I was surprised to find a Michelle thread. She has started to irritate me lately and I can’t put my finger on it. I know she’s always been a vlogger, but I just find it all so try-hard now, the whole appeal of her earlier videos was how candid she appeared to be. Now it’s just constantly staged cringe shots. The content is just so boring now. I really enjoy her cooking vlogs though.
As for Ivan, I got the impression that she was the problem in the relationship from some of her comments post breakup. I’m only speculating, but she comes across as needy, immature and attention seeking and Ivan seemed a bit more mature than her. They just weren’t a good match and I was dumbfounded when they got back together.
I find it interesting she seems to find men with exceptional jobs, that are high-earning. She is not really relatable anymore. I doubt her parents are financially supporting her, they seem to live and work quite humbly.
Idk what the deal is with Esther and Freesia, I love them though, they seem like genuine girls, but Michelle acts like a princess.
Sigh. Why is it so “interesting” that Michelle seems to find men who are high earners with exceptional jobs ? What is wrong with that ?
I have seen a lot of replies about Ivan, her ex boyfriend, being a lawyer. However, in a q&a she posted with him, the thumbnail is of him and her in the car, she states that she pays for dates often times. So like ??? Lol.
Look at statistics. Culturally, Asians , including Indians choose high paying jobs because their / our parents force us to focus on school. We value education in our culture. This is the norm, all of my ex boyfriends have been doctors or engineers (I am an engineer as well thou ).
Anyway, it’s annoying and screams of jealousy or nitpicking when people on this thread bring up her dating high earners / career men.
If you had the chance too, you probably would too.

Michelle , if you are reading this, don’t feel bad for dating men with value. We don’t even get universal paid maternity leave in this country. We could risk our lives and give birth to a baby in this country and not even have adequate time off. Femicide. The glorification of the “Dad bod” yet women (who actually give birth to the baby) are expected to snap back ASAP. Men leave their sick or chronically ill wives so much that nurses are taught to warn women when they are diagnosed. This is a great video detailing everything I just said with studies and examples ;
**used women / woman Bc that’s what I identify as **
Anyway, I feel like Michelle is definitely lacking. Like she has no substance in her videos. I don’t know how to explain it. Like her videos aren’t deep or anything they’re just vlogs and I feel like we barely know her. Her connection with her subscribers has no substance, does this make sense ?