baby. But it depends what the blood tests say on Friday, if the pregnancy is viable or not. So I’m trying my best not to get too excited until we’ve had those results which will prob be sometime next week.
Aww, yes we planned to have a 3-4 year age gap. Worrying about paying nursery etc for 2 kids too, but I suppose you just find a way to make it work when it happens.I found out I was pregnant when my daughter was 9 months old actually sobbed my heart out I was so shocked but went ahead with the pregnancy. There was 17 months in between which is hard as they’re both in nappies have bottles etc but in all honesty it’s the best thing I ever did! They’re now 9 and 8 and really close. I always said I would wait till my daughter was around 3 to have another 1 but glad I didn’t it was great doing the baby stages at the same time instead of going back to it after so many years xx
so sorry to hear this. Hope you’re physically and mentally better soon. Lots of love.Just to update everyone. I’m back in hospital with Pancreatitis which is absolute agony. And I’m also miscarrying the baby. I started bleeding yesterday afternoon and my bloods have confirmed the hcg is gone. Thank you all for your support etc.
So sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of love and strength. Be gentle on yourself xxxJust to update everyone. I’m back in hospital with Pancreatitis which is absolute agony. And I’m also miscarrying the baby. I started bleeding yesterday afternoon and my bloods have confirmed the hcg is gone. Thank you all for your support etc.